Threesomes are how sex is really meant to be enjoyed.
Edit: I don’t care how many downvotes this gets, I’ll die on this hill. Two bisexual women who are into each other AND you, that is sex. It’s all its wet, messy magnificence!!
Cardio is important. The best thing you can do to improve the quality of your sex life is to be in shape enough to run a mile. Time doesn’t matter, but get to the point where you can run or jog it without stopping.
The biomechanics involved in your body being able to handle that kind of cardio lead to ENORMOUS dividends in the bedroom.
That about half of men don’t even know how go make a woman climax even once a session. Also that I wasn’t just above average in size. That already put me ahead of the vast majority of men and would have made me far more confident earlier on.
That the orgasm shouldn’t be the end goal of sex. It should be about two people enjoying intimacy. Releasing expectations around sex can lead to a much more rewarding sex life. It’s incredible to see what can happen when two people relax into their connection and remove the pressure that comes from expectation.
It’s easier to have sex than to get a bj! And a good bj is like a rare scene!!
There was one time this gal who was trying to get my attention, grabbed my tool and started doing it so bad, I told her I’m not in the mood!! And I love it when I get good bjs! But that day I told her, I’m not in the mood! She was still continuing and I was thinking of stuffs that can make it go soft!
Most women have hard time to enjoy even one orgasm and most importantly it’s not your fault. Hard work on relationship development will do the trick. Never give up and quit porn. Harry Potter is excellent fantasy, but it’s just fantasy.
Means: “ If you change anything, anything at all but precisely what you are doing at this exact moment in the exact tempo you are doing it…. I will stab you in the neck neck with a rusty spoon covered in dried cat shit”
Take heed boys…. They mean it and listen when they say it.
Women actually enjoy casual sex as much as men do. The trick is to make them feel safe, free of shame/judgement, lower the risk of pregnancy as close to zero as possible, and – this one is the most important – make damn sure they actually get off.
When you are having sex with a new person, it’s not necessarily like having sex for the first time. A lot of the sensations are the same. But you basically have to relearn sex. And even if it’s not as exciting as the first time, it gets better and better.
Also, a vibrator is your ally, not your competition.
When I Masterbate sometimes I get distracted. I stop and start, especially if I have cum a couple of times before.
But with sex , and another person, j ha e more dhit to think about. Sometimes I may need to slow down or speed up and she may not be on the same page.
It is hard enough to get a woman to actually want to have sex with you. And then there are more complexities after you do it. It can be very frustrated and intimidating.
Dude, as a teen I had some basic knowledge about female anatomy, but zero guidance about how to interact with it. Other than folk hero tales from older siblings and older friends in general. I wish I was a “Head Master” back then.
MODS sorry I missed your note for only men to reply. If I have deeply violated, I’m okay if you have to delete my comment.
I don’t know if this might help some of you, for the near and far future. As an X and Y beholder, huh I’ll say if you arouse her beforehand, foreplay, words of compliment or praise, how she turns you on Etc, you know the biggest sex organ is the brain, it will likely be a more pleasurable act where you can always finish or at least know what works between you two.
If you turn her on with words and then go to do things, she will respond positively, I almost can guarantee it. So there you go.
When you go down on a woman the first time, it’s…not what I expected. It’s been like 20 years since my first time doing it and I enjoy it more now…but the first time it was not what I expected
Now that I’m older, and my sex drive has diminished a bit, I see how absolutely stupid I was. The risks I took, the money I spent, the sheer energy and effort that went into trying to get laid. I’m still friends with many women from my more active years, and their insight to how I was perceived then are a chorus, all singing the same song. I would have done just as well, or better, if I had relaxed, stopped looking so desperate, and let shit happen.
You have to satisfy the woman before yourself. Your reputation and the possibility of doing it again rely on it. Foreplay first to the best of your ability. Take your time.
At some point, inevitably, things will get embarrassing, awkward, and/or uncomfortable. At that point you can either laugh it off and try to continue or call it quits. There is no shame in either action. Nor any fault in either party.
My wife and I had a great sex life from the get go. It was always just a fun/romantic/throw down time that we both enjoyed a lot. Maybe a year or so after we got married I made a pass at her one morning in front of the bathroom mirror and she suddenly started crying. Of course I stopped immediately and made sure she was ok. I felt like complete shit and the guilt kept me from asking her what happened for a very long time. Our sex life suffered for a few years as a result. We didn’t stop having it but I became timid and didn’t try to engage nearly as often. After a long time I finally brought it up and she said she had no idea what I was talking about, that she didn’t even remember the incident.
We came back from that and are great again but the lesson is communication, communication, communication.
When you’re inexperienced, watch out for performance anxiety. You could be seriously into someone, yet struggle to get/keep it up due to nervousness about how much you want to please your partner.
When you’re inexperienced, watch out for performance anxiety. You could be seriously into someone, yet struggle to get/keep it up due to nervousness about how much you want to please your partner.
Sex is overrated and can be more of an hassle than it’s worth. “casual” sex is not worth it. When I was younger, people constantly bragged about how much sex is cool and how much you should seek it but when you get down to it there is so much pressure, so much anxiety for an orgasm so short and weak. It’s only worth it if you care about the girl.
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Threesomes are how sex is really meant to be enjoyed.
Edit: I don’t care how many downvotes this gets, I’ll die on this hill. Two bisexual women who are into each other AND you, that is sex. It’s all its wet, messy magnificence!!
Cardio is important. The best thing you can do to improve the quality of your sex life is to be in shape enough to run a mile. Time doesn’t matter, but get to the point where you can run or jog it without stopping.
The biomechanics involved in your body being able to handle that kind of cardio lead to ENORMOUS dividends in the bedroom.
Sometimes it’s boring.
Being good at it isn’t universal. It’s a partner based thing.
Men don’t know where the clit is.
Porn is bad… Like really
Enthusiasm goes a long way
That I’m never going to have it.
I grew up without the Internet and only scrambled Cinemax cable. There’s a lot.
That I’m actually well hung and condom size matters so they dont break, that they are not supposed to break that easily.
Spend ample time on foreplay, make sure she orgasms first and cuddle for the afterglow.
That about half of men don’t even know how go make a woman climax even once a session. Also that I wasn’t just above average in size. That already put me ahead of the vast majority of men and would have made me far more confident earlier on.
That a woman can have a complex set and type and number of orgasms. It is not like a man, like everything else women are complex and exciting.
You don’t have to do things in a specific order. The whole baseball thing is BS.
Penetration becomes much easier when a woman is properly aroused. Tightness is not a good sign; it means she isn’t ready yet.
girls expect you to last 9 hrs lol jk
Sexual chemistry is important
That the orgasm shouldn’t be the end goal of sex. It should be about two people enjoying intimacy. Releasing expectations around sex can lead to a much more rewarding sex life. It’s incredible to see what can happen when two people relax into their connection and remove the pressure that comes from expectation.
If you have a big penis, you know it hurts your experience in the bedroom more than help
Sometimes the quickie is better.
that it often gets inherently awkward.
It’s easier to have sex than to get a bj! And a good bj is like a rare scene!!
There was one time this gal who was trying to get my attention, grabbed my tool and started doing it so bad, I told her I’m not in the mood!! And I love it when I get good bjs! But that day I told her, I’m not in the mood! She was still continuing and I was thinking of stuffs that can make it go soft!
Sometimes people end up catching feelings after saying they want it to be casual and have no intention of catching feelings
Having a strong emotional connection with your partner gets you better sex a lot more often.
You said hard.
Sometimes a hole in the men’s room is just a hole in the men’s room
It’s not a fun time if I don’t have an emotional connection with the person.
Most women have hard time to enjoy even one orgasm and most importantly it’s not your fault. Hard work on relationship development will do the trick. Never give up and quit porn. Harry Potter is excellent fantasy, but it’s just fantasy.
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Have more sex.
Shower first always.
“OH MY GOD!…… RIGHT THERE!”
Means: “ If you change anything, anything at all but precisely what you are doing at this exact moment in the exact tempo you are doing it…. I will stab you in the neck neck with a rusty spoon covered in dried cat shit”
Take heed boys…. They mean it and listen when they say it.
You’re asking Gen Z what sex is like. Think about that.
It’s all about finding the little sensitive areas on her body
Women actually enjoy casual sex as much as men do. The trick is to make them feel safe, free of shame/judgement, lower the risk of pregnancy as close to zero as possible, and – this one is the most important – make damn sure they actually get off.
How underwhelming it is compared to the effort you put in to get it if you’re not a conventional 8/10.
At 20ish: Women are just as horny as you. More about biology. Don’t stick your dick in crazy. Lube.
The kids that come after sex. It’s tough to raise kids.
Some voices cry out for sex and more sec while others would have us on a straight pepper diet 🤷♀️
lol the hard way
When you are having sex with a new person, it’s not necessarily like having sex for the first time. A lot of the sensations are the same. But you basically have to relearn sex. And even if it’s not as exciting as the first time, it gets better and better.
Also, a vibrator is your ally, not your competition.
That a man can say no if he wants to. I can’t count the number of times that all I wanted was to play with boobs where the woman demanded sex.
That it’s alot more physical work than I thought. It’s basically a workout. Basically whenever I do it, I’m sweating my ass off lol.
The first time I did it, I was so tired from it that I lost the hardness lol. That’s when I was like “dang, I gotta get more into shape.”
That it can be difficult to cum.
When I Masterbate sometimes I get distracted. I stop and start, especially if I have cum a couple of times before.
But with sex , and another person, j ha e more dhit to think about. Sometimes I may need to slow down or speed up and she may not be on the same page.
It is hard enough to get a woman to actually want to have sex with you. And then there are more complexities after you do it. It can be very frustrated and intimidating.
Sex with a new person is an audition. You need to put on your best performance if you want a callback
Ya’ll are having sex???
The aftercare. I thought I was good at it, but I’m much more focused on it now and it is a high priority.
Use more lube.
No….more than that.
MORE!
Dude, as a teen I had some basic knowledge about female anatomy, but zero guidance about how to interact with it. Other than folk hero tales from older siblings and older friends in general. I wish I was a “Head Master” back then.
MODS sorry I missed your note for only men to reply. If I have deeply violated, I’m okay if you have to delete my comment.
I don’t know if this might help some of you, for the near and far future. As an X and Y beholder, huh I’ll say if you arouse her beforehand, foreplay, words of compliment or praise, how she turns you on Etc, you know the biggest sex organ is the brain, it will likely be a more pleasurable act where you can always finish or at least know what works between you two.
If you turn her on with words and then go to do things, she will respond positively, I almost can guarantee it. So there you go.
Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you can have sex whenever you want.
Pineapple DOES NOT make my stuff taste good
Babies are very easy to make.
It’s really not worth all the stress and drama brought about by trying to coexist with the person you are having it with.
Don’t do it with strangers
Use lots of lube
When it’s for the express sole purpose of making a baby, the charm can come off and it can be less desirable.
It means 50x more when you have it with someone who loves you just as much as you love them
It’s not about you. Yes, there’s 80 billion nerve endings THERE and only 16K here; but they are HER (their) nerve endings to do with as she pleases.
When you go down on a woman the first time, it’s…not what I expected. It’s been like 20 years since my first time doing it and I enjoy it more now…but the first time it was not what I expected
Child support.
Just do it when you want to do it.
Now that I’m older, and my sex drive has diminished a bit, I see how absolutely stupid I was. The risks I took, the money I spent, the sheer energy and effort that went into trying to get laid. I’m still friends with many women from my more active years, and their insight to how I was perceived then are a chorus, all singing the same song. I would have done just as well, or better, if I had relaxed, stopped looking so desperate, and let shit happen.
Good Sex does not equal love
It’s both warmer and lower than you think.
A “nympho” isn’t what youre looking for (I mean, it was nice for the few months, ain’t no way)
Positioning, pacing, and sensuality are more important than having a giant penis.
You have to satisfy the woman before yourself. Your reputation and the possibility of doing it again rely on it. Foreplay first to the best of your ability. Take your time.
I learned,that hot milfs in my region actually DON’T want to have wild sex with me 😭
If she doesn’t cum, it’s your fault, if you don’t cum, it’s also your fault.
If it’s your first time, do not make it a quickie..take your time..that way if you cum fast, you have time to reload and smash it properly.
Consent is crucial, dont assume its implied, and always communicate your boundaries.
At some point, inevitably, things will get embarrassing, awkward, and/or uncomfortable. At that point you can either laugh it off and try to continue or call it quits. There is no shame in either action. Nor any fault in either party.
You don’t always get a warning for periods, but find out once the massacre is already done.
Doing the laundry afterwards helps to remember.
My wife and I had a great sex life from the get go. It was always just a fun/romantic/throw down time that we both enjoyed a lot. Maybe a year or so after we got married I made a pass at her one morning in front of the bathroom mirror and she suddenly started crying. Of course I stopped immediately and made sure she was ok. I felt like complete shit and the guilt kept me from asking her what happened for a very long time. Our sex life suffered for a few years as a result. We didn’t stop having it but I became timid and didn’t try to engage nearly as often. After a long time I finally brought it up and she said she had no idea what I was talking about, that she didn’t even remember the incident.
We came back from that and are great again but the lesson is communication, communication, communication.
Casual ones feel empty and meaningless, with the right one you love feels the best.
Don’t stick it into a crazy one.
When you’re inexperienced, watch out for performance anxiety. You could be seriously into someone, yet struggle to get/keep it up due to nervousness about how much you want to please your partner.
When you’re inexperienced, watch out for performance anxiety. You could be seriously into someone, yet struggle to get/keep it up due to nervousness about how much you want to please your partner.
>the hard way
Tee-hee
Sex is overrated and can be more of an hassle than it’s worth. “casual” sex is not worth it. When I was younger, people constantly bragged about how much sex is cool and how much you should seek it but when you get down to it there is so much pressure, so much anxiety for an orgasm so short and weak. It’s only worth it if you care about the girl.
Women cheat as much as men, the innocent looking ones are the worst.
Lots of people aren’t good at it and it’s not worth chasing if it was good