What are your genuine honest thoughts on dating an inexperienced girl?

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Genuinely. Let’s say you’re on a first date and notice she’s closed off, inexperienced. Doesn’t seem to be fun on the short term

Comments

  1. sgt-lawlcats Avatar

    I guess it depends but a lack of experience means there’s a lot more to teach… with grapefruits for example

  2. --MobTowN-- Avatar

    I feel like this is kinda age dependent. It’s going to be more common the younger you are and the younger your dating pool is and should be approached with tact, kindness, and a soft heart.

    At some point, though, you may decide yer just too damn old to be teaching your partner how to ride a bike.

  3. Spaufadlspion Avatar

    I do not care at all as long as she is motivated.

  4. rotcomha Avatar

    I’m on the younger side of the population and of I’m dating I’m looking for long term relationships, so I don’t care.

  5. Destiny091 Avatar

    I don’t mind playing a teaching role as long as the inexperienced is open minded.

    But this is pretty age dependent, I would find it a bit odd if they’re older than 26 and have no idea how to date.

  6. GideonZotero Avatar

    That’s not how lack of experience looks like. That’s just someone being shy. Lack of experience looks like a big eyed princess that thinks she is all that, and just beating her eye lashes makes them immune to the evil of humanity. Inexperience is partying with thugs because they told you you’re cool like that. Inexperience means you think “just this one time” doesn’t have consequences.

    In general I think they don’t understand just how easy to manipulate they are, and just how fragile the power of “hotness” is.

  7. AddictedToMosh161 Avatar

    Closed off would not register with me as inexperienced 😀

  8. LCxxxPT Avatar

    In my initial years of dating would be ” OK ‘

    If i already had some dates / girls would be ” I’m more experienced “

    Basicaly, doesn’t matter.

  9. Sev80per Avatar

    what does mean “closed off”.

    this has nothing to do with inexperienced.

    If she engage and participate in conversations and activities, inexperience is not a problem.

    could be fun to share with her the discovery

  10. HeraThere Avatar

    I’ve been with very experienced girls that are closed off. So that’s not necessarily related.

  11. Dogstile Avatar

    Ignoring the closed off = inexperienced part, because i disagree.

    It just means you get to teach them, not really an issue. Rather that than a girl who’s only experience is a dude who insists a man can’t get up without a grapefruit up his asshole or something.