In first month of our relationship found out she has a other boyfriend. I forgave them but she promised that she will breakup right away ( which took 6 months ) i was to into her that ignored it. She denied everything from texting him to sleeping with him. ( i saw everything) but still i stayed and later she had a crush on a guy I confronted her that it is ok to find someone attractive she out of blue blocked that guy instantly i was convinced until i saw that they have been chating on snapchat and his id is muted so no notification. When i asked her she said she was scared that i will leave. Then after few months we were going to her house and she gets a call in car to which she says that she will talk with them at home. It was a guy i asked her she said it is her brother. When i dropped her, her bluetooth got connected to my car. She was talking to that guy about some couply stuff. Then it was more that enough i said I can’t do this anymore to which she said either you are gonna stay or i will hurt myself. She said she did this because I didn’t gave her enough time and was distant. Which is absolutely bullshit. Was i fucked?🥲
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You did literally everything wrong by staying with her as you did.
And you aren’t asking for advice.
Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of yourself first.
You need to leave her. Find someone who won’t hurt you, and someone who is absolutely sure of you. You don’t deserve to be with someone who’s standing halfway out the door. You deserve someone who’s all in, and all about you. It sounds like she’s just using you to fulfill her attention needs, while still looking around for other guys who will also give her the attention she wants. So stand up for yourself. Trust me, you’ll thrive without her. And tell her you’re done