My SO is one of those people that runs hot all the time so rather than be smothered by his overheating body it’s nice to cuddle him like a personal hot water bottle instead where I get to regulate how close to him/warm I want to get
I love when I get to be the big spoon as long as it’s temporary and not for sleeping. As much as I love having a guy wrap me in his arms and hold me, I get hot too fast if we’re under the blankets.
When I’m the big spoon, I have access to his entire body so I can stroke his chest and work my hands down to the good stuff slowly as foreplay. Then I can decide when (or if) I want more sex.
When I’m the little spoon, the cuddles turn into a hard dick pressing into my butt cheeks and his hand grabbing my tits, so I end up lifting my leg to let him slide back in, but when I’m the big spoon, he has to turn over when he gets hard so I’m in control and can take a little more time to tease.
Being able to see his back and neck, kiss his back and neck, caress his back and neck, go through his hair, hide behind his back, cuddle against his back, all of it.
Every once in a while? I am the big spoon always 😂 I never told him but I prefer it this way too, I jokingly give my husband a hard time that he’s always the little spoon but I don’t like being the little spoon, I like being the big spoon 😊 I feel like little spoon I have no freedom, big spoon I can break free when asleep
I get anxiety being the little spoon unless I am laying an exact certain way. I feel like I am being smothered. Being the big spoon gives me the physical contact as well as the control…. and air!
Ideally, I like if he lays on his back and I cuddle up on his chest.
I’m quite a bit shorter than my SO so the big-spoon position can be a bit awkward.
But I do like the feeling of getting my top off and pressing my chest into his back. It’s the intimate contact without any expectations of specific action in the moment. It’s relaxing!
I’m usually the big spoon, we call it the backpack though because he’s like a foot taller than me. I like being the little spoon better but so does he lol.
I like to sleep without a shirt and it feels so good to press my bare breasts against his back. It feels intimate to me. I like being able to smell him, kiss his back and neck, and rub my hands all over his body.
In my previous relationship, I was big spoon 99% of the time. Loved it! He’s got a really beautiful back and I loved giving him little kisses and smushing my face into him and smelling his clean skin.
My boyfriend won’t admit it but I know he LOVES being little spoon. I love getting to comb my fingers through his hair, grab onto his chin/jaw and scratch his facial hair, and glide my hands on his slightly hair chest or back. He always falls asleep when I rub his chest or back. Everything about it just feels so good, especially knowing he likes it so much.
My husband is warm like an oven all year around. When I got a stomach ache, I’ll big spoon him to get all the warmth from his body on my stomach. That feels really nice.
Nuzzling his neck, smelling his hair, rubbing his tum, touching the soft place on the backs of his knees with my knees, hearing him make little happy noises from our cuddles.
I like it when he rests his head on my boobs, he looks so small and peaceful and honestly, we fit better like that because his arms are placed under my back and over my waist and that’s not too heavy
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My SO is one of those people that runs hot all the time so rather than be smothered by his overheating body it’s nice to cuddle him like a personal hot water bottle instead where I get to regulate how close to him/warm I want to get
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I love when I get to be the big spoon as long as it’s temporary and not for sleeping. As much as I love having a guy wrap me in his arms and hold me, I get hot too fast if we’re under the blankets.
When I’m the big spoon, I have access to his entire body so I can stroke his chest and work my hands down to the good stuff slowly as foreplay. Then I can decide when (or if) I want more sex.
When I’m the little spoon, the cuddles turn into a hard dick pressing into my butt cheeks and his hand grabbing my tits, so I end up lifting my leg to let him slide back in, but when I’m the big spoon, he has to turn over when he gets hard so I’m in control and can take a little more time to tease.
Copping a feel on them pecks, feeling him breathing, smelling his hair, sometimes it just feels good to embrace somebody like a teddy bear.
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My husband grinds his teeth when he sleeps, so not hearing it two inches from my ear is pretty nice.
It feels good to have my chest pressed into his back and my arms snaked around to touch his chest or belly.
I would like this 50/50 ideally, not just “every once in a while”.
Also a very sexy scene in “Sea of Love” made me realize how hot being the big spoon could be. Made me overlook the fact that Pacino was playing a cop.
Being able to see his back and neck, kiss his back and neck, caress his back and neck, go through his hair, hide behind his back, cuddle against his back, all of it.
Every once in a while? I am the big spoon always 😂 I never told him but I prefer it this way too, I jokingly give my husband a hard time that he’s always the little spoon but I don’t like being the little spoon, I like being the big spoon 😊 I feel like little spoon I have no freedom, big spoon I can break free when asleep
I get anxiety being the little spoon unless I am laying an exact certain way. I feel like I am being smothered. Being the big spoon gives me the physical contact as well as the control…. and air!
Ideally, I like if he lays on his back and I cuddle up on his chest.
It’s actually more of a preference.
I’m quite a bit shorter than my SO so the big-spoon position can be a bit awkward.
But I do like the feeling of getting my top off and pressing my chest into his back. It’s the intimate contact without any expectations of specific action in the moment. It’s relaxing!
I love getting to hold him. Getting to feel him up and grabbing his man titties 😈
I get to hold it
🙂
I get to hold her and squish her belly :3
Squeezing his belly.
his butt
“Once in a while”??? I hate being the small spoon, and my boyfriend doesn’t like being the big spoon, match made in heaven.
I love being the big spoon because:
I’m usually the big spoon, we call it the backpack though because he’s like a foot taller than me. I like being the little spoon better but so does he lol.
Not getting so hot. The front of his body is like a friggin sawna.
Step 1: make engine noises
Step 2: you are now his jetpack and the two of you are flying away on an adventure
I like to sleep without a shirt and it feels so good to press my bare breasts against his back. It feels intimate to me. I like being able to smell him, kiss his back and neck, and rub my hands all over his body.
In my previous relationship, I was big spoon 99% of the time. Loved it! He’s got a really beautiful back and I loved giving him little kisses and smushing my face into him and smelling his clean skin.
Can’t really answer the question : I’m always the big spoon. Wether it’s my cat or boyfriend. It’s nice to hug your hot ones
I’m naturally a very cold person and he’s always like a space heater, so being able to press up against his back is ideal
Perfect perches for leg and arm for maximum comfort.
My boyfriend won’t admit it but I know he LOVES being little spoon. I love getting to comb my fingers through his hair, grab onto his chin/jaw and scratch his facial hair, and glide my hands on his slightly hair chest or back. He always falls asleep when I rub his chest or back. Everything about it just feels so good, especially knowing he likes it so much.
He sleeps before me so I will use his back to support my phone while I watch movies or go on Reddit lol.
My face fits perfectly in between his shoulder blades? It feels so nice.
My husband is warm like an oven all year around. When I got a stomach ache, I’ll big spoon him to get all the warmth from his body on my stomach. That feels really nice.
It’s a lot easier on my shoulder to be big spoon now that I had shoulder surgery, so that’s quite likable.
I love both… when you’re the big spoon you get to smell them, and my ex used to smell so good. It was intoxicating. I could sleep so much better.
I just like to wrap my arms around him and hold him close
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Nuzzling his neck, smelling his hair, rubbing his tum, touching the soft place on the backs of his knees with my knees, hearing him make little happy noises from our cuddles.
I like shoving my cold nose into my husbands warm back.
I like not having his penis in my butt, gets too sticky if he’s big spoon
I like it when he rests his head on my boobs, he looks so small and peaceful and honestly, we fit better like that because his arms are placed under my back and over my waist and that’s not too heavy
God, can’t a women just want to squish her boobs up against a hot man? r/letgirlshavefun