What instantly makes a person less attractive, no matter how good they look?

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What instantly makes a person less attractive, no matter how good they look?

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  1. fetus90 Avatar

    Being Rude to servers.

  2. Manndes Avatar

    An angry/negative look on their face

  3. SadBeyondRepair Avatar

    When they are always shit talking other people and they indulge way too much in drama

  4. CozyKettle25 Avatar

    rude and lack of manners

  5. Confident-Ear-6621 Avatar

    being a Trump voter.

  6. EmbarrassedHeron5537 Avatar

    Dirty nails and hands.

  7. Hot-Debate2477 Avatar

    Smoking or vaping

  8. badnewslily Avatar

    interrupting constantly or only talking about themselves!

  9. Background_Rule_2483 Avatar

    Someone who gets overly defensive during a simple disagreement—like, relax, man. I just said I don’t like olives. It’s really not that deep.

  10. Due-Calligrapher1186 Avatar

    Entitlement, bloated ego, lack of empathy and emotional intelligence,

  11. philsilo2002 Avatar

    Not good perfume

  12. Electrical_Disk_1160 Avatar

    The Ugly face-inator laser beam

  13. shininggirlsoph Avatar

    A rude personality

  14. thuval Avatar

    smelling bad. if kissing you is gross, that’s just never going to work. I will sooner break up with a hot person than try to instruct him to learn how to brush his teeth. that’s insane. easier to ghost and run.

  15. ComprehensiveWave123 Avatar

    Entitlement and arrogance. You can be the most physically attractive person in the room, but the moment you start acting like the world owes you something, like people exist just to serve or praise you, it’s over. If you can’t say ‘thank you’ to the waiter, or you treat people like they’re beneath you, or you constantly make everything about yourself — that ugliness seeps through no matter how flawless your appearance is. Confidence is attractive. Arrogance? Instantly repulsive.

  16. CanadianContentsup Avatar

    Dominates the conversation to only talk about themself

  17. FreezingIrish Avatar

    Showing wealth unnecessarily.

  18. GallopingGobshite Avatar

    Smoking.
    Weird feet.
    Being a Zionist

  19. Impressive_Algae4493 Avatar

    Talking down to anyone in the service industry—especially on a date at a restaurant or bar—is an instant red flag for me.

  20. BeautifulTerm3753 Avatar

    Treating people badly. Rude and disrespectful

  21. Dogstar23 Avatar

    long fake nails. those things are ugly as fuck and you are probably vain.

  22. Appropriate_Metal392 Avatar

    Stingy and overbearing

  23. Kooky-Tap8006 Avatar

    Chewing tobacco

  24. No_Acanthisitta_4996 Avatar

    A shallow personality

  25. Much_Plane_9701 Avatar

    Personally I am not a fan of face piercings.
    Not a huge lover of jewelry in general though.

  26. Jetplane_ahead99 Avatar

    Lack of personality, for example if a very attractive man just has the gym as his only hobby or interest

  27. Josephine-McColm1 Avatar

    Being nasty and/or trying to play mind games, like negging

  28. bitchywitchy9 Avatar

    Body count, poor communication, MEN IN SKINNY JEANS 🤣

  29. No-Sir2698 Avatar

    Their messed up attitude and outlook on life, always negative, talking ill of people, nothing going on in their lives, selfishness, thinking they’re all that and entitled and Just being an overall bastard wanker.

  30. paddyrobby Avatar

    Half-removed nail polish

  31. amandilkaa Avatar

    noisy aggressive destructive personality

  32. xou_ Avatar

    Being self-absorbed / acting entiled

  33. RADIANT_LIGHT-1 Avatar

    Sadness overcomes me when I see that someone isn’t Christian.

  34. dee_palmtree Avatar

    Emotional unavailability. Being closed off, dry, not interested is not the flex people think it is.
    It’s not mysterious, it’s exhausting trying to talk to a wall.

  35. Jake63 Avatar

    Smell. Bad hygiene

  36. Dark_chef_ Avatar

    Voice. Too low or too squeaky

  37. CorrinaKarma Avatar

    A shitty personality stops that attractiveness instantly for me.

  38. TomLondra Avatar

    Glottal fry. Uptalking. And being in your face about their looks.

  39. AdCorrect2906 Avatar

    the way someone is speaking

  40. DeadVoterSociety Avatar

    People who are adamantly against fairly benign choices others make.

    Those who proclaim how much they dislike smokers (not targeting those who are not attracted to smokers, that’s valid), or drinking, or those who indulge in a vice, or have a general sense of superiority in their life choices. Like vegans who have to tell you how and why they’re vegan.

  41. AttitudePrincessy Avatar

    When they always have something to complain about no matter what the situation.

  42. Impressive_Storm1061 Avatar

    Assholery.  Rudeness. Lack of hygiene.

  43. Olazak Avatar

    As a woman – a male with high pitched voice is an instant turn off

  44. rktscience1971 Avatar

    An irritating voice, bad table manners or vulgar language.

  45. Parksvillain Avatar

    Didn’t this get asked a few weeks ago?

  46. Clear_Macaroon_7570 Avatar

    Overtly religious people who put their god over everything and everyone else.

  47. Niloufer_1060 Avatar

    Lack of empathy, understanding and arrogance. Tbh looks are temporary, initially you might be attracted but the moment you start getting to know them and find the hallowness that lies beneath, it’s over

  48. ComposerNate Avatar

    Smoking, spitting, littering, worshiping some god, gambling, farting, driving dangerously…

  49. RunawayTruckTramp Avatar

    Visible ear wax. It cannot be unseen.

  50. Birdiness Avatar

    Terrible behavior — being disrespectful or violent. You can look good but still be a jerk!

  51. Outrageous-Note5082 Avatar
    1. Poor hygiene.

    2. Being a general asshole.

  52. tekersmect Avatar

    Nothing. If they look good that’s enough.

  53. -_Hastur_- Avatar

    I hate a bitch hating on a bitch and they both hoes

  54. StrongEggplant8120 Avatar

    a nervous issue like mine. makes me sound sad when I talk and I look pretty buzzed up and shocked. Other than that though i’m alright and told i’m quite the looker. wayyyyyyy.

  55. -8787- Avatar

    When you can tell they are compensating for something or have a fabricated personality in some way

  56. ThehardestMC Avatar

    When they smoke and vape

  57. Gau-Mail3286 Avatar

    Being cruel and rude to others.

  58. U2Ursula Avatar
    • Racism, sexism, ableism, homo/transphopia, etc.
    • If they describe every single one of their exes as “psychos”.
    • If they make every conversation sexual.
    • If they play the victim and/or diagnosis card in everything.
    • Road rage.
    • Entitlement.
    • Being rude to strangers.
  59. s_o_c_k_g_u_y Avatar

    Someone who doesn’t know how to have a two-sided conversation.

  60. livbird46 Avatar

    Picking their nose in public

  61. AmbassadorVoid Avatar

    How they treat customer service workers

  62. Rich-Track122 Avatar

    Arrogance, ignorance and, as a German I have to say it, when they confuse “als” and “wie”. (“als” means more or less than and “wie” means equal. I don’t get how people can confuse them, but there are at least thirty milliom people in Germany, who are too stupid to keep those words apart.
    And don’t even get me started on “das”/”dass” or double consonants in general. People will write an entirely different word, simply because they are too stupid for second grade spelling.

  63. Chemical-Fly2342 Avatar

    I have a list –

    1. Rude

    2. Bad Hygiene

    3. Misogynist

    4. Ignorance

    5. Smoking

  64. Informal-Ad-4281 Avatar

    Hating animals or nature.

  65. Lolli_79 Avatar

    Bad personal hygiene.

    Also lack of empathy.

    Lack of care for how one’s actions affect others.

    People that refuse to take accountability for their part in problems.. especially if they insist you take your part and that you apologise.

    Plenty more but I think that’s enough

  66. deathray-toaster Avatar

    A lack of effort.

  67. Maleficent-Crow-5 Avatar

    Bad teeth, as in stained or dirty. Also bad breath.

  68. sun_light_samurai Avatar

    Constantly fixing hair or clothing imo makes people seem unconfident and less attractive

  69. luiselota Avatar

    lack of self awarness and emotional intelligence. i just need us to be on the same level.

  70. Softie_Guitarist Avatar

    Being vanilla.

    Of course I’m kidding!

  71. cheeririo Avatar

    Indifference on many topics