What are some things you think locker your partner into you?

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Curious on hearing stories from women who knew when they had their partner locked in and what it was that did it!!

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  1. coffeewalnut05 Avatar

    My playfulness and passion.

  2. Random_Girl_0 Avatar

    He thought I was silly and cute

  3. clumpavis Avatar

    I think it was when I supported his goals and was there for him during a tough time. He told me later that’s when he knew I was different and wanted to stick around.

  4. searedscallops Avatar

    I’m very structured and organized – and he needs that external structure to thrive.

  5. Intrepid-Penalty-169 Avatar

    He felt that I could make him see things in new ways and he felt that was very important for him.

  6. Kagura0609 Avatar

    It’s a bit hard to pin down, but I will try:

    • I smile a lot (he struggles with bad moods, for example during winter or if things don’t work out well)
    • I stand up to him/ people in general and have my own opinion (we discuss a LOT of topics lol, like politics etc)
    • I am confident in my abilities and don’t rely on men/ people, not for attention and not for getting things fixed around the house etc.
    • I have a healthy understanding of what I want in my relationship and what I want to give and receive (especially in comparison to his exes). That also leads to the fact that I am not dependent on my partner
    • I am still cute and girly and love romance, he is courting me a lot haha

    Edit after I reread the question: it was not one big moment but rather several small ones where I could see him falling in love more and more 💕

  7. BelleInBinary Avatar

    Most likely my laid-back, quiet vibe and the fact that I’m a good cook.