It seems pretty common on Reddit for people to say that a man should and will be so grateful to be offered sex that he will not have any preferences, deal breakers or expectations that would stop him from accepting. Do you agree?
What do you think about the cliché that says “men are just thankful to be there” concerning sex?
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I absolutely do not agree. There are many reasons that would cause me to decline sex.
That is a bullshit way if thinking, but personally, I’ve only seen this in reference to boob size, vagina appearance, and amount of breath needed during facesitting.
Cliches are based on truth. Remember that if he’s even there then you’ve already selected out all the women he’d be opposed to.
Nah. Everyone should have their own set of preferences, deal breakers, and expectations. Anyone who suggests a partner should be a sex doll that’s just there to be used however the first person wants is probably not someone whos opinion is worth taking(unless their partner has a ‘pretend to be a sex doll’ fetish of course.)
Only idiots and women believe that
Thankful to be where? In that same lil pussy that 10, 20, 30, 40 other mfs have been in?
Stop it
It’s only true for the bottom of the barrel bottom 25% of guys.
Which that’s the majority of the guys the post on Reddit.
90% true.
I think there is a very large number of men who will have any kind of sex with any kind of woman, and I think there is an equally large number of women who are willing to have sex with these men.
But I do not believe the behavior of these individuals determines what behavior I can expect of myself and my own sexual partners.
I mean, we’re talking about two different things here. Are there dudes just happy and thankful to get their dick wet? Yes. Is that an attitude that should be embraced as a standard, that we should tell dudes to be grateful they were allowed to have any sex? Absolutely not, that’s a ridiculous notion.
It’s nonsense said by sad Redditors who don’t get laid lol. It’s the same guys who say “all boobs are good boobs” when people ask if men have boob preferences or like ____ boobs. Yes, men have preferences and there are many people/boob/butts/bodies we don’t find attractive. I would say no to sex with way more women than I would say yes to.
For regular and average men beggars cannot be choosers, for the top 10% that all the women are fighting for they can be as picky as they want
I’m young, so for me, right now? Yeah, for sure.
Really? So what if you pull down the underwear and find a dick? Then what?
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I would say about 85% true but I’m desperate so. 🤷♂️
At some point it applies, at some point it doesn’t. 18 year old me would have been foaming at the chance to get laid, me in my 30s doesn’t think much of it. If I were a desperate KHV that would certainly change my outlook, but the more I’ve done it the higher my standards for enjoying it
Taken literally, of course it’s not true, and even a bit insulting. But if you take it to mean that men are usually a lot less judgmental and critical about anatomy and sexual performance than women are… yes, absolutely.