What commonly used phrase really “irks” you?

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What commonly used phrase really “irks” you?

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  1. Superchecker Avatar

    At work: “Optimization” usually means a reduction of service.

  2. Poetgrimaldi Avatar

    I could care less. It really….

  3. sillyusername1 Avatar

    “My bad” Instead of “I screwed up and I’m sorry”

  4. BrianSilent Avatar

    “Karen”.. I guess I’m a real Karen when it comes to the word Karen

  5. OriginalMuffin5644 Avatar

    when americans say “i could care less” because it’s always used incorrectly in the context the person is using it. if you could care less, then that means you’re not that bothered. “i couldn’t care less” means you care so little, that you have no care left to give. ive gone insane explaining this to people. it makes me so mad when it really shouldn’t, because who cares! lmfao

  6. HighfalutinAvarice Avatar

    Unironically
    Optics
    Ick
    Hustling

  7. Dawildpep Avatar

    For me it’s, “winner winner, chicken dinner.” Why? No clue.. I know what made it popular, I saw the movie with the MIT kids playing blackjack.

    It’s stupid I know but it got me curious what other people might think is cringe

  8. Galliagamer Avatar

    The use of ‘finna’ is cringey.

  9. Madeofstardust87 Avatar

    It is what it is. That’s defeatist

  10. EfficientPangolin412 Avatar

    It is a game changer!

  11. hornybutired Avatar

    “Very unique,” “extremely unique,” “somewhat unique,” stuff like that.

    “Unique” means “there’s only one of this.”

    It’s a binary descriptor. Either something is unique or it’s not. Either there’s one of something or there’s more than one of something.

    You can’t be “very” one of this or “extremely” one of this or “somewhat” one of this.

  12. Icy-Opposite5724 Avatar

    I dont like “sus.” Sounds like pus

  13. Dawildpep Avatar

    “If I can do it you can do it” especially if I don’t really know you and you don’t know me.

  14. LofgrenLegs Avatar
  15. Admirable-Cobbler319 Avatar

    Say it louder for the people in the back.

    It just sounds so stupid.

  16. F19AGhostrider Avatar

    “Iconic” is being massively overused lately.

  17. TwlightPrincess Avatar

    Literally when used wrong & irregardless

  18. Bugaloon Avatar

    When people say “woof” instead of “wolf”.

  19. SignParticular6246 Avatar

    “slay” the word literally makes me itch

  20. no_name_ia Avatar

    when you first see someone and the first thing they do is ask “how are you doing?” or “hows it going?” the majority of the time the person asking doesn’t care about how I am doing or how it is going.

  21. kana503 Avatar

    “Humans use only 10% of our brain.” That statement is so wrong, it’s dumb. I especially hate how it was used as a basis of a movie.

  22. edwards9524 Avatar

    Blood is thicker than water… everyone thinks it means that you should support family over friends. While there is disagreement on wikipedia, another interpretation is that bonds made by men who have spilled blood together is stronger than the water of womb.

    You can choose your friends, but you have no say in who your family is. I don’t think we should always defer to family over close friends.

    Many times throughout my life, my friends were there when family couldn’t help me.

    Choose your allegiances based of merit, not arbitrary pairings.

  23. PC_Friar Avatar

    “Gifting”

  24. Plus-King5266 Avatar

    “That’s so cringe”

  25. Like-it-dark3816 Avatar

    “You’re good” when someone is in my way.
    I know Im good! I said “excuse me” to be nice!

  26. WikiStik420 Avatar

    Bro
    Chief

    Yes I’m chiefin
    Yes I’ll fvk you up
    Stop giving me false respect
    I’m baf deal with it… before I start prayin for rain.

    It’s 45 acp. Ain’t growing the garden.

    My bro banged my babies momma. You ain’t no bro

  27. Plus-King5266 Avatar

    “Blah, blah, ‘adulting’”

  28. Purpledratini Avatar

    “illegal aliens” is a deliberate attempt to dehumanize people.

  29. Juniorsfarmerfrancis Avatar

    “Food for thought”

  30. novato1995 Avatar

    I’m obsessed 🤪

  31. Extreme-Package1716 Avatar

    “No shade” or “very demure” especially that second one I hated that trend!

  32. Impossible-Humor3899 Avatar

    “Prolly”

    Makes people sound idiotic

  33. OolongGeer Avatar

    “Are you out and about?”

    My dear mother asks me that on every. Single. Call, and it drives me absolutely nuts.

    I have told her this, yet it continues. I cringe when I sense it is about to come out and then recoil in pain when it does.

  34. MAN1341557347 Avatar

    “I could care less”. This phrase has literally no impact, all you’re saying is that your capacity for caring about that particular subject could go lower. Thus it gives no real indicator on your actual level of care. “I couldn’t care less” makes sense because you’re clearly communicating that your care for that subject is so little it quite literally could not go any lower.

  35. branch397 Avatar

    Perfect storm, spot on, nosh, dosh, drop some coin, nana, automagical, methinks, an historical. I could go on forever…

    yeah, I should seek therapy.

  36. rarjacob Avatar

    using lol’ing in real life conversation

  37. Rich-Wrap-9333 Avatar

    “POV” in labeling reels and short videos, when they are not filmed from the camera’s point of view and are really just videos about situations (POV: you drove your car into a snowbank; POV: when your dog is an idiot).

  38. TimHuntsman Avatar

    Locally sourced and lovingly hand-crafted artisanal [drek]

  39. xczechr Avatar

    “Out of pocket” when the person doesn’t mean paying for something themselves.

  40. Rich-Wrap-9333 Avatar

    I’m going to “hold space” for you.

  41. Fancy-Coat-9880 Avatar

    “In it to win it.”

  42. pricklymuffin20 Avatar

    “It is what it is”

    “Thats just the way it goes”

    “Blood is thicker than water” Not in my generation its not, fuck off with that 🤣🙄🙄

  43. dernfoolidgit Avatar

    The dumbass phrase” I cannot wrap my head around” something. Who the hElL came up with this?

  44. Upper-Molasses1137 Avatar

    snooze you lose, its just irritating and never helps a person feel better.

  45. OGBeege Avatar

    “Double-down” & every other moronic gambling reference used by people who have never shuffled a deck of cards. Stop.

  46. Dry-Main-3961 Avatar

    “Like literally

  47. remme21 Avatar

    Livin’ the dream

  48. RemarkableError1644 Avatar

    “I could care less”

    It’s COULDN’T! You couldn’t care less! If you could care less then you care a lot.

  49. AltruisticHopes Avatar

    Cheap at half the price when people mean cheap at twice the price. Of course things would be cheap if they were half the price.

    Always bugs me.

  50. badannbad Avatar

    I swear to God or I swear on…

    It’s always a lie.

  51. PrudentOwlet Avatar

    “Would of” (and could of/should of)

    It’s would HAVE, etc.  Or the contractions of those, like would’ve.

  52. Bishop_Bickelsson Avatar

    Oh boy this has been a long time coming…

    •Rizz

    •’bro is’ (especially this one, everyone says it in the comments and think they’re original)

    •High-key / low-key

    •Living rent-free bs

    •Main character energy

    •Gnarly (stupid word)

    •Goat (the word has lost it’s meaning)

    •THANK YOU FOR 1000 LIKES OMGGGGGG!!!!!!

    •”ahh” like in “ass” (example: wit yo stupid ahh)

    •pov (word lost meaning, people use it whenever)

    •the fcking lego gif everyone does when there’s
    even a mildy attractive woman in the post
    •slay

    • me: him: bs

    •people in the comment just repeating what someone said in the video and add an emoji

    I bet there was one of you thinking of a way to say them all at once to try and annoy me. Don’t lie😂

  53. 2020IsANightmare Avatar

    “I don’t/didn’t have time to do ______”)

    There are only 24 hours in a day. That phrase can be legit. Like, here in the Eastern Time Zone, I don’t have time to drive to somewhere six hours away before midnight EST. There’s literally not enough time to do so.

    I think where it really irks me the most is at work. Coworkers just had 45 minutes to gossip, but not 10 minutes to fucking do their job.

  54. Transformatron86 Avatar

    Using “Salty” as a positive. You’re not “Salty” you’re just a miserable prick who would rather shit on everyone around you than grow up and deal with your emotional issues.

  55. Additional_Newt_1908 Avatar

    “the ick” sounds like a toddler

  56. Quiet_Excitement_272 Avatar

    When people say “said” to refer back to something, like “I didn’t use said umbrella when I visited London”.

  57. BotanicalGarden56 Avatar

    I’ll “do” an iced tea. We “do” Florida in the winter. I “do” a turkey chili that everyone loves. Stop already with “do”! Have an iced tea, go to Florida in the winter and make a turkey chili that everyone loves, dammit.

  58. Important-Point9409 Avatar

    kids saying something has a “good aesthetic”

  59. fermat9990 Avatar

    Everything happens for a reason!

  60. AdayaAmore Avatar

    Rizz or any phrase involving it.

  61. Revolutionary_Cry884 Avatar

    Well any new young slang and/or phrases are fucking stupid because are lazy and make little sense. It’s basically verbiage from mumble rap. A lot of the ones mentioned in this thread seem pulled from decades ago that doesn’t get used much. However phrases like getting a vibe, vibing with it, killing it, getting gains, respect the hustle are just infuriating and juvenile. Cue old man yelling at cloud.

  62. Goodlife1988 Avatar

    Let’s agree to disagree.

  63. tavisivat Avatar

    I hate the word “utilize”. There is almost never a time when the word “use” isn’t a better choice.

  64. Few-Soup-1352 Avatar

    “I could care less”

    It’s I could NOT care less. As in, you care so little, you cannot care any less, it’s impossible. Thats the point of the saying

  65. YEGredditOilers Avatar

    “To be fair to the argument”

    An argument is an inanimate object. It doesn’t care about fairness.

  66. sphinxyhiggins Avatar

    “drinking the koolaid”

    The vast majority of people in Jonestown were murdered.

  67. Competitive-Fee2661 Avatar

    Calling someone a Karen. It’s ageist, sexist and racist all rolled into one. Boomer is bad too, but it’s typically just ageist.

  68. causticandflippant Avatar

    Price Point on those home buying shows. Buyers don’t have a Price Point. They have a budget.

  69. Traditional_Job_5029 Avatar

    “Dialed in” 🙄

  70. Doogsfx Avatar

    My 2 pet peeves are:

    “For all intensive purposes”
    -should be “For all intents and purposes”

    And

    “It’s a doggy dog world”
    -should be “It’s a dog-eat-dog world”

    There are a few others but these are my top 2

  71. Bitter_Atmosphere879 Avatar

    Oh there are so many…”Congrats” really gets to me. That’s not a phrase so I’ll go with “No worries.”

  72. AsianGirl_Goddess Avatar

    When people say “my person”. Ex: “oh he’s my person”, “that’s my person”, or “he really feels like my person”. Just say it’s your soulmate or that they feel like the one. Idk why it just irks me dare I say even PMO😭

  73. TinyLemonMan Avatar

    “Hot mess”. A YouTuber I despise over-used it to the point where hearing it in real life pisses me off. Where is my cold mess representation?

  74. zzyzyzz Avatar

    “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results”. No it’s not!

  75. Frankie__Spankie Avatar

    “That’s what she said”

    It was funny at first but holy shit was it overused for years. Maybe it’s a regional thing but it was used so much around me that it was like 10% of every conversation for months. It’s not used very often anymore but every time I hear it, I still roll my eyes.

  76. RogerMurdockCo-Pilot Avatar

    “I was today years old when…”

  77. davescrabbler Avatar

    people needing to fill silench with gd ‘uhhh’. silence is ok, we dont need u filling up silences. stop gd already.

  78. stormenta76 Avatar

    “Whole nother,” the combination between “a whole other” and “another” drives me up the wall.

  79. FoghornLegday Avatar

    I hate the word leery. Even though I looked it up and people are using it correctly, I just always feel like it’s a fake word. Idk it bugs me

  80. bleedingcuticle Avatar

    Let’s touch base

    WHO IS BASE. DO THEY CONSENT TO BEING TOUCHED?

  81. Prudent_Ad_1124 Avatar

    “.. if that makes sense..?..” 😡

  82. ExPristina Avatar

    One-stop-shop

  83. Medium-Silver-3934 Avatar

    “sweet summer child”

  84. Obi1NotWan Avatar

    “Whatnot”, “gal”. There are more but those are the two that are like nails on a chalkboard.

  85. chocolatechipninja Avatar

    I hate to hear someone say “Bullshit”. It implies that lies are being told, or that the speaker has bad information, or is uneducated. It’s a pretty ugly insult.

  86. Plmb_wfy Avatar

    Calling a sandwich anything besides a sandwich.

  87. EticketJedi Avatar

    That’s the way it’s always been.

  88. picklesandgouda Avatar

    “It is what it is”….often said by the most stagnant person ever.

  89. DearDog1976 Avatar

    “Where has the time gone?”

  90. Possible_Target_9745 Avatar

    it’s not the phrase itself that irks me but when people say “could care less” instead of “couldn’t care less”

  91. rubberguru Avatar

    Axe a question

  92. Paul__Perkenstein Avatar

    “Boots on the ground” when talking about soldiers going to war. They are far more than just a pair of boots.

  93. JCDagz Avatar

    “Excuse my French.” – When an English-speaking person swears and wants to apologize. It has to be the one of dumbest things I’ve heard in my life.

  94. Mushroomphantom Avatar

    That “ikrs me” or “that’s my pet peev”

  95. Cetophile Avatar

    “It is what it is.” Not untrue, but it sure is getting overused.

  96. Miserable_Concert219 Avatar

    At the end of the day…

  97. SarahGrace1983 Avatar

    “That’s my pet peeve “

  98. CAPTAINFREEDUMB Avatar

    Baby daddy/momma. To my ear it just sounds ghetto and ignorant. Why not just say my kids dad/mom? Do what you do. It just sounds low IQ to me.

  99. pyroskunkz Avatar

    “It is what it is.”

    Well yeah no fucking shit. If it was not then it would be something else. Fuck off.

  100. jenne4ka Avatar

    “But I digress” in writing. How about just edit whatever you’re trying to write?

  101. jennifer0409 Avatar

    What a stupid comment! The Democratic Party has some other biggest idiots in the world. How about your buddy Biden, Camilla Harris, Jerry Nadler, Chuck Schumer, all much lower than average intelligence.
    Have you ever watched an interview with Kamala Harris?

  102. jade_slo Avatar

    “living the dream” when in fact they are not

  103. MarlooRed Avatar

    Live your truth.

  104. spreekles Avatar

    “Have fun!” As a throwaway ending when someone declines an invitation or reneges on plans. As if that makes up for their lack of effort in maintaining a friendship

  105. Brilliant-Wind3443 Avatar

    “Real quick.”

    Adding “real” to it doesn’t make it quicker than quick. It can’t be more quick than quick! It’s ALREADY quick!

  106. Standard-Branch5117 Avatar

    Sorry, oop sorry, ope sorry.

    When it’s completely not their fault or they are still doing the thing they are “apologizing” for

  107. buickmackane71360 Avatar

    “Do what?” I moved from the Northeast to Louisiana 22 years ago and I hate this expression now with every bit of passion as I did when I first arrived.

    You’re not asking me what I just DID, you’re asking me to repeat what I just SAID. Aaaaarrrrrgghh!

  108. Giggle_Snorts Avatar

    ” time heals all wounds..”

  109. striker69 Avatar

    Cotton Pickin’

  110. Confident_Jump_6669 Avatar

    He bullies you because he likes you!

  111. teddybearangelbaby Avatar

    anything with “spicy” stop saying it it’s so icky

  112. Embarrassed-Weird173 Avatar

    Maybe not the worst, but I hate “you can’t have your cake and eat it, too”. 

    The Unabomber was right: “You can’t eat your cake and still have it, too.” 

  113. Great_THROWSWAY_589 Avatar

    I wear a mask in public and one thing that I’m so fucking tired of hearing is “you know getting sick can build your immune system?”

    There’s various strains of COVID, flu, and the cold. Just because you build immunity to one doesn’t mean you’re immune to them all. Also, health care isn’t free here, I can’t afford or have the time off to “build immunity”. How about I just don’t get sick in the first place? IM JUST FINE!!

  114. XCBeowulf Avatar

    “This” and nothing else. Also “copium” for calling someone out for having hope.

  115. TheGeekfrom23000Ave Avatar

    Saying “utilise” when the situation requires you to say “use”

  116. Harrymcmarry Avatar

    Mostly mispronounced/misused phrases:

    • for all intensive purposes
    • irregardless
    • “could of” instead of “could have”, although this one is only apparent in writing
    • whataboutism – often used as a scapegoat for blatant hypocrisy
  117. ah_yeah_79 Avatar

    Anyone who says pasifically needs to die slowly and painfully

  118. dontcallmefrank07 Avatar

    Triggered. Adulting. Blessed.
    I’m worn out on these

  119. yourmomishigh Avatar

    Un/Comfortability. Dis/Comfort!!!! No need to complicate it.

  120. TheReidman Avatar

    “… the ick”

    If you use those words in writing or in person, there is a 0% chance I will take you seriously.

  121. reelGrrl420 Avatar

    It’s a joke … if you need to announce it, it isn’t funny

  122. Significant_Can_165 Avatar

    “As a person who” …

  123. WeWent2TheMoon1969 Avatar

    “I’m glad to be apart of” rather than “I’m glad to be a part of”

  124. ghostprawn Avatar

    Most people use the world “penultimate” to mean the absolute peak, when it is precisely not that, at all

  125. Beginning_Capital_64 Avatar

    I see on Fakebook all the time people looking for something that “doEsN’t cOSt aN arM aNd a LeG”. Shut your broke beggin ass up.

  126. bobosews Avatar

    “Perfect”
    “Incredible”
    “No problem”

  127. Fromunda_cheese2 Avatar

    When people use “team” at work in an office environment.

  128. Zaluiha Avatar

    Like, well like I’m not like so sure like.

  129. charismacarpenter Avatar

    The word random has suddenly gotten annoying

  130. azrael316 Avatar

    “The Ick”… So childish.

  131. backtothebegining Avatar

    “That slaps” and “fam”. I’ve no relation to you, and I wouldn’t mind slapping you.

  132. MrPerterZa Avatar

    Live my truth

  133. megagirthyguapoboi Avatar

    Fuck around and find out. So over used these days

  134. grandinosour Avatar

    “It is what it is”.

  135. jendyes Avatar

    “and whatnot”. Added to the end of a sentence. It’s literally nothing yet so completely vague.

  136. WordWizardNC Avatar

    “nucular” This isn’t the 1950’s anymore; we know how to pronounce “nuclear”now.

  137. Prize_Purpose_1213 Avatar

    You know what I mean

  138. Ophelia_is_Gone Avatar

    “Can I play devil’s advocate real quick?”

    No. Just no. Nothing ever good comes after this phrase.

  139. UsefulSchism Avatar

    “Who are you and why are you hiding in my closet?”

    I’m just so tired of hearing it

  140. urmuhgawd Avatar

    I was today years old 🙄