Everything about me is average, simple social media posts, selfies ultra rare. It happened to me twice that random women msged me on IG, both from different countries who just came across my profile (it’s public). In both cases, the profiles were real (as eventually we video-called). They didn’t ask me for anything so I don’t think it’s a scam. Am I missing something? Am I just daft? Or it this a long con?
What are you experiences with dms from random women?
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Some wanted clarification or to keep talking about something I commented. One wanted to see dick pics. That one was random.
> What are you experiences with dms from random women?
> random women msged me on IG, both from different countries
Yup, safely far enough away that you will never meet in person. Or you won’t ask to.
> They didn’t ask me for anything so I don’t think it’s a scam.
They will. They’re softening you up. Eventually you’ll get some sob story about how they can’t pay rent or they lost their job. Or some long con scam.
One time some random woman messaged me and started getting really friendly. Sent me some bikini pics (almost certainly not really her). Then she’s like “HOly cow! I just made $5,000 today on this gold investing app. Here’s a screenshot….”
Yup, she did all that to try to pull me into this app/scam. I doubt it was ever really a woman at all.
Bots/scammers most of the time
If you’re really hot or rich you’ll get local women who wanna bang
OF models trying to get me to sub (not interested),
Some nice friendly messages from kind women.
Some angry messages because they didn’t like my answer on something.
I once had a woman send me a unsolicited nude pic and ask me to judge her boob’s. I just ignored her and wish she wouldn’t ask random men on reddit to judge her body.
I had another woman ask me where I lived exactly and block me when I said I don’t feel comfortable giving out such personal details.
I only get DMs on reddit. Since i have no other social media platforms apart from Facebook and I have that where no one but friends can message me.
I don’t think I’ve ever had any
Mostly bots outside reddit, on reddit it’s mostly women that wants to talk more about a topic from a post but it’s rare in the first place.
And one time it was to tag me in a NSFW post from a R18 content seller.
My current girlfriend DM’ed me on Twitter 13 years ago. We are still together. I just…won the lottery, lol
I assume they are all guys.