What are some valid reasons for declining to be a bridesmaid when asked to be in a friend’s wedding?

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Is it always rude no matter what to say no?

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  1. msstark Avatar

    Any reason is a valid reason. We’re not close enough, I can’t afford it financially, I can’t deal with it mentally, etc.

    Also “I don’t want to”, but that’s for someone way farther into their therapy path than I am right now.

  2. 68GreyEyes Avatar

    You don’t have to give a reason, just say no. You can be polite about it and appreciative for being asked. If they push for a reason then tell them if you want or if you don’t want to tell them just say it’s personal and you don’t want to say anything more about it.