So my friend (16F) is pretty boy crazy to be honest. She’s known to quickly move from one crush to the other very quickly and one of her most recent ones happens to be my cousin (17M). Now she honestly has a bad habit of talking really sexual about all of her crushes which makes me and my other friends a bit uncomfortable but since we don’t know the boys we brush it of. But one day a couple months ago she met my cousin and developed a little crush on him. Now when she found out he had a girlfriend she stopped for a bit. (For some slight context she likes him he doesn’t like her). For the recent situation he accidentally like her Instagram story while going through stories and she decided it was a good idea to message me “your cousin liked my story” with a picture of a girl dropping her panties. I kid you not right now I’m so ready to fight this girl cause I’ve been putting up with the comments for at least a year now.
But what should I do any advice is welcome.
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This seems more banter than anything. Is it really that uncomfortable
Establish boundaries with her.
Tell her the comments are making you uncomfortable.
Reaffirm that he’s YOUR cousin and you’d rather not hear about the sexual shit.
He doesn’t like her…
Be a good wingman and holla at your cousin for her.
Don’t listen to the other comments, if it makes you feel uncomfortable then your feelings are valid
If this is a problem for you then you need to say something. People crush on their friend’s family members all the time, it’s definitely not abnormal, and you know this is how she talks about guys. A lot of people talk like this about their crushes. If you’ve been brushing it off, how would she know how much it bothers you? Getting mad without communicating doesn’t solve anything. Just tell her it grosses you out and ask her to stop. Honestly, starting a fight over this would just make you look bad.