What can women say or do before and during the deed that will turn you on? I want to please my man, I want him to want me bad. All comments are welcome and appreciated. Thank you!
What can women say or do before and during the deed to turn you on?
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Anything works on us really, especially lingerie.
Otherwise say things like ‘I want your cock in my mouth’.
Depends what you guys are into as well, like I’d change my answer or make it less generalised if you were into kinky stuff?
Affirmation. Say what you love about him. “Fuck me, daddy” gets me ramped up in the middle, making waves.
Enthusiasm and actual interest.
“You can fuck me if you want” initiates my launch sequence.
Just moan when shits working and don’t when it’s not
Kiss kiss bang bang
Stroke my face lovingly
Tell me they love me
Call me a good boy
Hold me close
Kiss me
Lick their legs around me
Being into it, moaning, telling me exactly what she wants
Before:
Damn that ass looks good in them jeans!
Also, admiring a man’s chest is always a turn on.
(Then again I have low self esteem, so YMMV)
During
Right there don’t stop!
Show your tits, touch his pee pee. It isn’t difficult.
enthusiasm in general, say things talking about how sex in general is fun and you actually want to have it
Have a pussy. Be willing to let me put my weiner in there…that’s about it.
I gotta pee.
That one always cracks me up
How good it feels to ____
We are not the ones to tell you this. If you want to know what gets your man going, ask him. Every man I know, myself included is incredibly turned on our partner truly wanting to know what gets us going, genuinely hearing our response and acting on it. Most men feel like and have learned that their wants and desires don’t matter to others, and have learned to disregard our own wishes and just take what we get.
Before: “I’m wet” 😩
During: Saying my name, saying please, and telling me not to stop
After: “oh my god” 😩
The main thing is enthusiasm. Just laying there and making a guy do all the work is the worst. We want to know you’re into it, that you’re having fun, and that we’re making you feel good.
Give us a little direction too. I’m happy to try a few things out and see if you’re into it. But if I’m not getting any positive feedback, sorry, I’m just going get off and be done. You can go finger yourself in the bathroom…
A compliment.
What deed?
“Wow, you are doing sex on me so well and hard babby!”
Let him know what you want him to do to you.
Have fun, make sure you cum, be into it and when you finish, want to do it again.
“Im ovulating”
I am into BDSM so …
Being called Daddy. Being attemptively seduced. Being told I own your pussy. That you want me to use it “insert way you want it to be used”
Talking openly about how much you love the feeling of my cock sliding in and out of you etc etc
“Hoist me feets and wiggle yee kraken into me depths! Bang on me ocean floor till ye see Davey Jones locker! Arrrrr!
Never tell him his dick is small or insufficient in any way. If you can, always remind him how big it is. Always.
My wife will sometimes say “God you’re so big” and I pretty much instantly nut. So be careful what you say lol
“Oh God” is also nice especially when she bites my shoulder. That’s when I know I’m doing really well.
Want some Nachos?
yaar fir vahi, sax suxx ki baatien..
Don’t be a dead duck. Be alive Participate, talk, laugh
“Nice cock bro”
Before: Fuck me.
During: Fuck me.
After: Fuck me again.
“I want you” is always good to hear
“Cum for me baby” drives me wild, IDK why but it works.
“Let’s order some wings.”
Nah, I will not participate in male manipulation
You know how women have a long list of requirements like initiating, compliments, teasing, foreplay, etc… before actually to things?
Yeah, do that but for men.