I don’t think i have ever been sexually fulfilled, during sex i don’t feel anything i will be wanting it to be over (maybe i do feel that there is something going in and out but that’s it) after sex i feel nothing. I feel completely normal, like no difference at all. I wonder if i am normal, i wanna know other people’s experiences.
Edit: What is it exactly that makes you say i have been sexually fulfilled.
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Mind-blowing. Like I lay in bed covered in body fluids and can’t move for like 10 minutes at least
Do you feel anything when you masturbate? If not, you may want to discuss with a doctor. There could be something physical that could be fixed for example with estrogen/testosterone cream
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Yeah it’s honestly amazing. It feels like leveling up
As a man I usually feel very clear headed. My wife will usually tremble for a bit while acting giddy. Then she’s just a bit of a scatter brain for a few hours.
You’ve described in one of your comments that it’s been painful with previous partners– that could be the reason why it’s been so unfulfilling! You could try using toys with them, maybe try external stimulation for a while, but if you like internal, use LOTS of lube to make things easier, or experiment with roleplay, SAFE bondage, anything that you feel comfortable trying with your partner.
My partner is ace and loves these things, but sometimes masturbation or vanilla sex just doesn’t cut it for them, either. You are not alone :3
After hooking up with a number of guys, recently I hooked up with someone who actually pays attent to my bodily needs.
To explain being satisfied in the simplest terms, after the last time, my roommate sent me a text asking to be quieter during sex. Embarrassing, right? Yet I felt no embarrassment. The only thought in my head was “it was worth it though”
Typically after hooking up with a guy I feel like an object. They put in the steps to make me relax enough to please them but they don’t take my own pleasure into consideration. This recent guy is complete opposite, he has asked me what I like and listens. I feel like a person, not a sexual object.
Generally, I just feel satisfied, hard to describe beyond that. My frequency of horniness hasnt changed, although I’m not sure if it might long term, but I feel good about myself and my body during the actions and there’s no guilt or regret
All your troubles go away for whatever amount of time the sex lasts.
Everyone involved hopefully has an orgasm, then either repeats or if youre lucky you get to take a wonderful sex nap cuddling.
Then wake up to a wonderful day.
Or you stay awake enjoying/loving life
Like, I couldn’t go another round even if I tried. I’m at peace and I just want to curl up next to my partner and fall asleep.
Content. Im a hypersexual, so I’m almost never fully satisfied. But when it happens I’m sleepy and cuddly and just happy to be next to my partner as we both breathe heavily and enjoy our highs.
Are you a man or woman, OP? By the way you worded it I can only assume you’re a woman. Sex isn’t like masturbation because it takes 2 or more people for it to happen. You need to communicate with your partner what your hopes, desires and expectations are and what you need to have happen in order to want to participate in it with them again in the future.
It’s been too long to remember.
Serious answer based on some of your replies it seems like a struggle for you. My wife for the longest time stressed about sex and intimacy. It was a struggle to get her to open up about it. It was seen as a chore and mostly related to child bearing. Did she get off, yeah, was it good, yeah, but it just wasn’t a priority.
In recent years she’s gotten back into hobbies specifically reading. She likes dumb romance, romanticy and a very minor amount of dark romance books (some of that is just too much for her). She’s learned to just make it fun now and she’s been significantly more satisfied and tells me what she wants. It made such a massive difference, for her, for me, and even the openness of our relationship and friendship. A lot of times she was one and done, and now we’ve had some marathon sessions where I lost count for the number of times she went off.
A lot of it is definitely mental hang ups that could be from all sorts of sources. If anything is a problem now, it’s me. To quote Futurama “The spirit is willing, but the flesh is spongy and bruised.”
I figured out I can cum over and over relatively quickly if the girl is hot enough. Had no idea this entire time and I’d say I’ve been with pretty attractive girls for the years. This one just knew how to do it right. Woooof.
Never seen that
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It just feels like enough, in a very profound way. Like being sexually well nourished.
Haven’t got a clue, wife of 13 years is a prude and won’t do anything that isn’t dead fish missionary.
Don’t know been with the same person for 4yrs and still I know I don’t have her 100% so I’m constantly missing that full filled with out a doubt that she really chooses me and me alone.
Buy a body pillow and a magic wand. You’re welcome
Like warm apple pie.
Hmm for me, my body tingles with the ceiling spinning. Since I like having my orgasms right after another, I love the feeling I’m on a rollercoaster….that’s when I know I’m fully satisfied for that moment.
When you both hit the sheets after a good play, where both came 2-3 times💪🏻that you would like to continue but are so physically exhausted you just lay there, here head over your arm or on your chest. Just catching your breath, lightheaded, deeply in love with the person next to you…
Yeah those moments I live for.
And if you’re not talking about the act in itself, the moment I felt sexually fulfilled was when I didn’t really hunker for sex anymore, but knew my wife was up for it whenever I was or just pushed me against a wall in the street, against the countertops, .. when she wanted. Great time. 👌🏻
Have you never made yourself cum?
I think… It feels like payday and your check was unexpectedly better than what you thought. And you’re happy with It job. And your are always payed did the month. But I honestly wouldn’t know🤣😅🤦🏾♂️
Same here. feel literally nothing and i don’t know what to do about it.
Can say that the best sex I’ve ever had was together with a women I was deeply in love with, like uncontrollably in love. The sex wasnt any different from other sex that I ever had, but it felt great when theres a bigger connection than just pleasure.
Being completely out of my head and only focused on what’s happening in the moment. It’s an incredible feeling of euphoria, amazement and peace
I could echo others for the in the moment lost in the experience, that’s fun but that’s like a filling meal on a trying journey. When I hear fulfilled I think consistency.
As in as thing communicated and mutually satisfying on a regular basis that works for both partners? That’s true fulfillment
I find myself riding an emotional high for a good few hours afterwards before I inevitably crash lol
To be wanted, before, during and after.
Hey, r u on antidepressants?
Pure joy and happiness, ecstasy even, as long as you don’t do it too much because it feels better when done less often to me. I’ve realized over the years that I don’t need to depend on someone else too badly for sexual satisfaction, and have actually gotten genuine intense satisfaction out of just pleasing myself as long as I wait long enough between those times and just imagine someone who loves me for who I am. (In retrospect it’s a little sad but whatever floats my boat in the moment I guess)
Also fyi for people assuming I’m a virgin, I’ve had a relationship before but she threw me for a loop in terms of her life situation and mental state, if I get with another person again it just won’t be for a long time.
This 18 yrs old boy asked for my number and I was like ..”honey I am 33yrs old ” and he was like “um can I get your email then” like 🤣🤣okay