Maybe an odd question but a group of us (women, 1 guy) are having a conversation about what we scan for or pay attention to in others in social situations and our male friend realised he can say what he notices in women but not other men (apart from who’s taller!). He says there’s more to it but he doesn’t have the words for it. So we came to Ask Men! What do you ‘scan for’ or pay attention to in other men?
What do men ‘scan for’ in other men?
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Maybe an odd question but a group of us (women, 1 guy) are having a conversation about what we scan for or pay attention to in others in social situations and our male friend realised he can say what he notices in women but not other men (apart from who’s taller!). He says there’s more to it but he doesn’t have the words for it. So we came to Ask Men! What do you ‘scan for’ or pay attention to in other men?
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I check other men for clothing tips. Nothing else. I am much more distracted by women.
Like for danger? I look for crazy eyes. Something off about them.
Honestly, when I read this question I thought… huh?
I don’t know about other guys, but I don’t “scan” for anything consciously. Perhaps there may be some subconscious aspect of my mind that analyzes if a stranger is a threat but I don’t actively think about any of that. Admittedly, I spend way more time thinking about myself (like what I am going to accomplish today) and women.