I know the question might sound bad, but I mostly do stuff with FLINTA and if I meet guys, I’ve known them a long time and just do whatever I always do with them. When I meet new guys I don’t know what I can suggest as a hanging out activity and that’s why I thought I’d ask you guys.
Obviously I usually just ask the person what they would like to do, but I’d just like some suggestions that I can bring up if the other person can’t come up with anything or judt says ‘whatever, let’s just meet’
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I know the question might sound bad, but I mostly do stuff with FLINTA and if I meet guys, I’ve known them a long time and just do whatever I always do with them. When I meet new guys I don’t know what I can suggest as a hanging out activity and that’s why I thought I’d ask you guys.
Obviously I usually just ask the person what they would like to do, but I’d just like some suggestions that I can bring up if the other person can’t come up with anything or judt says ‘whatever, let’s just meet’
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Play with cards?
what’s a flinta?
smoke blunts and talk shit to each other
Depends on who I’m hanging with, motorcycles, fishing, bar/food, or events going on around town is normal. Sometimes we just have a big bbq and shoot guns at my place.
Commence the scared circle jerk 🌚 but jokes aside most go to the bar and shoot some pool
Penis jousting.
Poker, listen to music, drink, and talk, fish, go for a hike, basketball, golf, tennis, chess, go to a bar.
Literally drink beer.eat.and burn shit
Strip down to our underwear and have pillow fights, which inevitably leads to even naughtier hijinks.
Can’t speak for anyone else but me and the bros tend to fuck
Watch a movie, watch that show I’ve been meaning to show you, watch Taskmaster specifically because it’s the best light entertainment show ever devised, play board games or video games, eat together, just sit around and talk about what’s been going on in our lives.
Though now that we’re older, it’s a lot of entertaining and hanging out with the kids.
I find lunch is always a great “first friend date”, for lack of a better phrase. Myself, I find bar style food with a couple beers is a great way to bond without commitment to either persons passions that may be seen as negative to the other.
For instance, I once had a work friend invite me to go hiking with some of his friends. “I like hiking” I thought. “This’ll be cool”. Yeah, they neglected to mention they’re hardcore hikers. Like no path, climbing over boulders with ropes to get to the top of this mountain by nightfall type hikers. Proudly, I kept up, and never complained. Internally, I was ready for the hell to end after the first hour.
We all try to out gay each other
Talk about literal shit or the time somebody shit themselves
Talk shit about crappy screamo bands from our hometowns
Play vids, watch sports and talk about world politics. And drink…
Usually talk about random stuff and women of course 😁
Laugh
Do something (eg fishing). Go to a game.
Drink. Cook some meat. Talk about life, sports and women. Never brunch. My mates and I once spent a whole day debating the best all black of all time for each position on a rugby team.
We touch the no no square, you’re welcomed
Drink and talk shit
I got old so it’s just talk shit now
Hike, usually. It’s a good setting for talking and also sometimes just not talking
My friends ride dirtbikes quads and / or 4 wheel drive in the desert.. shoot guns ride harleys BBQ meat I would not miss it.
shoot the shit, while we shoot shit
Talk shit, drink, basketball, football, videogames, smoke weed, board games, watch tv shows / movies / sports games, fantasy sports, talk about hobbies, update each other’s on life, beer pong, go to brunch/lunch, workout, prank each other, make up random competitions to make room for more shit talking.
Play Games, Drink & drive fast cars but of course not all on the same day.
We just get drunk, talk shit, and eat burgers.
There isn’t a ‘man’ thing to do with people. There is just what you like to do and finding other friends who also like that.
Personally, my favourite way to catch up with a friend is to go for a nice long walk, maybe grab a coffee along the way, end up someone for dinner and chat along the way. Maybe bring my camera and take some photos.
I would also be happy just meeting someone for a drink and some food, or catching up to do something more specific, like helping each other out in the garden for example, or with a project.
All kinds of things.
We can play games, build shit, go fishing, play sports, work on cars or over a grill, or sometimes just drink and stand around. Our friendships are often very hobby or interest based, at least at first, so engaging in whatever our common interests are is a common bonding activity.
One of the biggest differences though in how men and women hang, is we don’t really talk about ourselves or gossip or eachother. We tend to talk about hobbies, interests or projects, and we spend a lot more time literally saying nothing, just being in eachother’s company. We feel less need to fill the silence.
We also feel less need to fill time, in fact we revel in feeling bored and not having to do anything. We’ll plan for things when we have to, or related to a project we are working on, but we don’t really enjoy planning meeting up again or doing things the way women do, because it tends to impede on our downtime.
Now none of these things are absolute or universal, I am only speaking in comparison to women. We still share things with eachother, we still plan activities, we just do these things WAYYY less than women do.
Drink, talk, listen to music, hike, ride bikes, go to concerts, go to the sauna, etc…
Forget about it cuh
Name the most random baseball players we can think of
Type shit.
Who is FLINTA?
They talk about things like sports.
drink, hunt, fish, play with things that have engines, make things and blow shit up.
We do this all without talking about anything except said activity or one of the others on the list.. and more often than not.. silently.
hang out
Drink and game