Her being a direct communicator is a big one for me, given my autism. Her being able to relate and support me emotionally is a huge one too
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Her being a direct communicator is a big one for me, given my autism. Her being able to relate and support me emotionally is a huge one too
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Her willingness to put others before herself
She rides me like a fucking PROFESSIONAL
She’ll never leave me like everyone else (I don’t have a girlfriend; I’ve just made one up in my head).
She does anal.
She supports me, she shows me love and is always there whenever I need her, the same way I am with her
I love that she’s hypothetical and therefore cannot nag.
Good communication skills,
Great humor, she is smart, she can back up any opinion she has.
She is spontaneous and is always open to try new things.
I love that she’s into experiences more than she’s into things. Like me she’d rather spend money on trips, nice dinners, baseball games, etc, than on, say, jewelry or shoes or super fancy cars.
Frankly I wouldn’t have married her or even dated her very long if it were otherwise haha
I cant have possibly asked for a more supportive partner.
The way he carries himself.His sense of humor,We make eachother laugh like idiots 24/7zThe way he’s sweet to me and makes me feel like the only girl in the world. He’s always touching me in some way every chance he gets. He’s sexually compatible with me and that’s way more important that people realize. His smell is intoxicating and his laugh is the most amazing sound I’ve ever heard.Him, I love everything about him.
He is impossibly disciplined and hard working. He’s also a very logical problem-solver.
Also his blowjob skills. He’s a master at deepthroating 😉
Intelligent and well read. I can talk to her about philosophical concepts, mathematics, scientific advancement, fiction, religion, architecture. She can hold her own in many conversations and not look or seem lost and confused.
Sexually compatible and pretty much open to whatever I want to do.
The physical aspect was maybe more a trait I was attracted to in the beginning of our relationship. Now I love her for her wits, her amazing planning ability and her ability to stick with me through thick and thin.
Her intelligence
I love that she has her own opinions, we don’t always agree, but I like that she’s not a mirror of my thoughts.
I love how accomplished she is. She is just so good at what she does.
I love her confidence.
I love how she treats me, laughs with me and loves me.
I love what she does for our family.
I love how she is always there for me when I’m down or struggling.
I love how she has “invested” in me and I “invest” in her.
She gets me.
Above all the other things I love about her is how intuitively and effortlessly we understand each other’s truest deepest self. I never have to explain why I think or feel something because that’s how she would think and feel.
She’s a genuinely nice person.
Caught bells palsy last week. We have a pair of 3 year old twins, she said get better i got this all while working full time. I couldnt pay her back if i wanted to
She is just…..
Great at communicating
Knows me which is strange lol.
Is all in. That is what really matters to me.
She’s probably the only person I can 100% be myself with. No fake smiles or forced enthusiasm my wife loves me for my bare bones self and I value nothing more than that love I feel from her.
She is very thoughtful. She has a way of making me remember the incredible times and some tough times. The tough times makes me thankful we got through it together. She shares big events with me and makes sure I feel included. She’s smart, she gives me a different perspective that makes me understand most of the time like, “whoa baby! That makes sense now.” I love when she looks at me in the eyes and I feel like I’m floating and I fall for her again and again. Wow!
Her personality.
She’s deeply independent and doesn’t need me for almost anything in her life. That doesn’t mean I don’t help out when she’ll let me. It just means she’s fully self sufficient and isn’t using me for anything.
She’s also very smart, fun, and incredibly funny. We haven’t been together that long but I swear I have never laughed so much in my life.
I also love how she looks at me and that she’s an expert level snuggler.
Her kindness and ability to see the good in all she is truly an inspiration to be a better human
Quite literally everything. But if I had to pick one, it’s the way she cares. Not just about me, though that is also amazing. But she is so caring and has such a good heart. She anonymously sends her clients things that she knows they need but are unable to get themselves for whatever reason. And it’s not like a here and there thing, she does it often and some are subscriptions. She remembers things about people, and talks about those things with them in such a caring and supportive way. Its really incredible to me. Im a very lucky guy
A couple of the traits that made me fall in love with her is her strength and the way she bends over backwards to keep her kids happy.
When I met her, she had just got out of an abusive relationship and was (still is) going through custody and child support hearings. But she was strong enough to leave him, and she never backed down when his family tried to guilt her into defying CPS’s recommendations of no visitations until the court made a ruling.
And she does everything she can for her kids. She makes sure they’re fed and clothed and taken care of before she worries about herself. She made me realize she is the kind of person I would want to make a family with.
Her honestly, kindness and how loving she is, best relationship I’ve ever been in.
They’re more emotionally intelligent than a lot of folks and pick things up so quickly; they’re smart AF. If we’re having an issue it always gets worked out and fully discussed to the point where any lingering anger/sadness/resentment or whatever has been addressed and has a plan to address in the future. They’re honest AF.