What has social media ruined?

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What has social media ruined?

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  1. SometimesOpposite Avatar

    Living in the moment

  2. [deleted] Avatar

    Social skills

  3. Ok_Mixture4917 Avatar

    What little truth we all agreed on before

  4. VenitaPinson Avatar
  5. Excellent-Series7809 Avatar

    In person social interaction

  6. riddermarkrider Avatar

    Being happy with what you have

  7. Q_danial007 Avatar

    Tanking pictures

  8. Casually-Adjacent Avatar

    Organic interactions…..the joy of a surprise interaction that you didn’t know your soul needed.
    We are saturated with micro interactions

  9. Adventurous_Map5411 Avatar

    making genuine connections

  10. LunarOptimus Avatar

    Kids mentality.

  11. whatam1d0in Avatar

    Happiness, dating, living in the moment instead of trying to record it.

  12. vp999999 Avatar

    Starting over.

  13. LopsidedLandscape744 Avatar

    It’s easy to say any kind of real human interaction but it also ruined the idea that people have a sense of autonomy and don’t just do whatever gets attention

  14. No-Hedgehog7420 Avatar

    Absolutely EVERYTHING! Too many things to list! All of humanity is destroyed!

  15. Conscious-Wasabi5817 Avatar

    Subculture, slow living, mental health- to name a few

  16. Imaginary-Soil2069 Avatar

    YouTubers who make videos on things that not problems and try make them problems, also them going after things and people who doing nothing actually wrong just being a alive and doing same shit there doing but different content then make a shit excuse

  17. Intelligent-Snow4642 Avatar

    everyone’s perception of reality

  18. EarthIsFull_1800 Avatar

    Drivers’ abilities to stay alert at a red light.

  19. milkyprin Avatar

    Time and attention

  20. neurodivergent-idiot Avatar

    pretty much everything

  21. N0va_A1 Avatar

    Authenticity

  22. federkrebz Avatar

    pretty much everything, especially politics and societal behavior

  23. Facepalm_2025 Avatar

    Truth, facts, and accountability

  24. EzAeMy Avatar

    Wondering whatever happened to so and so.

  25. NervousCommittee8124 Avatar
  26. Amatura Avatar

    Long-term concentration. Nuance. The discipline, curiosity, and empathy it takes to know many things that are important.

  27. Supernova138 Avatar

    What hasn’t it ruined

  28. spytez Avatar

    Before you used to have lots of friends and a few acquaintances. Now it’s all acquaintances and a few friends.

  29. myghostflower Avatar

    it’d be easier to list what it hasn’t

  30. bradyso Avatar

    My faith in humanity

  31. 404IDontcare Avatar

    Society as a whole: individuality, creativity, and mental health.

  32. thee-coziest Avatar

    wow. never have i ever upvoted EVERY comment on a reddit post. everybody is speaking straight facts.

  33. isfrying Avatar

    I am over fifty and only on reddit. Never been on any other platform. I’m here for the jokes. I am so sorry for all the 15-25 year olds who have to grow up in this world. Genuinely.

  34. Willing_Channel_6972 Avatar

    American’s ability to use basic critical thinking, media literacy, and honestly even just regular literacy.

  35. el_apach3 Avatar

    Relationships

  36. Fit-Let8175 Avatar

    Actual camaraderie. Who wants to be on a date who’s glued to her phone? Or out with friends who are scrolling through social media? Social media has its purpose, but it is not meant to be a distraction from living an actual life.

  37. Peculiarpelican9 Avatar

    Social interactions

  38. phobe32 Avatar

    My relationship

  39. steelbluesleepr Avatar

    The entire fucking world.

  40. CosmicCalicoBTD Avatar

    Dating
    Friendships
    Relationships

    Everyone became a fake narcissist faking their lives to impress people and portraying a version of themselves that isn’t aligned with reality of who they really are.

    Social media has ruined the way people connect in a very large way, while subsequently disconnecting people from themselves.

    Many know not who they are, only who they believe society wants to see them as, who they “should” be seen with or not be seen with, bandwagoning just to fit in and more.

    Considering that over half of internet traffic is largely fake and bots, do you even know if you’re truly engaging with a person?

    It has also destroyed privacy, exacerbated isolation, and made people afraid of each other.

    People are obsessed with followers counts vs real human connection which devalues people in many ways or causes a skewed worldview, leading to poor social skills.

    That leads to being extremely materialistic and only associating with people on a transactional basis on what someone has or doesn’t have vs their core values as a human being, and how they can make your life more inclusive and joyful.

    On the positive side, you can stay in touch with family you never talk to anyway. Woo!

  41. TllFit Avatar

    Just about everything.

  42. invincibleyuu Avatar

    Kindness, everyone is so mean

  43. Loud_Cauliflower_928 Avatar

    Went to a concert recently, and it felt like everyone was filming for a reality show. Phones everywhere, people trying to get that perfect story shot. Problem is, I’m not tall, so I spent the whole time staring at a sea of hands and glowing screens. The best part? Half the crowd was more focused on getting a video for their Insta story than actually enjoying the music. Social media’s definitely ruined real moments – people forget to live in the moment when they’re too busy trying to capture it

  44. CompleteyClueless Avatar

    What has social media not ruined?

  45. chocho808 Avatar
  46. georgieramone Avatar

    People’s grasp on reality

  47. dope_sheet Avatar

    Basic human discourse.

  48. Broken-halo27 Avatar

    Reality…. Everyone sees a “picture perfect” life and wants to keep up with the Jones’s…. It’s not real!

  49. ballsosteele Avatar

    Rational thought

  50. chichiwvu Avatar

    Gen Alpha. Like teens are always going to have things that are popular and odd slang but the brain rot shizz is just too much and it spreads SO fast. They don’t even know what half of it means but they’ll yell it anyway.

  51. Boysenberry0127 Avatar

    Attention spans for sure

  52. Tight_Fox6069 Avatar

    Time to accompany

  53. Eddie_Who_Cares Avatar

    EVERYTHING. I’m older than the Public-Facing Internet, and despite my High Hopes for the potential of the “World Wide Web,” I am disappointed at the result.

  54. pingapump Avatar

    When I was a kid, me and my sister used to get juiced when we would catch our favorite infomercial on the television. Shout out to Ron Popiel and the Showtime Rotisserie. YouTube is nothing more than shorter, less interesting infomercials disguised as original quality content all under a veil of narcissism and main character syndrome.

  55. BeerStein_Collector Avatar

    It made dating complicated.

  56. JohnSmithWithAggron Avatar

    Being able to live spoiler-free.

  57. Ageis17fang Avatar

    Social medias where people post about their lives and compare themselves to others constantly is like a cancer on people’s minds.

    My wife and I now only use them as a form of communication e.g. group chats

  58. Maximum-Hovercraft91 Avatar

    TikTok battling and begging… like it’s a full time job “SEND ME a gALaxY right NOW”!

  59. yourfatherx Avatar

    high school reunions

  60. northernguy7540 Avatar

    Accountability, ability to filter your thoughts, ability to interact in person

  61. Conscious_Raisin_436 Avatar

    The fucking entire Internet

  62. pingwing Avatar

    Being social.

  63. phicks_law Avatar

    I can’t think of anything it has not ruined.

  64. gardenhack17 Avatar

    Democracy and literacy

  65. Ok_Success_7159 Avatar

    Kids ! I worry for them

  66. Illustrious_Cry_5388 Avatar

    Socializing, going out, arguments, attention spans to name a few.

  67. snarffle- Avatar

    Social skills.

  68. PhiStudios_ Avatar

    Everything, buddy, put the damn phone away and enjoy the moment.

    I hate them at concerts.

  69. Sad-Dig-1675 Avatar

    IT cells of political parties , fan pages of celebrities & my social media accounts behaving like a damn personalised ad billboards

  70. Gnome-of-death Avatar

    Life, the universe and everything

  71. TrespianRomance Avatar

    Political opinions

  72. TeS_sKa Avatar

    Bots, Fake news and uncensored bulshit children are exposed to

  73. AcrylicNitrogen Avatar

    Beauty Standards, socials skills, expectations, attention span. Everything

  74. Frustrateduser02 Avatar

    Going out to a bar.

  75. Busy_bee7 Avatar

    Convinced social media makes us hate our own friends

  76. revrurik Avatar

    Everything, Everywhere, All At Once.

  77. undergroundforlife Avatar

    Concerts. I’m so fucking sick of looking around phones. It sounds like shit & you’ll probably never watch the video, just watch the fucking show.

  78. RedBaron4x4 Avatar

    Spelling skills

  79. bravogolfhotel Avatar

    Before social media, you could be blissfully unaware of how many sexy people your “friends” weren’t bothering to introduce you to…

  80. waynownow Avatar

    Itself. It used to be a fun way if interacting and staying in touch.

    Now it’s just evil, toxic profit driven, politically driven garbage.

  81. TruckersAreBored Avatar

    Common sense, families, friendships, expectations

  82. MarryMeMongo Avatar

    Politics, facts, critical thinking, reality itself.

    Edit: the ability to perceive reality as it is.

  83. VirtuesVice666 Avatar

    Dating. Two people lost in their phones…

  84. East_Golf_8973 Avatar

    Its happily ruined my long term Dating life to short term sexual toy for whoever treats me the worst sometimes it’s like the only thing I feel is rejection on an app. I can’t feel anything else. Just took the fun out of going out at night.

  85. Red5Draws Avatar

    Attention spans

  86. H16HP01N7 Avatar

    Broadly gestures at everything.

  87. steelicarus Avatar

    Going to the gym

  88. Angrylittleman7 Avatar
  89. HelpfulPuppydog Avatar

    Being angry and rude to restaurant servers.

  90. No_Professor_1018 Avatar
    1. The ability to use good manners when interacting with others.
    2. My neck from bending over my phone!
  91. saurusautismsoor Avatar

    Or fake psychology people

  92. bananaoohnanahey Avatar

    My attention span

  93. Sufficient_Item5662 Avatar

    Human discourse. People just can’t engage in open conversations anymore.

  94. K0olmini Avatar

    Literally everything

  95. theshubhagrwl Avatar

    Treks. I went to a trek that social media has made very famous. At the base camp we couldn’t see the ground, only tents were there.
    People were just partying there. Social media has totally ruined the meaning of treks for sure

  96. National_Egg_3094 Avatar

    All of it! Destroys lives. People generally suck. Including myself at times.

  97. ObligationInside7597 Avatar
  98. _momokoO_ Avatar

    relationships.

  99. SunShine365- Avatar

    Real human contact and socialization.

  100. maizeymaze Avatar

    My unrealistic expectations of my ex coming back healed and ready.

  101. rsae_majoris Avatar

    gestures broadly

  102. Numerous-Map-2469 Avatar

    anxiety in middle school/high school children, you can’t escape or relax from the drama from the school day when you go home, everyone goes online after school

  103. Imaginary_Dot_8953 Avatar

    everything. communication, attention span, body image, relationships.
    I especially hate instagram the most for some reason. A man sent me an instagram reel and I saw upon opening it that he has a god damn mirror selfie. 40 years old. I got the ick. Lmao

  104. CoffeeLorde Avatar

    Acts of kindness

  105. Ok_Veterinarian_3521 Avatar
  106. Realistic-Dig2860 Avatar

    People think there’s no consequences and then when they face consequences they think they’re victims 😂

  107. Amos_Burton666 Avatar

    What hasn’t it ruined is the harder question.

  108. dontucallhimbaby Avatar

    Basic empathy and kindness