When they have road rage and drive like they own the road
Idiots that think driving like that is cool …..but it’s not ! I lose instant respect for you since you have zero respect for the lives of your passengers
If you drive like that soon after picking me up for our date ….haha take me back home
Guy’s perspective. Everytime I enter a girl’s bathroom and see a dirty, never cleaned toilet seat, it’s an instant turn off. I have noticed it’s mostly a thing with students living alone for the first time though
A couple times my gaze fell upon someone who just gave the vibe of someone i’d like to get to know better only to have my little fantasy completely crash when they lit up a cigarette. Ick, no thanks.
I know people are always working on themselves, and instead of having a “deal breaker.” I just look for someone who’s trying. You can smoke cigarettes, you can say bad words and make mistakes. You’ll find when you fall in love with someone and they fall in love back that a lot of things that upset you they will stop doing because loving you means they want to see you happy. I’m not critical or judgmental of people. I don’t understand enough to make any conclusions about someone based on how they look or act.
Not being able to admit any wrong whatsoever, like it can’t ever be their fault at all. Also flat out lying to your face. It doesn’t matter how pretty they are, If they lie I have 0 interest. Also a Democrat is a huge turn off they are so rude and mean to everyone around them, they have cult like behavior too, they remind me of scientologists
On a first date. We were early to the movie by about 30 minutes. I asked her if she wanted to walk around the little park area and talk/get to know each other. She said no and just wanted to listen to Midwest Emo in her car for the whole 30 minutes.
Wearing clothes for too long/ not washing them regulary/ not showering regulary. They might be thinking nobody’s noticing but they do. I have a colleague like that and nobody wants to sit in a room with him, but he doesn’t care. The manager tried talking to him about this, but he can’t be fired for being smelly and he doesn’t change.
Failing to wash their hands after using the bathroom, directly scratching their genitals or ass by reaching inside/under their clothing, handling raw meat in the kitchen, and so on.
Sure, touching dirty things while working outside, or while doing chores or something, you can wait till you finish doing that job to wash, but if I see you go do something like use the bathroom or touch raw meat, then go about your business without washing your hands? Nope. Gross.
Makes rude comments and asides about people just going about their everyday. Once went on a date with a guy who made a rude remark about how fat a woman’s feet looked in her sandals. Instantly lost respect and interest in him
Yelling angrily at strangers, consuming nicotine, most forms of gambling, & only ever talks shit as a topic of conversation.
Yelling at strangers means they’re mad coding when they interact with you. Consuming nicotine is a personal gripe of mine. I have nothing against the choice to consume it – they just won’t be attractive anymore. For gambling, I’m not competing for the attention of someone who gets that much thrill off chance based games. You’re #2 in their lives. Lastly, if they’re shit talkers, they’re probably finding shit to talk about you. Ranting is okay, but some people bitch as their only mode of conversation. I can’t have that much negativity in my life.
One thing that instantly makes someone unattractive to me is if their first instinct is to find fault. Like, they haven’t even settled in and they’re already picking apart the decor, someone’s outfit, or even the weather. It just screams negativity.
Comments
Being rude to service workers
Mean to someone
Declaring they don’t vote, or that they vote for populist/fascist politicians.
Dirty house
Behaving like an asshole or idiot.
no job
When they have road rage and drive like they own the road
Idiots that think driving like that is cool …..but it’s not ! I lose instant respect for you since you have zero respect for the lives of your passengers
If you drive like that soon after picking me up for our date ….haha take me back home
It’s not impressive
Staring on their phone the whole time
Being racist
Racist/hateful views
Too much voluntary negativity when there are so many other things to be doing and thinking about
“Sheeple”.
As soon as that comes out of their mouth or they type it, I’m done.
Unless it’s pertaining to South Park episodes.
Scrolling through videos on social media
Green hair, blue hair, piercings, smells like earring backs and milk. Votes for kamala.
hard drugs even if they aren’t addicts lmao
being cruel to animals
When someone uses curses
Being an asshole
When they don‘t follow certain rules for example touching museum objects
being unfriendly to the waiter
Dandruff flakes on clothes
Guy’s perspective. Everytime I enter a girl’s bathroom and see a dirty, never cleaned toilet seat, it’s an instant turn off. I have noticed it’s mostly a thing with students living alone for the first time though
Support trump/ MAGA.
Pierce their nose
Every time you share something, they try to outdo it.
Cool, Greg. You’ve done everything better.
Disrespectful behavior towards people or animals.
Removing ear wax in public 🤢
Have a chip on their shoulder
Be rude to wait staff
Double parking
A couple times my gaze fell upon someone who just gave the vibe of someone i’d like to get to know better only to have my little fantasy completely crash when they lit up a cigarette. Ick, no thanks.
Treat someone different because of their sexuality
Smoke
being rude/sassy to waitstaff
Chewing with your mouth open!
Supports MAGA.
Sloppy demeanor
Intentionally farting 💨
When guys randomly drop out of pocket seggsual hints or questions. Makes us question the intentions and the meaning behind your intend with us
Putting someone else down.
MAGA
Instead of listening to understand, listening to respond.
I know people are always working on themselves, and instead of having a “deal breaker.” I just look for someone who’s trying. You can smoke cigarettes, you can say bad words and make mistakes. You’ll find when you fall in love with someone and they fall in love back that a lot of things that upset you they will stop doing because loving you means they want to see you happy. I’m not critical or judgmental of people. I don’t understand enough to make any conclusions about someone based on how they look or act.
Treating people in the service industry rudely.
on first date it would be not telling me i look nice, order a salad, talk politics
Rude
Smoke cigarettes
Ego
MAGA is disgusting.
Judging people from their appearance.
litter
Bite their nails.
Claim they’re a gentleman then act like an asshole when no one’s looking
Saying the n word when they’re white but they act black. Cringy!
Lack of spatial awareness
Lying
Not being able to admit any wrong whatsoever, like it can’t ever be their fault at all. Also flat out lying to your face. It doesn’t matter how pretty they are, If they lie I have 0 interest. Also a Democrat is a huge turn off they are so rude and mean to everyone around them, they have cult like behavior too, they remind me of scientologists
Smoking
Wearing sunglasses indoors. Don’t know why that one gets me but it does.
Smoking of any kind, vape, weed, cigars, anything
Constantly bring up their political opinions
Unpleasant attitude.
Rude to staff.
Yeah complaining to the person behind the register about the product or price is exactly what the minimum wage pays for.
Cigarettes
Drives a tesla.
Loud burp and chew like an animal …
My BFF broke it off with a girl who said she ‘felt like she had served in the military’ after one trip to the gun range to shoot pistols
Lack manners
Punching down.
Cruelty to animals.
MAGA.
Rude to people serving them.
Any type of smoking
Look like me
On a first date. We were early to the movie by about 30 minutes. I asked her if she wanted to walk around the little park area and talk/get to know each other. She said no and just wanted to listen to Midwest Emo in her car for the whole 30 minutes.
Being overly cocky and entitled
Eating their snots
Eat with their mouth open. Instant turnoff no matter how attractive.
Alcohol abuse.
Smoking and/or vaping. It all smells like shit, looks like shit, and is terrible for your body and everyone around you.
Talk about themselves
smoking
As a black person…whenever someone says “I’m really into black guys” 😒😒😒immediate block.
litter
Treating service workers like trash. Doesn’t matter how good you look, that attitude kills it instantly.
Purposely violating boundaries to test people
Being judgmental / superiority complex
Spitting on the ground.
Bad table manners. Close your fucking mouth you cow
Speaks poorly/gossips about others (they’re haters)
Wearing clothes for too long/ not washing them regulary/ not showering regulary. They might be thinking nobody’s noticing but they do. I have a colleague like that and nobody wants to sit in a room with him, but he doesn’t care. The manager tried talking to him about this, but he can’t be fired for being smelly and he doesn’t change.
Superiority complex
Cut me off in conversation or not know simple etiquette
Smoking
Rudeness
Being excessively overweight and eating garbage constantly.
Littering
No indoor voice
Failing to wash their hands after using the bathroom, directly scratching their genitals or ass by reaching inside/under their clothing, handling raw meat in the kitchen, and so on.
Sure, touching dirty things while working outside, or while doing chores or something, you can wait till you finish doing that job to wash, but if I see you go do something like use the bathroom or touch raw meat, then go about your business without washing your hands? Nope. Gross.
Supporting Trump
compliment fishing
MAGA hat.
Littering
having very radical views on anything.
Boast about themselves or talk very highly of themselves. Self-confidence is great but overconfidence ain’t
wears a red baseball cap.
Mean to service workers, bad grammar, and poor hygiene.
“ya ya ya so this happened”
Treat service workers like shit. If you’ll do that to a random person, you’ll do that to me once you feel I don’t deserve your kindness anymore
Smoke
Talking slang, smoking and talking about signs
Smokes cigs.
Denies a genocide
Mansplaining. Literally insufferable.
When they openly unwedgey themselves. Have a bit of decorum and step and half it out like the rest of us.
Not listening
Thala fan
Post the same threads repeatedly to farm upvotes
Smokes
Smoke or vape. Even if the person is super attractive, a cigarette in the mouth totally turns me off.
Backbiting and cruelty in general, that stems from stupidity.
Makes rude comments and asides about people just going about their everyday. Once went on a date with a guy who made a rude remark about how fat a woman’s feet looked in her sandals. Instantly lost respect and interest in him
Smoke cigarettes.
Well, my friend had a crush on a guy who dropped the N-word. With a hard “E-R”. Crush was immediately over.
Body odor
Drive by real slow in a car they think is so cool
Smoke
Use narcotics, including tobacco 🤮
Yelling angrily at strangers, consuming nicotine, most forms of gambling, & only ever talks shit as a topic of conversation.
Yelling at strangers means they’re mad coding when they interact with you. Consuming nicotine is a personal gripe of mine. I have nothing against the choice to consume it – they just won’t be attractive anymore. For gambling, I’m not competing for the attention of someone who gets that much thrill off chance based games. You’re #2 in their lives. Lastly, if they’re shit talkers, they’re probably finding shit to talk about you. Ranting is okay, but some people bitch as their only mode of conversation. I can’t have that much negativity in my life.
Asking what a person can do that automatically makes them unattractive on Reddit ofc.
If i set a boundary and they try to negotiate it instead of respecting it right away
One thing that instantly makes someone unattractive to me is if their first instinct is to find fault. Like, they haven’t even settled in and they’re already picking apart the decor, someone’s outfit, or even the weather. It just screams negativity.
Be Democrat
Growing a mustache
Use Reddit!
Pick their nose in public
Why is this posted so much? Like I get things being reposted, but why this exact question?
Bad hygiene
Not respecting other people’s views /opinions also of you always think your right definitely too.
When they’re disrespectful towards adults
Asshole personality I’ve got no time for those people.
smoke
Mention how “good” they are.
Chew with their mouth open