Before my husband and I were officially dating, we were just talking over the phone long distance. He was flying out to meet me in person for the first time and I was a bit nervous about expectations. I told him that I didn’t want him to fly out expecting anything physical. He was completely understanding and said “how about we just say that there will be nothing physical?”. And I felt better.
He flew out and I got amazing vibes and we had a lot of attraction to each other (we didn’t know what each other looked like before meeting in person). So we were about to hook up and I asked him if he brought any condoms. And he said “well no, since we said getting physical was off the table”. So we had to go out and buy condoms. Lol. He has always made me feel incredibly safe and listens to my boundaries readily. Huge green flag.
gets pleasure out of giving pleasure; it’s satisfying enough for them knowing they’re making their partner feel amazing without expecting anything in return
For men, I’d say them not being afraid of making sounds – and I’m not talking about grunting here, I’m talking whining. Also, I exclusively prefer sub-leaning men. Not that I’m dom-leaning, it just I like it when they’re desperate and pliant 🥰
I went 29 years just assuming I wasn’t capable of orgasm. My husband broke the proverbial dam, or mental block I must’ve had and now I have to ask him to stop because I get so sensitive it becomes too much. It’s a good problem to have.
A huge one for me, he’s never pressured me. We’ve tried some things and frankly I’ve enjoyed all of it say for a few. As soon as I’m not feeling it, no complaining, no “come on, it’ll get better”, no quizzing me as to why… he simply says ok babe, and we move on. That’s an incredible feeling to have when I don’t have to explain myself. As willing as I am to explore and be adventurous, he gives me no kickback when I’m not into it. I adore that. It makes me want to do more as a result of him being so willing to please me.
Also, last thing I’ll mention, that man will come attack me with unprovoked oral sex, make me cum, then go back to whatever he’s doing. Never in my life have I been so satisfied
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Asking for consent.
Asking for consent.
Asking for consent.
This isn’t exclusive to sex. It’s those first few touches, the first kisses. Ensuring you aren’t crossing boundaries is sexy.
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Before my husband and I were officially dating, we were just talking over the phone long distance. He was flying out to meet me in person for the first time and I was a bit nervous about expectations. I told him that I didn’t want him to fly out expecting anything physical. He was completely understanding and said “how about we just say that there will be nothing physical?”. And I felt better.
He flew out and I got amazing vibes and we had a lot of attraction to each other (we didn’t know what each other looked like before meeting in person). So we were about to hook up and I asked him if he brought any condoms. And he said “well no, since we said getting physical was off the table”. So we had to go out and buy condoms. Lol. He has always made me feel incredibly safe and listens to my boundaries readily. Huge green flag.
gets pleasure out of giving pleasure; it’s satisfying enough for them knowing they’re making their partner feel amazing without expecting anything in return
He said “I don’t want to do anything you’re uncomfortable with” and that was instant 💦 for me
For men, I’d say them not being afraid of making sounds – and I’m not talking about grunting here, I’m talking whining. Also, I exclusively prefer sub-leaning men. Not that I’m dom-leaning, it just I like it when they’re desperate and pliant 🥰
I went 29 years just assuming I wasn’t capable of orgasm. My husband broke the proverbial dam, or mental block I must’ve had and now I have to ask him to stop because I get so sensitive it becomes too much. It’s a good problem to have.
A huge one for me, he’s never pressured me. We’ve tried some things and frankly I’ve enjoyed all of it say for a few. As soon as I’m not feeling it, no complaining, no “come on, it’ll get better”, no quizzing me as to why… he simply says ok babe, and we move on. That’s an incredible feeling to have when I don’t have to explain myself. As willing as I am to explore and be adventurous, he gives me no kickback when I’m not into it. I adore that. It makes me want to do more as a result of him being so willing to please me.
Also, last thing I’ll mention, that man will come attack me with unprovoked oral sex, make me cum, then go back to whatever he’s doing. Never in my life have I been so satisfied