smelling bad. if kissing you is gross, that’s just never going to work. I will sooner break up with a hot person than try to instruct him to learn how to brush his teeth. that’s insane. easier to ghost and run.
Entitlement and arrogance. You can be the most physically attractive person in the room, but the moment you start acting like the world owes you something, like people exist just to serve or praise you, it’s over. If you can’t say ‘thank you’ to the waiter, or you treat people like they’re beneath you, or you constantly make everything about yourself — that ugliness seeps through no matter how flawless your appearance is. Confidence is attractive. Arrogance? Instantly repulsive.
Their messed up attitude and outlook on life, always negative, talking ill of people, nothing going on in their lives, selfishness, thinking they’re all that and entitled and Just being an overall bastard wanker.
Emotional unavailability. Being closed off, dry, not interested is not the flex people think it is.
It’s not mysterious, it’s exhausting trying to talk to a wall.
People who are adamantly against fairly benign choices others make.
Those who proclaim how much they dislike smokers (not targeting those who are not attracted to smokers, that’s valid), or drinking, or those who indulge in a vice, or have a general sense of superiority in their life choices. Like vegans who have to tell you how and why they’re vegan.
Lack of empathy, understanding and arrogance. Tbh looks are temporary, initially you might be attracted but the moment you start getting to know them and find the hallowness that lies beneath, it’s over
a nervous issue like mine. makes me sound sad when I talk and I look pretty buzzed up and shocked. Other than that though i’m alright and told i’m quite the looker. wayyyyyyy.
Arrogance, ignorance and, as a German I have to say it, when they confuse “als” and “wie”. (“als” means more or less than and “wie” means equal. I don’t get how people can confuse them, but there are at least thirty milliom people in Germany, who are too stupid to keep those words apart.
And don’t even get me started on “das”/”dass” or double consonants in general. People will write an entirely different word, simply because they are too stupid for second grade spelling.
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Being Rude to servers.
Lack of manners
Smelling bad
An angry/negative look on their face
Smoking.
When they are always shit talking other people and they indulge way too much in drama
rude and lack of manners
being a Trump voter.
Dirty nails and hands.
Smoking or vaping
interrupting constantly or only talking about themselves!
Someone who gets overly defensive during a simple disagreement—like, relax, man. I just said I don’t like olives. It’s really not that deep.
Bad hygiene. 🤮
Entitlement, bloated ego, lack of empathy and emotional intelligence,
Not good perfume
Huge body count.
The Ugly face-inator laser beam
Rudeness
A rude personality
smelling bad. if kissing you is gross, that’s just never going to work. I will sooner break up with a hot person than try to instruct him to learn how to brush his teeth. that’s insane. easier to ghost and run.
Entitlement and arrogance. You can be the most physically attractive person in the room, but the moment you start acting like the world owes you something, like people exist just to serve or praise you, it’s over. If you can’t say ‘thank you’ to the waiter, or you treat people like they’re beneath you, or you constantly make everything about yourself — that ugliness seeps through no matter how flawless your appearance is. Confidence is attractive. Arrogance? Instantly repulsive.
Smoking
Dominates the conversation to only talk about themself
Showing wealth unnecessarily.
Smoking.
Weird feet.
Being a Zionist
Talking down to anyone in the service industry—especially on a date at a restaurant or bar—is an instant red flag for me.
Being trashy
Treating people badly. Rude and disrespectful
long fake nails. those things are ugly as fuck and you are probably vain.
Stingy and overbearing
Chewing tobacco
A shallow personality
Rudeness
Personally I am not a fan of face piercings.
Not a huge lover of jewelry in general though.
Entitlement
Lack of personality, for example if a very attractive man just has the gym as his only hobby or interest
Being nasty and/or trying to play mind games, like negging
Tattoos
Smoking
Body count, poor communication, MEN IN SKINNY JEANS 🤣
Their messed up attitude and outlook on life, always negative, talking ill of people, nothing going on in their lives, selfishness, thinking they’re all that and entitled and Just being an overall bastard wanker.
Personality
Smoking
Half-removed nail polish
noisy aggressive destructive personality
Being self-absorbed / acting entiled
Sadness overcomes me when I see that someone isn’t Christian.
Emotional unavailability. Being closed off, dry, not interested is not the flex people think it is.
It’s not mysterious, it’s exhausting trying to talk to a wall.
Smell. Bad hygiene
Stupidity
Voice. Too low or too squeaky
Acting entitled.
A shitty personality stops that attractiveness instantly for me.
Glottal fry. Uptalking. And being in your face about their looks.
the way someone is speaking
People who are adamantly against fairly benign choices others make.
Those who proclaim how much they dislike smokers (not targeting those who are not attracted to smokers, that’s valid), or drinking, or those who indulge in a vice, or have a general sense of superiority in their life choices. Like vegans who have to tell you how and why they’re vegan.
biting nails
When they always have something to complain about no matter what the situation.
Assholery. Rudeness. Lack of hygiene.
As a woman – a male with high pitched voice is an instant turn off
An irritating voice, bad table manners or vulgar language.
Bragging
Arrogance
bad attitude
Smoking
Didn’t this get asked a few weeks ago?
Overtly religious people who put their god over everything and everyone else.
Lack of empathy, understanding and arrogance. Tbh looks are temporary, initially you might be attracted but the moment you start getting to know them and find the hallowness that lies beneath, it’s over
Smoking, spitting, littering, worshiping some god, gambling, farting, driving dangerously…
Visible ear wax. It cannot be unseen.
Terrible behavior — being disrespectful or violent. You can look good but still be a jerk!
Bigotry
Poor hygiene.
Being a general asshole.
Nothing. If they look good that’s enough.
I hate a bitch hating on a bitch and they both hoes
a nervous issue like mine. makes me sound sad when I talk and I look pretty buzzed up and shocked. Other than that though i’m alright and told i’m quite the looker. wayyyyyyy.
When you can tell they are compensating for something or have a fabricated personality in some way
When they smoke and vape
Poor posture
An off vibe
Stupidity
Being cruel and rude to others.
Avoidance.
Cruelty
Smoking
Someone who doesn’t know how to have a two-sided conversation.
Picking their nose in public
How they treat customer service workers
Arrogance, ignorance and, as a German I have to say it, when they confuse “als” and “wie”. (“als” means more or less than and “wie” means equal. I don’t get how people can confuse them, but there are at least thirty milliom people in Germany, who are too stupid to keep those words apart.
And don’t even get me started on “das”/”dass” or double consonants in general. People will write an entirely different word, simply because they are too stupid for second grade spelling.
I have a list –
Rude
Bad Hygiene
Misogynist
Ignorance
Smoking
Hating animals or nature.
MAGA
Bad personal hygiene.
Also lack of empathy.
Lack of care for how one’s actions affect others.
People that refuse to take accountability for their part in problems.. especially if they insist you take your part and that you apologise.
Plenty more but I think that’s enough
A lack of effort.
Bad teeth, as in stained or dirty. Also bad breath.
Racism
Constantly fixing hair or clothing imo makes people seem unconfident and less attractive
lack of self awarness and emotional intelligence. i just need us to be on the same level.
Being vanilla.
Of course I’m kidding!
Nose ring.
Indifference on many topics