What do you do when you realize your friends aren’t really your friends anymore?

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Hey y’all 29M. Just realized one of my best friends had their wedding the other day. Didn’t invite me that one kind of stung. It’s funny. I had a group of best friends for many years close to 15. Did trips visited each other and everything else. I got in a fight with one of my friends over some money lol. And subsequently my girlfriend of the time of around eight years and I broke up. I ended up leaving the group chat because a point of contention in my relationship was that I always put my friends first as was the fight with my other friend (he was abusive to animals and women).Well it looks like she was right lol I guess I shouldn’t have. At what point did you realize a lot of your old friends weren’t gonna be your new friends, how did you cope with it? And how did you go about making new friends?

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