What has been the biggest turn on a person has told you while having sex?

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What has been the biggest turn on a person has told you while having sex?

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  1. Silent_Driver_7116 Avatar

    That my belly was sexy

  2. Which-Village3092 Avatar

    bumping the power switch on the back of my neck

  3. Blondeexplosive Avatar

    For me, the hottest thing a man can say to me is that he really wants me.

    The über-hub is a morning-sex person and I am…not a morning person in any way.

    But when he tells me he really wants me, usually while stroking my skin and cuddling close, so I can feel that his nether regions agree with his words…that is hot as fuck!

    I’ve always been this way – anytime a man (or woman) has told me they really want me, or find me incredibly sexy, that gets my motor revving big-time.

    “I want you to want me…” <name that song and date yourself!>

    Being desired is the most exciting thing to me.

  4. South-Special6955 Avatar

    Dirty talk is awesome..! The nastier, the better.. it takes a little bit to get used to talking during sex.. but once you do.. f’ing awesome!!

  5. DictionaryJoke Avatar

    “NutCoin is gearing up to dominate a massive $2 billion market. This isn’t just another player. It just crushes a lot.”

  6. curiouskittyclub Avatar

    I used to be super self conscious about my post baby stretchmarks. Post divorce dating was rough but one guy discovered them on his way down and paused and I panicked but he just gave them a kiss and I basically came right there. It was so sexy.

  7. Sea-Branch1446 Avatar

    My ex was fucking me and said “never in a million years” I asked what he meant by that mid ride and he said “never in a million years did I ever imagine id get to fuck you in the backseat of my truck after a day at the beach” It was so hot to feel so wanted

  8. LaKoref Avatar

    that he likes how my ass is when he grabs it

  9. sillywhitedude Avatar

    “I am going to cum all over your perfect cock” the hottest thing someone has ever said to me

  10. VivaLaKole Avatar

    the way my boobs look when i am on top of him (they are small so he gave me confidence)

  11. Wild-Razzmatazz1619 Avatar

    When they degrade me verbally. Hmm

  12. Mcshiggs Avatar

    I ordered tacos, they should be here in 37 minutes.

  13. SlightlySpicy4 Avatar

    “Good girl,” 🫠

  14. SonOfViltrum Avatar

    any time i hear my girlfriend say she’s cumming, i lose it

    i don’t even have to be close to cumming but once she says it, i’m ready to explode lmao it’s like those words just summon the babies

  15. Chance-Wonder-5022 Avatar

    Oof. This dude carried me to his couch so i could rip the bowl really quick, still inside, resumed gut crushing as soon as i exhaled 😵💕 if he wasn’t a sociopath id have his lastname lmao fuck that guy

  16. Weird-Routine-2516 Avatar

    I love hearing “cum inside me”

  17. Many_Steak_6002 Avatar

    Please let me go I promise I won’t tell anyone about the bodies!

  18. MeghanSOS Avatar

    my bf told me me to be a good girl and “bark” WOOF!! WOOF! (sorry if TMI)

  19. Silver_Fox_1994 Avatar

    “Make me pregnant”.

    Worked well, because now I have a son

  20. reddittroll7575 Avatar

    I told my husband to cum
    On my face during sex this weekend he couldnt do it fast enough guess he liked that 🤣🤣

    But for me I like when he tells me to play with myself

  21. sitophilicsquirrel Avatar

    I’ve only been with one Latina woman, but “Papi” definitely did it for me, which is strange because I hate being called “Daddy” by a partner- it’s too familiar…

  22. Embarrassed-Soup-681 Avatar

    “I want to give you my babies”

  23. GothiccMommyx Avatar

    Just the enthusiasm.

    Says everything and gets me crazy.

  24. Global-Quarter-4819 Avatar

    Her telling me to take off the condom because she wanted to feel me finish

  25. Efronian Avatar

    “I wanna slip it in” she started panting on the phone when I said this to her, she had just sent me a few nudes prior and I was telling her what I thought..

  26. hey_its_meagain Avatar

    I recently said to my partner “I love your body”, and he replied “it’s all yours”. I don’t know why, but that was so sexy, hahaha.

    And years ago, an ex told me “you’re so wet, that so good…” I melted.

  27. Educational-Tie-1878 Avatar

    she called me handsome…. :3

  28. dietcoke2008 Avatar

    It is not what she says but how she moans. My ex gf (now fiancé) loves to lick my ears (extremely hot to me) and sometimes moans heavily before/while doing it. I love it.

  29. mr_delete Avatar

    (Not me, but …)

    “I’m a whore for your giant cock”

    Disclaimer: I have NEVER heard this, my friend claims he did once when he was with one of his exes.

  30. donttellmywifehowmuc Avatar

    If you weren’t such an asshole your dick could solve world peace .

  31. Darth-Skye Avatar

    “I want you.” Easy peasy 🥵

  32. Forsaken-Garlic817 Avatar

    “I want to give you sons”, some weird game of thrones-esque testosterone spike hit me right then 😂 she wrapped her legs around me and I went to pound town.

    Considering we were like 21-22 at the time and in college, I’m glad she didn’t give me any kids 😂😂

  33. hatred-shapped Avatar

    When they start speaking in their native language because they temporarily forgot English. 

  34. Fuzzy_Muscle Avatar

    “OMG! I’m squirting!!!”

  35. xxTonyTonyxx Avatar

    While l was giving it to her:

    Me – Tell me you love me

    Her – l love you, l love you, l love you

  36. Beginning_Capital_64 Avatar

    My ex usually would say “fuck me” during sex but one night we were doing anal and she started screaming “fuck it, fuck it, fuck it!”
    Hottest thing ever

  37. luckyassumptions9461 Avatar

    “I’m cummmmmmmiinnnnggggggggg!”

  38. Majestic_Bet6187 Avatar

    “ooh I’m surprised it fit in me” or if they’re scratching me during 😉 shoot why am I telling all my secrets to strangers on Reddit?

  39. metalgod12 Avatar

    When she tells me how big I feel when I’m inside her and telling me how strong I am.

  40. bristolbulldog Avatar

    I love how much I turn you on.

  41. Evening_Carry_146 Avatar

    I got high fived by a girl as she was cumming. I was really proud of myself.

  42. yourvulgarvoyeur Avatar

    “I have something for you”
    It was the way he said it, it was so calm, and then he took out his cock and taunted me from across the bed. I crawl over and he says.
    “It’s just for you”
    Jelly, in his hands I am.

  43. PrettyBoyPixie Avatar

    “It’s(iykyk) all yours baby” as he ykyk is doing me or “you’re my whore/you’re mine” orrrr “god you’re intoxicating” or the greatest one yet “fuck you’re amazing, you make me so fucking happy”😊

  44. WarEagleJim Avatar

    “Fuck me daddy!!” it totally freaked me out the first time it happened and I completely stopped and got up and I was like “what the hell?” But then when she explained it I was like “OK.”
    Now I really love it.

  45. triangle_choke Avatar

    One of these things my current partner has told me:

    “I love the way you fuck me.”

    “You’re the best sex I’ve ever had.”

    “If it wasn’t for you, I would be a lesbian.”

    Hard not to be happy about hearing any of those.

  46. Worried-Ebb-1699 Avatar

    While he’s fucking me, telling me he wants me to suck his dick.

    Something so hot about his dick covered in pussy juice and I suck it off. Then we make out

  47. imatotalfreak Avatar

    “you make me feel so good when you are inside me” while Im pounding her

  48. Mysterious_Spring907 Avatar

    “You’re so pretty when you cum”, turned me on so much 😈

  49. MAYthe4thbewithHEW Avatar

    This one wasn’t really a dirty talker at all, sexy noises but no words.

    Except one day like 3 years into the relationship, she must’ve been in a mood:

    “You feel so good between my legs…(pause)…I just want you to FUCK ME oh sorry!”

    It was both cute and sexy.

    inb4 r/thathappened: meh

  50. Infamous-Apple-2392 Avatar

    “You are my top-of-list fucker” while she slapped her cheek with it. Bisexual lady, one of my best sex partners ever, really miss her

  51. paxcincinnatus Avatar

    “I want to create new life with you”

    Phwew!

  52. Electronic-Length521 Avatar

    How come once in a while someone asks something like that and gets positive feedback (upvotes, share, comment) and god forbid I do it…reddit is a big wtf moment

  53. LongSimpleDays Avatar

    I was sleeping with a girl, I was laying on top of her with my arm around her neck. She moved her head back to my ear and told me “thank you” in between moans and breaths. Still think about it frequently.

  54. Sufficient-Lion9639 Avatar

    “Wait honey my husband is calling”

  55. I_Have_Lost Avatar

    “Hrngh hrngh hrngh”

    The sound my girlfriend makes when she’s coming really hard. Hearing her convulse so hard she’s unable to create words is the epitome of sexy.

  56. Fine_Independent_340 Avatar

    That I’m really beautiful 🤷🏻‍♀️

  57. Temporary-Redditor Avatar

    I was in her back door and I was gonna pull out and she said “No I earned it you’re gonna give it to me” … I def gave it to her at that moment bc it made me blast off that second

  58. UnfinishedThings Avatar

    “You do know that you’re in my ass right now?”

    I didn’t know, but it tipped me over the edge

  59. Rabrab123 Avatar

    You can do whatever you want with me now, with a big satisfied grin after foreplay.

  60. hot-n-readyforit Avatar

    “The only one allowed to fuck you is me.”

    When i tell you I came all over that man’s cock instantly… whooooo. That was the night we went from casual fuck buddies to a couple.

    It took months to get over him when we split.

  61. who_peed_in_my_soup Avatar

    “You fuck like a grown man” spoken by a woman more than 30 years my senior. Yes I was an adult when this went down.

  62. Fuel_Additional Avatar

    “You’re doing so good” will always get me.

  63. writingcat1993 Avatar

    I had a girl riding my strap, and she bent down over me and started moaning and whispering in my ear. I started moving so much faster after that. It was so hot.

  64. justcallmepeter Avatar

    When I was eating her out for a while, she led me back up with her hands. I asked her if she came because that was my intention. She said no but it’s okay then she guided me and said fuck me. I was like 😲

  65. Excellent_Lychee6344 Avatar

    My husband told me to “get mad at him” it was hot af.. I chocked and slapped him and he came like crazy in me

  66. Rosekun25 Avatar

    So I wear a nightgown to bed.

    I live in an area where the weather is bipolar af so it’s like, I’m sweaty, Just hike up the skirt a bit. I’m cold? Cool pull it down. I do it in my sleep lol.

    Anyway he comes and spends the night, I just wear my usual little sleeveless Muumuu, I climb into bed, we start going at it, I’m self conscious about the muumuu

    He tells me it’s the sexiest thing he’s ever seen.

    It made me explode into a million pieces. In a good way though 😌

  67. ThePhiff Avatar

    “Oh my god, I’m cumming AGAIN!”

  68. extract_78 Avatar

    It ain’t t big around but sure is short!

  69. Efficient_Work_4168 Avatar

    I was having sex with a guy first time after a long pause in my sexlife and he said: “Have u been waiting for this? I feel it, you’re so wet u little slut.” It was sooo hot and unexpected.

  70. ajcranst Avatar

    Any compliment to my dick lol.

    In all seriousness, I think for some of us, appreciation of things we are insecure about is incredibly validating and confidence-giving during sex because it is hard to lie about being turned on and there is rarely a reason to do so. I saw some other comments about compliments to stretch marks, bellies, etc., as well as many about feeling desired. I think we feel most desired when our partner acknowledges what we are insecure about but then show us they dont care or its not so bad by literally having sex with us. It is hard to feel inadequate when someone just fucked you despite the inadequacy.

    For me, im pretty average and not particularly insecure about my dick size, but I can say confidently that I have felt most confident and had the best sex for both parties, when my partners compliment my dick/performance and confirm it is making them feel good. Best sex I ever had (and I would argue best sex I have ever provided) the girl was constantly going on about how good I was making her feel and how much she wanted my dick yada yada. Was very confidence inspiring. After that relationship, I had a way more serious and intimate relationship, but our sex never reached the level of that with prior girl (who I did not like much outside of sex). There were multiple reasons for this, but certainly a theme was that I was struggling to feel as confident with her as with others, and when I made this suggestion to her, the compliments she provided felt a bit hollow.

    Confidence is sexy, so make your partner feel confident and you get to reap the reward!

  71. Cheetodude625 Avatar

    “Kiss me and choke me and ride me. You can go slow if you want.”

    Twas the night I discovered a kink. Only successful one night stand. Where ever you are “Maria” hope you’re enjoying life.

  72. aussydog Avatar

    A FWB told me once, after round 2 of several, that she hated me.

    I asked why and she said because now she knew what she has been missing all these years.

    We had a laugh about it but there was genuine regret in her tone and written all over her face.

    As someone that completely feeds off of fulfilling other people’s desires, that was an utterly intoxicating drug to me.

    It’s a drug that I haven’t been able to stop chasing.

    I don’t take nights off as a result. I’m always trying to be at the top of my game. So I dance this very fine line between being overwhelmed by the stress of the journey or getting high on the positive feedback.

  73. Appropriate_Fig5014 Avatar

    Seeing her enthusiasm change once I had her coming from fingering her and hitting her g spot, there after she reciprocated happily with taking my hard cock and slurping me to completion

  74. Fast_Isopod3568 Avatar

    cum for me baby, good girl, speaking in a foreign language in my ear especially calling me chiquita. Jesus 🥵

  75. hentailover93 Avatar

    I asked “what are you” she said “daddy’s toy” cock went into over drive lol

  76. Tasty-Willingness839 Avatar

    Told me I was a sexy sexy girl in a low growl.

    Why thank you.

  77. tdasnowman Avatar

    She said nothing at all. I came out the shower she was waiting pushed me back onto the bed mounted herself and just took me. This was big flip since she preferred to be submissive to the point I often called her aggressively submissive. I came so hard it was almost painful.

  78. Holiday-Pay193 Avatar

    > Sexers of Sexdit, what’s the sexiest sex you’ve ever sexed?

    Sex.

  79. haeziedaze82 Avatar

    My husband was fucking me one time and I finished and he goes “oh, are you done???”…pauses for a bit, and then goes “no, you’re not done!” Then commenced to pounding. Too bad I had already cum bc I for sure would’ve cum again at him saying that if given just like 5 more minutes.

    I think about it a lot. I should probably let him know how much that turned me on tbh.

  80. SpiderCop_NYPD_ARKND Avatar

    I don’t have one, but a good friend of mine (a woman) once told me the story of a guy she dated, they had sex exactly once and she broke up after because he was deathly silent during, until his climax, when he, very calmly, like describing a cardboard box, said “and…. pop goes my weasel.”

  81. One-Internet-1982 Avatar

    A guy told me I had been his fantasy for 20 straight years, since the day we first crossed paths. He was 25 and I was 40. We used to flirt on the phone and email dirty shit to each other and laugh.

    Saw him again 20 yrs later, and it was outrageously hot. He could barely look at me and said “I still have every word you ever wrote to me. You have been the basis of every fantasy I’ve ever had. ” Wow. And we had a very hot time.
    Damn!

  82. wafflefries2k14 Avatar

    As I entered my wife for the first time after getting ED treatment, the “ohhhhh fuck yeah” she moaned made me bust almost immediately. 

  83. Guava_ Avatar

    ‘You’re so much better than my uncle’

    I mean, how dare she compare me to my father?

  84. Obvious_Fix2065 Avatar

    The sound of their moans as they shudder and try to speak. Thats honestly the best thing ever

  85. SirLaughsalot7777777 Avatar

    Fill me up. I want to feel your seed in me. Suffice to say I barely held it after

  86. Responsible-Buddy587 Avatar

    It was the first time having sex with a straight man because I transitionned (mtf). Even though I pass as a woman in my daily life I was too scared to have something with a man but I met this very sweet guy and he didn’t care I was trans when I had to tell him. We did the thing and he was calling me a good girl the whole time and it was one of the hottest thing I ever experienced lmao I know it’s dumb but with my context it’s a lot

  87. rare_with_hair Avatar

    We were taking it slow during the talking/dating stages. After about 2 months, a make-out session got too heated, and we ended up having sex. While she was riding me, she said “Damn, I’ve been waiting for this dick.” I lost it and came instantly.

  88. superminh13 Avatar

    I had a black lady call me the n word in bed. I’m not black.

  89. Rookie_Gore_Studio Avatar

    I was going down on a girl, and she didn’t really say anything, but she grabbed my hair at some point and said “please” and that shit was wild.

  90. YeOldeWizardSleeve Avatar

    We are not working out we are definitely fucking

  91. aromatic-sarcasm2424 Avatar

    One women whilst mid blowjob stop and cupped my balls, and said “let’s find out if these big heavy balls are full of cum for me”. I seem to recall she was pleasantly surprised when they were and she got drenched in more cum that she’d expected lol

  92. ubercreeep Avatar

    When they mutter their credit score mid-thrust.