Loads of people say how COVID brought the world together, but it proved to me how People are so selfish, self interested, and uncaring. Most MF’s couldmt be bothered to stand 2m away from other people and wear a mask. I had friends on social media putting posts about how doctors and nurses were #heros and then the next day uploading photos of family gatherings of sometimes 12 or more people in there house, when restrictions were still at thier highest.
That you and everyone you love are going to die. If they die first, you will experience unspeakable grief. If you die first, they will experience unspeakable grief. No way out.
Some people will hate you. I knew this guy for 6 years; he was a nice guy. One day, I asked him if he wanted to hang out with me, and he just told me. He told me how everyone had said shit that wasn’t true behind my back, that I was some weirdo with no life. I thought I’d felt true pain. I’d just wanted to be included, but Life showed me more. Later, I had learned that he, out of all fucking people, started the rumors. When I confronted him, he just said I was annoying. That day still haunts me, and some people will instantly change for no reason. I have over 150 friends or something, lost count, but I only have 3 real friends. Ever since that incident, I’ve stopped caring about trying to make everyone happy. Some people just hate you.
That nerdy communities, or at least having a healthy social life in them at least is sort of a catch 22. Like people hype it up along with these other idealized traits, only for it to peak early and fall short when it comes down to it. Sure you can share memes and other stuff that lots of other people love, but it’s a one sided thing. It seems like you have to make your friends early, otherwise you are sort of locked out. Unless you can meet people who are in this healthy middle ground and are open to branching out socially.
Or really just in general people aren’t as sociable as they like to act like they are.
That my mother hated me. How else could she stay with a partner so abusive towards me, and indeed she abused me too on occasion. But she pretends it didn’t happen, and recently said she was confused when I tried to talk to her, and she latches on to things said when I broke down, as indeed doctors do, to prove that it’s me, not her.
That some mothers are incapable of love. No maternal instinct. No empathy or compassion. Some mothers are actually quite toxic and vindictive to their own kids. I call such “mothers” womb carriers. They do not deserve the label “mother.”
Sometimes you do, actually and unexpectedly, bury your parents way before you’d ever expect to.
(32F), my father died last month. I told him I was done talking to him until he went to rehab and got help. He died 3 days later in his rehab in detox. I have no answers and I’m angry.
That my sister never grew out of disliking me for being born. I am 60, and she is 64. She was the only girl before i was born. She has traumatized me my entire life, and all I wanted was a sister. I’ve cut her out of my life for my mental health.
You can never really trust Co-workers.
I have gotten on really well with people I worked with to the point where we would go out after work or weekends.
However one random comment I said or some shiposting on social media has got me in trouble. One I actually had a really shit day so I said stupidly on a random post because I needed to vent “I have had a cunt of a day”
That almost costed me my job but my FB was not public so it would have been one of those people I trusted who dobbed me in.
This was a long time ago but I simply NEVER say anything work related on social media (no one should) nor do I say who I work for as I cannot risk that kind of bullshit again.
Seriously never trust any one you work with for anything as there are always snakes ready to bite.
Walang karma or hustisya. It all depends sa social standing mo; connections, influence, resources, etc.
Wala din reward, ni good or evil man.
Everything is situational context if it will work in your favor or not. Nasayo din if you grind to get that favor to your direction with what resources and knowledge you have.
There are a lot of ppl in the world who do not understand personal responsibility. They never had it, and they don’t treasure it. The world owes them – but they owe nothing to the world.
A lot of such ppl have messed up understanding of power – such ppl confuse power and control. They end up being controlling and powerless from the inside.
It’s nuanced because often such understanding of power, control, responsibility is nurture-based. And some ppl just don’t have the resources to learn about the tools of live that are available to any human psyche.
People born after around 1990 will never truly have a fulfilling life, they’ll never have the security and stability their parents had, the best thing they can hope for is to survive and find little things that make surviving worthwhile
The chance of me having a healthy, emotionally mature and properly connected partner is close to zero. I have accepted that I might never get the chance to experience what a healthy family looks like. I am not exactly sad about it as life is not always picture perfect. But how sad it is to accept it!!!
Life sucks in general. Not everything in life sucks, but you spend 90% of your time doing shitty things. To then go and spend most of your money and the 10% of your time that you have left on things that make you happy.
Not sure if I have accepted it yet, but I am still trying to fight it without getting any motivation to work it out. But here it goes… If I keep working a corporate job for money, I will forever be working for a corporate job on other people’s demands and schedule. If I jump out of it, I will be lost on money and won’t be able to feed my family. This is such a vicious cycle.
Cuando era pequeña entender que por más que me esforzara para tener la atención de mis padres siempre fui la hija invisible de ellos, ahora tengo 46, ya no importa pero jamás cambió nada. Ahora vivo solo para mi y soy una persona callada siempre
There will never be a sustained period of my life where I don’t spend time thinking of my own death, and eventually I’m going to grow tired of fighting it
One time, Doritos came out with a new chip and they were trying out on the public. It was hamburger flavor, and I shit you not it tasted and satiated just like a charbroiled old fashioned burger. I was stunned, and it became my favorite flavor.
The promotion must have lasted only a week because I never saw it again.
That was 15 years ago, and I’ve accepted I’ll never see it again–though it consumes me.
Most people who regret anything was at one point exactly what they wanted. Then they try illicit sympathy by saying “regret” You’d be surprised how many assholes use this line to cover up their behaviors.
No matter how hard you try to help someone with addiction they have to want to change themselves. Watched my sister struggle for years before I finally understood this.
That a lot of people aren’t interested in helping others. They only want to help themselves. And if they get to stick it to other people, they’re perfectly happy doing so.
That I will die broken and alone. My disabilities will only get worse as time goes on. I could pursue a relationship if I really wanted, maybe find someone who cares for me. Haven’t met anyone in a very long time I would actually care to be close to, though, and I would rather be alone than spend my life with someone for whom I do not care.
My life probably peaked before my wife cheated on me.
Now I’m divorced, will probably never be able to buy a house, and will, in all likelihood, spend the rest of my life in the shadow of how good my life was before that happened.
Being a bit narcissistic, I find it frustrating that some things I can’t learn, understand or remember from the first attempt) it’s like you have to accept your limitations
For the most part, people suck but what hurts the most is when your only entitled sibling doesn’t talk to you like an adult in person but sends you paragraphs of text belittling and attacking you.
It’s not going to get better. Prices aren’t going to come down. We’ll just slowly get used to the current ones and in a few years they’ll surge up again. Healthcare will still be seen as a privilege for the wealthy. Taxes will rise. Wars and hatred will continue to escalate.
Shits over.
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We all die
Most people won’t remember everything you said or did — they’ll just remember how you made them feel… and sometimes, even that fades.
That she’s never coming back (but I’m the one that made things like that).
If you don’t love yourself how do you expect someone else to?
i don’t get to have sex as a old man
Loads of people say how COVID brought the world together, but it proved to me how People are so selfish, self interested, and uncaring. Most MF’s couldmt be bothered to stand 2m away from other people and wear a mask. I had friends on social media putting posts about how doctors and nurses were #heros and then the next day uploading photos of family gatherings of sometimes 12 or more people in there house, when restrictions were still at thier highest.
Somebody told me this when my kid was 2, 6 now and still not close i hope!
Carrying your kid, one day you’ll put them down… but it’ll be the last time and neither of you will know.
That you and everyone you love are going to die. If they die first, you will experience unspeakable grief. If you die first, they will experience unspeakable grief. No way out.
Perception matters more than reality
your heros will disappoint you
Some people will hate you. I knew this guy for 6 years; he was a nice guy. One day, I asked him if he wanted to hang out with me, and he just told me. He told me how everyone had said shit that wasn’t true behind my back, that I was some weirdo with no life. I thought I’d felt true pain. I’d just wanted to be included, but Life showed me more. Later, I had learned that he, out of all fucking people, started the rumors. When I confronted him, he just said I was annoying. That day still haunts me, and some people will instantly change for no reason. I have over 150 friends or something, lost count, but I only have 3 real friends. Ever since that incident, I’ve stopped caring about trying to make everyone happy. Some people just hate you.
There’s no convincing most racist people
1.Things always doesnt go has the way we plan
2.Things could go even worse
That nerdy communities, or at least having a healthy social life in them at least is sort of a catch 22. Like people hype it up along with these other idealized traits, only for it to peak early and fall short when it comes down to it. Sure you can share memes and other stuff that lots of other people love, but it’s a one sided thing. It seems like you have to make your friends early, otherwise you are sort of locked out. Unless you can meet people who are in this healthy middle ground and are open to branching out socially.
Or really just in general people aren’t as sociable as they like to act like they are.
Alcohol will bring both the greatest joys and greatest pains in life.
That I’m getting too old to be raving so much.
And stopping PED’S is a mental warfare with yourself.
That my mother hated me. How else could she stay with a partner so abusive towards me, and indeed she abused me too on occasion. But she pretends it didn’t happen, and recently said she was confused when I tried to talk to her, and she latches on to things said when I broke down, as indeed doctors do, to prove that it’s me, not her.
It’s pretty likely that I won’t find a soul mate or get married
Your mental health is more fragile than you know. Far too many people don’t realise that until it’s too late and suffer.
Colors in life get duller the more we age
That some mothers are incapable of love. No maternal instinct. No empathy or compassion. Some mothers are actually quite toxic and vindictive to their own kids. I call such “mothers” womb carriers. They do not deserve the label “mother.”
Can’t save everybody
I will never have children, and I may never have a life partner.
That it’s pretty likely I stay alone and I can only blame myself for that.
I’m old now
That no matter how much you love someone or how much you care about them, they see and feel what they see and feel.
When you get older, you most likely won’t get to finish the list of dreams you had when you were younger – travel, money, house, love, etc.
Your exes will fall for someone else and you will still be in love with them until you meet someone else. This is hardest of it all.
How many people are truly awful
Some people simply won’t listen to reason. Not everyone is willing or ready to change, so don’t waste your time and energy trying
How stupid humanity is
Most people are vapid.
Life sucks unless you were born into wealth & privilege
You can’t argue or debate with facts anymore.
People will believe news and advice delivered to them via a Facebook meme as opposed to from a doctor or reputable source.
Sometimes you do, actually and unexpectedly, bury your parents way before you’d ever expect to.
(32F), my father died last month. I told him I was done talking to him until he went to rehab and got help. He died 3 days later in his rehab in detox. I have no answers and I’m angry.
that I will be disabled ’til I’m 6 feet under
That Tesla stock is still trading at a PE of 156 while NVIDA trades at a PE of 37 but is an actual tech company..
That my sister never grew out of disliking me for being born. I am 60, and she is 64. She was the only girl before i was born. She has traumatized me my entire life, and all I wanted was a sister. I’ve cut her out of my life for my mental health.
Good people believe racism doesn’t exist
My ex doesn’t want me……even after I worked on myself
I’m concerned I failed as a pet parent because I wasn’t working on myself meaning…..I didn’t ask questions and I wish I gave my cats a better life
You can never really trust Co-workers.
I have gotten on really well with people I worked with to the point where we would go out after work or weekends.
However one random comment I said or some shiposting on social media has got me in trouble. One I actually had a really shit day so I said stupidly on a random post because I needed to vent “I have had a cunt of a day”
That almost costed me my job but my FB was not public so it would have been one of those people I trusted who dobbed me in.
This was a long time ago but I simply NEVER say anything work related on social media (no one should) nor do I say who I work for as I cannot risk that kind of bullshit again.
Seriously never trust any one you work with for anything as there are always snakes ready to bite.
You start dying the minute airborne
Everybody is unhappy for their own reason and I Love You. Let’s be unhappy together and get ice cream.
That the next 20 years are going to be some of the worst in history
most people are selfish idiots and self-centered.
Making real friends is difficult and many people go their entire lives without any meaningful connections.
Walang karma or hustisya. It all depends sa social standing mo; connections, influence, resources, etc.
Wala din reward, ni good or evil man.
Everything is situational context if it will work in your favor or not. Nasayo din if you grind to get that favor to your direction with what resources and knowledge you have.
Etits wat etits.
That sounds many Americans are horrible on purpose and will sit by and watch what is happening around them. It breaks my heart.
You can’t help someone who doesn’t to be helped
There are a lot of ppl in the world who do not understand personal responsibility. They never had it, and they don’t treasure it. The world owes them – but they owe nothing to the world.
A lot of such ppl have messed up understanding of power – such ppl confuse power and control. They end up being controlling and powerless from the inside.
It’s nuanced because often such understanding of power, control, responsibility is nurture-based. And some ppl just don’t have the resources to learn about the tools of live that are available to any human psyche.
That the world is not just/fair unless it benefits them.
This pain is never going away. It still hurts after decades.
Also, I am the age I am. I missed my childhood and young adult childhood. I don’t have a Time Machine to go back and do it over.
However, I’m alive and a lot of that tragic stuff rarely even crosses my mind.
People born after around 1990 will never truly have a fulfilling life, they’ll never have the security and stability their parents had, the best thing they can hope for is to survive and find little things that make surviving worthwhile
some a the people i know going to hell when they die.
A large majority of people really are rather stupid.
That a ton of people watch and believe what Fox “news” says
Not all things can be resolved by talking.
Accept that or keep hurting yourself till you accept it.
The chance of me having a healthy, emotionally mature and properly connected partner is close to zero. I have accepted that I might never get the chance to experience what a healthy family looks like. I am not exactly sad about it as life is not always picture perfect. But how sad it is to accept it!!!
You can persevere through everything and still end up living a miserable life.
the time you lose will never come back
People suck
It doesn’t matter how many people love me if I don’t love myself
You can do everything right, and still lose.
Nothing truly matters.
I will die alone. By my own hand. Soon.
Life sucks in general. Not everything in life sucks, but you spend 90% of your time doing shitty things. To then go and spend most of your money and the 10% of your time that you have left on things that make you happy.
If you’re a good person life sucks
My son in heaven I only want him to know I still love and miss him everyday every minute every second .
Overspend is a thing!
Damn! I badly need to add adidas Samba to my collection.
Not sure if I have accepted it yet, but I am still trying to fight it without getting any motivation to work it out. But here it goes… If I keep working a corporate job for money, I will forever be working for a corporate job on other people’s demands and schedule. If I jump out of it, I will be lost on money and won’t be able to feed my family. This is such a vicious cycle.
You won’t be remembered when you die. Maybe by 3 or 4 people, but only for a short time. We mean nothing.
That I am broken piece of human garbage no one really likes no matter how hard I try to improve.
Cuando era pequeña entender que por más que me esforzara para tener la atención de mis padres siempre fui la hija invisible de ellos, ahora tengo 46, ya no importa pero jamás cambió nada. Ahora vivo solo para mi y soy una persona callada siempre
There will never be a sustained period of my life where I don’t spend time thinking of my own death, and eventually I’m going to grow tired of fighting it
I’m not good enough
I’m never going to have a serious relationship.
One time, Doritos came out with a new chip and they were trying out on the public. It was hamburger flavor, and I shit you not it tasted and satiated just like a charbroiled old fashioned burger. I was stunned, and it became my favorite flavor.
The promotion must have lasted only a week because I never saw it again.
That was 15 years ago, and I’ve accepted I’ll never see it again–though it consumes me.
That bcos I’m T2 Diabetic my lifespan will be shorter than if I wasn’t!😭💔
I will never be Chinese
Critical thinking is dissapearing
There is nothing I can do to guarantee my kids will live long and happy lives.
Just because you love somebody and would give EVERYTHING to them, doesn‘t mean, that this person loves you the same way or appreciates you.
No man will ever love me
The bad guys win most of the time. If you’re waiting for the meek to inherit the Earth, you’re going to have a long, long wait.
Most people who regret anything was at one point exactly what they wanted. Then they try illicit sympathy by saying “regret” You’d be surprised how many assholes use this line to cover up their behaviors.
We as humans as people have died now only remains the waring factions
I won’t ever be happy, I’ve given up trying, now I just wait to for it to end
I’m going to die alone one day.
… As someone who recently got nailed with the worst bout of depression “out of nowhere” I can atest
Nothing is as concrete or as permanent as you think it is.
That life is hard, that every day you need to work at it.
Also, that there is always cleaning to do
We all die alone
People only wants you when you winning.
The Goverment gives a shit about people
And the Health System doesnt want you to be healthy
I’m 51M, haven’t had sex in 8 years & probably never will again.
That some parents dont deserve to have kids
No matter how hard you try to help someone with addiction they have to want to change themselves. Watched my sister struggle for years before I finally understood this.
That I’m turning 30 in two weeks and will never be able to live of my music
Life is not what you know it’s who you know
That I will no longer look to the USA as a friendly country
No one owes you anything. No one owes you an explanation
I have no one.
That a lot of people aren’t interested in helping others. They only want to help themselves. And if they get to stick it to other people, they’re perfectly happy doing so.
We all die alone, even if surrounded by people
That I will die broken and alone. My disabilities will only get worse as time goes on. I could pursue a relationship if I really wanted, maybe find someone who cares for me. Haven’t met anyone in a very long time I would actually care to be close to, though, and I would rather be alone than spend my life with someone for whom I do not care.
Jobs. Only ones that nobody wants are ones that will accept anybody. The rest are for friends+ only.
The first time men will ever receive flowers will be during their funeral
Poopy stinky balls
That it doesn’t matter what ties or history you have with someone, for your own sense of peace you must walk away when they hurt you.
My life probably peaked before my wife cheated on me.
Now I’m divorced, will probably never be able to buy a house, and will, in all likelihood, spend the rest of my life in the shadow of how good my life was before that happened.
Today is the only time I get to experience this day.
That America is lost
Being a bit narcissistic, I find it frustrating that some things I can’t learn, understand or remember from the first attempt) it’s like you have to accept your limitations
For the most part, people suck but what hurts the most is when your only entitled sibling doesn’t talk to you like an adult in person but sends you paragraphs of text belittling and attacking you.
Only The Good Die Young. The rest of us have too many lessons to learn that takes 80+ years
‘The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off’ G Steinem
It’s not going to get better. Prices aren’t going to come down. We’ll just slowly get used to the current ones and in a few years they’ll surge up again. Healthcare will still be seen as a privilege for the wealthy. Taxes will rise. Wars and hatred will continue to escalate.
Shits over.