Strong work ethic, good communication, great morals. The kind of woman who surprises you after a hard week wearing nothing but an apron and hands me a glass of whiskey… so exactly like what I have. Of course, this only works if the man is equally as good to her.
That would be like asking what a good food is. The answer varies depending on the time, place, and personal preferences.
So the very broad answer to the very broad question is whatever is an enjoyable experience. If you enjoy a woman, she’s a good woman, just like if you enjoy a meal, it’s a good meal. You could enjoy it for its flavour or its filling sensation, just like how you can enjoy a woman for her big personality or her big personalities.
It doesn’t matter how good or bad anyone else says the woman is, what matters is how you enjoy her.
It’s a little subjective. Aside from preferences on appearances (which again, subjective)
Accountability. Can she self reflect? Admit her mistakes or project instead? Acknowledge faults and do better.
Honesty. Can she address her needs and worries and hold space. Same for being honest about when she feels hurt or misunderstood. This also applies to vulnerability.
Values. This depends on a person individual perspectives
Emotional intelligence and empathy. This ones difficult. Can she acknowledge different points of views. Even ones that are uncomfortable.
These aren’t set in stone. No woman is perfect. But some embrace growth and change, and others don’t.
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I don’t think that’s something that’s easily defined or quantifiable. Women are human beings who are flawed just like men. What makes a good man?
No one is perfect, but this is the general pattern:
-Accepts me for who I am, flaws and all.
-Listens to me without judging, belittling, or insulting.
-Knows how to tease without being a jerk.
-Shows appreciation for the things I do.
-Respects me.
-Respects my boundaries.
-Takes responsibility for her actions.
-Forgives me when I need to take responsibility for my actions.
-Trusts me.
-Meets my physical and emotional needs.
-Fun to be around.
-Not reluctant to introduce this person to her friends and family.
-Understands that physical intimacy is about pleasure and connection for both people, not just for HIM.
To me personally: one who has empathy, passion for something, emotional intelligence, and a similar sense of humor.
That’s a pretty vague question, so the vague answer is:
Someone that treats others the way they wish to be treated.
Good values, empathetic and fun
She makes my life better by being in it.
A good woman is like a lighthouse steady, guiding you through life’s storms without ever asking for applause
Strong work ethic, good communication, great morals. The kind of woman who surprises you after a hard week wearing nothing but an apron and hands me a glass of whiskey… so exactly like what I have. Of course, this only works if the man is equally as good to her.
My wife.
Some qualities of her are
Is morally upstanding, doesn’t bend on them, knows what she believes and why.
Has hobbies and passions/enthusiasm for many things, takes an interest in my hobbies as well and we can share that interest back and forth.
Genuine, tells it how it is, straight shooter type, good communicator
A woman who has your back, is patient with you when you screw up, but who also will call you out on your bullshit (in private).
you should feel like you’re on the same team, building together, and you can count on one another when things get bad
That would be like asking what a good food is. The answer varies depending on the time, place, and personal preferences.
So the very broad answer to the very broad question is whatever is an enjoyable experience. If you enjoy a woman, she’s a good woman, just like if you enjoy a meal, it’s a good meal. You could enjoy it for its flavour or its filling sensation, just like how you can enjoy a woman for her big personality or her big personalities.
It doesn’t matter how good or bad anyone else says the woman is, what matters is how you enjoy her.
It’s relative.
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Someone that stands by your side through the good times as well as the bad times.
One who does anal.
A best friend but with a more intimate connection.
It’s a little subjective. Aside from preferences on appearances (which again, subjective)
Accountability. Can she self reflect? Admit her mistakes or project instead? Acknowledge faults and do better.
Honesty. Can she address her needs and worries and hold space. Same for being honest about when she feels hurt or misunderstood. This also applies to vulnerability.
Values. This depends on a person individual perspectives
Emotional intelligence and empathy. This ones difficult. Can she acknowledge different points of views. Even ones that are uncomfortable.
These aren’t set in stone. No woman is perfect. But some embrace growth and change, and others don’t.
TLDR- Accountability. Compassion. Honesty.
No such thing as a “good woman” nor a “good man”
Cannot generalise like that