Title is self explanatory: What do you think women feel during sex?
Only answers from men, unless women have insight on what their partners think.
What do you imagine sex feels like for women?
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Title is self explanatory: What do you think women feel during sex?
Only answers from men, unless women have insight on what their partners think.
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Put something in your ass and find out
I’ve always wondered this, I have no clue
Its an adventour of emotion, trust .. slowly opening up to the man and getting carried more and more into the sensation till you are totally overwhelmed by it. In the end you dont wanna let go of him ever if he is doing it right.
it needs a lot of trust and courage cause you are very vulnerable. I bet this feels unbelievably well or can go sour very quickly depending on the situation
Sometimes when my butthole is itchy and I get deep in there to scratch it, it ends up feeling quite nice. Does it feel like that
Like getting a colonoscopy without anesthesia but with sexual pleasure.
No idea. I don’t even know what sex feels like.
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“What do you think women feel during sex?”
In my experience? Probably disappointment with a smidge of revulsion.
I can just read the signs and something extraordinary
Mediocre and disappointing would be my guess from reading shit women write and talking to them. I’d imagine most dudes either jackhammer and are done fairly quickly, eat pussy terribly, have a gut/cardio issues that limit positions and endurance, and don’t understand how to dirty talk well. My sense was always more that they like the guy for who he is and hopefully the sex is good enough, and if they love the guy the sex isn’t as important as all the other stuff.
Maybe the same sort of sensation, but instead of a sensitive penis, they have sensitive walls. Just commenting on penetrative sex, I know the clitoris gives a lot of sensation as well. I am probably wrong, but it is my guess based on no research.
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Good on the insides instead of on the outside.
I once asked a girlfriend that actually. She came up with this.
Try putting your finger in your mouth. “Clench down on it” take it in and out. Now imagine you have the same sensations inside your mouth as you have on your penis and not on your finger.
Think it was quite an interesting thought experiment so to speak.
My wife and I tried pegging last year for the first time and we both enjoyed it. I know it’s not an apples to orange comparison, but I can understand that penetration feels wonderful.
Not having to use lube for PIV must be nice. We always use condoms because we aren’t planning on having a kid. So that cuts down on some of the sensation for both of us.
I don’t know but it must be something intense.
With my 3 inches, probably like nothing.
I imagine it feels like sticking a finger in your mouth and jabbing the inside of your cheek a whole lot. Some okayish feelings, but nothing that really stands out, kinda just waiting for the finger to finish prodding around so you can get back to something else. 🤷♂️😂
From what I have read, it’s supposedly more pleasurable for her than him. The whole more nerve endings thing, but that supposed only the 1st 2″ or so.
Makes me wonder why they rarely, if ever want sex. I think it’s just a guy’s testosterone level is SO HIGH that we want it all the time. It’s distorting our prespective.
If men and women switched bodies overnight. You would see women humping guys left and right.
That being said, most women I’ve been with would rather get “eaten out” than have sex.
I imagine it feels pretty boring to be honest judging by the overall take on piv sex from women. I think it’s more for them mentally than it is physical. I also feel women are sort of let down if they use big dildos all the time when in reality most men are 5-6”. Just my take.
I had a couple prostate orgasms that felt like female orgasms. They were quite nice, but took a TON of work, and I had to be in just the right mood..
.. dear God.
It all makes sense now…
Like some pleasant itch, just don’t scratch it too hard or too slow. Some men never touch it, some hurt it.
Something foreign enters your body, making you shiver, you gasp, and as the feeling intensifies, you don’t know where you end and the other begins. Your heart rate increases, you close your eyes and think you’re gonna die!!
Wait, did you say sex or ebola?
The mystery man-kind has never able to solve. Man stares at stars and wonder…
15 seconds of fun, then wait for his cock to get hard again
Idk honestly. I feel like their nerves inside must feel really good when something enters, that’s supposed to.
A slippery internal massage
I just figure it’s like male sex in reverse. We feel blissful when we’re doing the poking, you feel blissful when you’re getting poked.
Honest answer: I have no idea
If I had to guess, I’d imagine it’s somewhat similar to how it feels for men, just “inverted” (maybe that’s the word I’m looking for?). For men, I’d describe the feeling of sex as rhythmic, warm, and enveloping. During orgasm, there’s a sudden rush of warmth that spreads through the body, paired with a sense of urgency and a kind of pleasurable loss of control.
For women, I imagine the sensations might center more around fullness, pressure, and warmth (?). I’d guess their orgasms feel more like a steady build-up of intensity rather than a sharp peak. At least thats the impression I get.
I also get the sense that women’s experiences during sex might vary a lot more from person to person than men’s do, even when the quality of the sex itself is comparable.
Edit: clarity and typos
Surely it’s the best 20 seconds of her life!
I dont even know what sex feels like as a man.
This is one of those situations where the whole conversation would be better if OP actually shared her experiences in a way men could imagine, especially since the topic seems to be focused on the physical and not the emotional.
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Bro my virgin ass is still imagining what sex feels like for men
Since I lost my v card, I’ve thought a bit about it, and kind of come to the conclusion the closest a guy gets is a combination of some of the feeling you get in your mouth, and some of the nerve tingles we get from the balls and shaft.
Like how you can feel everything with your lips, but you only have a basic idea of whats actually in your mouth and exactly where it is, you can feel differences in temperature but not all that subtle. There’s portions that are more sensitive, and others that are more resilient, and the combination of tongue and pallet have some similarities too.
I’ve had some ex’s that definitely had teeth down there too.
When a man knows what he is doing or just sex in general?
The closest experience I can have is being pegged. That feels really nice.
No clue.
I can’t imagine myself willingly let another person male or female put anything in me. The amount of control I would give up is just not in line with my being.
I have asked my wife and she says for her when she’s really horny, she actually wants to be penetrated and can’t wait for that sensation.
I imagine it feels like a cystoscopy.
If you put a vibrator just under the head of your dick or above your area where the balls meet the penis (shaft?), and simultaneously have a prostate induced orgasm/ejaculation, it feels a lot like that but inside of you instead of outside of you. An orgasm at least. Sex itself if done right feels similar to what it would feel like to you guys. Good friction, almost like an internal massage, and when you stimulate other parts of the body like playing with our nipples or kissing our necks, it adds to the sensory aspect which causes our clitoris and nipples to swell more and become even more sensitive.
You haven’t had good sex until you feel like your entire body is tingly and you’re on the verge of a full body orgasm.
She’s writhing in ecstasy from my throbbing member inside her, yelling AAAaaaaay Papi! AaaaaYYYY! Similar to how I feel about bonus bag fries
I would imagine its like rubbing the head of the penis over and over again. Yes? No?
Probably wrong because I’m not a woman.
I’d imagine clitoral stimulation is a lot like stimulating the dick’s frenulum. Hard to imagine an internal sensation though. I’d imagine it’s a similar to stimulating the prostate though, which would be anal for men. I’d imagine anal for women is a much different and less pleasurable experience.
i imagine her clit feels just like the tip of my dick
probly the same as thats on your dick but inside you if that makes any sence
Being dominated?
Same way a Q-tip feels in my ear after a shower
With me ?
Horrible
Like getting punched in the taint, but inside?
Bhai bht tough that ye as a man trying to imagine what sex feels like for a woman, I know I’ll never fully get it — but if I had to describe it from what I’ve understood emotionally and physically, I’d say it probably feels like being completely enveloped, both in body and in presence. Like there’s this deep, rhythmic pressure inside that slowly builds into warmth and waves, not just in one place, but through her whole being. It’s not just sensation — it’s a mix of surrender and control, of feeling wanted, seen, and fully alive to be in the moment just be there. When it’s good, I imagine it’s almost like being held from the inside out, like letting go while staying grounded. And unlike the sharp, immediate release experience, hers might feel slower, more layered, like riding a rising tide that takes over everything. But all that only really comes when she feels safe, turned on, and fully there — otherwise, it’s just empty motion.
For men:- it’s happiness tbh that’s it
Trust
Quick
Either nothing or disappointment, from what I’ve read.
I imagine it feels like a privilege.
With me!… quite dull and unsatisfying…
Pleasurable, I would think.
I have to acknowledge the top comment because it is fucking hilarious.
I imagine it’s more like a massage. A penis massage. Focused on your vagina. Then POW! Orgasm! Then another. And another. Where’d those come from? I want 7 too.
What do I imagine sex feels like for women?
two comments really stood out to me:
u/Still_Top_7923 — brutally honest and probably closer to the truth than most men want to admit. A lot of women I’ve talked to say the same thing: forgettable, selfish partners, no emotional connection, just jackhammering and done.
u/the_hungboy — more poetic, and I think he captured something most guys miss entirely. The emotional and trust-based side of sex. That vulnerability.
It reminded me of a conversation I had with someone (a feminine person) who explained their experience like this:
There are two types of guys.
One: Forgettable. Mediocre. Self-centered. Think they’re amazing in bed when they’re not.
Two: Emotionally present. Self-aware. They know they’re not perfect, but they want to learn and improve. They actually care.
That “caring” is the core. And that’s what I think sex is like for a woman — or at least what I imagine it is:
It’s deeply self-sacrificial. Almost like dying on your own sword.
You’re not just letting someone into your body — you’re exposing your entire self. It’s not just physical. It’s metaphysical. It’s spiritual. It’s emotional.
You’re handing someone access to your temple, your garden, your most sacred space… hoping, praying, that they don’t trample it. Because so many already have.
And the sad truth? Most don’t even notice the garden. They just walk through the front door and act like they own the place.
But when someone finally sees it really sees you when they respect it, nurture it, honor it… that’s when it becomes something profound.
Because being strong, being guarded, being “okay” all the time? It’s lonely. The ones who seem the strongest are usually the ones who’ve been hurt the most. They’ve had to be their own shield. They’ve taken the bullets alone.
So when someone finally comes along and doesn’t hurt them, who chooses to stay, to listen, to honor that space.
That’s the kind of connection that isn’t just about sex.
It’s about being seen.
Guessing by the quantity and quality of your orgasms, that at certain times, it feels 100x better for you then it does for me. I tell my wife it’s a bit as if I get 2 pleasure points consistently for 50 minutes and she gets 50 pleasure points for 2.minutes.
I always thought it was the same as I do except they do not feel it in the balls/penis but inside their lower abdomen.
Probably shiver waves
Probably that same tickly feeling we get before orgasm but from inside
Like a warm apple pie
If done correctly:
Each thrust is like my brain licks a battery and keeps some of the energy. It builds and builds until I feel my nerve endings all experience the battery feeling of electric joy like smelling gasoline at the tank but in the form of energy, intensified, and everywhere. Even my teeth feel the electric joy.
It goes on and on like I’m huffing the most perfect drug. And then it’s too much and it falls blissfully into a feeling like I’ve run 5 miles and won an award for being wonderful and everyone loves me and I love them too.
Btw, I’m also masturbating while getting ploughed. It’s so much better than masturbating alone.
Pretty fucking neat buddy.
I know is much more visual and focused for men. Penis strokes into a beautiful woman, done.
But the clitoris is a smaller, yet much more complicated shaped penis-like organ, stuff needs to fire up, swell a bit, get moist. It can even be stimulated from the other side via the gspot. I would imagine it would feel similar, yet rhythmic thrusts would go alongside pleasurable areas instead of just through THE ONLY pleasurable area (a k.a. Penis)
Being left disappointed is therefore a likable outcome.
Tip to urologists, could you colour code the pleasurable areas for us please?
My experience has always seemed like it’s an entire body sensation. Like gripping onto something with your hands and legs shaking and such. Guys feel it a lot in the stomach and chest. Whereas women seem to experience more of a euphoric full body sensation. I mean, it definitely depends on who you’re doing it with. I’m sure it can just be dull and suck if the person sucks at it.
P.S. Straight/Bi men
If you can’t read body language, you’ll probably suck at sex. You have to be able to feel the changes in your partners movements, and expressions. It’s not subtle. A woman who is enjoying themselves a lot can’t help but to physically and emotionally react to it. Otherwise, they aren’t feeling pleased. Learn their desires, learn their preferences, try new ways. Don’t be afraid to ask questions about what they like or want either. And if they tell you something isn’t working. Don’t get upset and sulk. That just means you have narrowed down what works and what doesn’t.
The pleasure isn’t always about you. Just because you feel great, that doesn’t always translate to their pleasure. Put yourself aside sometimes and do things that make them feel on top of the world. That advice translates outside of the bedroom too. 😁
how would i know how it feels for a woman when idk how it feels for me…?