What is the personality trait that annoys you the most in your significant other, AND what is something they DO that annoys you the most? Why?
What is the personality trait that annoys you the most in your significant other, AND what is something they DO that annoys you the most? Why?
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Get mad at things i don’t do, that she also didn’t do.
We ran out of towels a few weeks ago. I reuse mine for a few days until it just feels like time to get another. She’ll use one for body one for hair, and i guess wasn’t reusing any, so they were all dirty
She tried saying i’m inconsiderate and only think for myself, and i could’ve washed some while she was working.
Bitch, how am i supposed to know you to through 10 in a week
My wife can see individual situations very well, but sometimes she fails to see the bigger picture and how those individual situations play into the bigger picture.
Example: she didn’t want to pay a CPA a couple hundred to do our taxes, but we miscalculated on our withholding and ended up with a tax bill that was thousands of dollars when it came time to file.
Nit picking, nagging, narcissistic negging and shaming, Victim-blaming, control complex, etc.
She hates when I mutter under my breath in public around strangers, usually I’m just rambling my thoughts out loud but I get why she doesn’t like it.
Minor thing with her tbh, she makes weird clicking noises with her mouth when she’s sleeping. It almost sounds like her jaw is cracking. Weird to hear in the middle of the night yanno.
My wife hates my “don’t worry about it” attitude and I hate her constantly worrying about dumb shit. Yes hun I get it the shed doesn’t have a lock on it there’s also nothing of value in there
Well my now-ex, but it was being Type-A clean to a point unfathomable. She would get annoyed if I didn’t clean something straight away like if you have dinner and you don’t wash your plate within 2 minutes of eating it.
I was happy to clean but the issue was that we had different levels of what something should get like before it needed cleaning so she reached her bar before mine every time like changing the bedsheet 3 times a week, but for me I didn’t see the need to do it more than once a week etc etc so it looked to her like I was lazy but in reality there just wasn’t anything to clean that needed it.
That and comparing the relationship to everything online where people only show their best selves. For example assuming everyone is on holiday 100% of the time because she saw it every day, but if she had 365 friends on insta and each went on holiday once a year then it could look like every day is a holiday.
A personality trait: she’s never wrong and never apologizes. Although I think it’s great that she’s self confident, she only admitted to being wrong 3 times in 17 years. And she must have apologized 2 times—and honestly at some point you just stop arguing and start resenting.
Something she does: she half-does stuff. She’ll half clean the kitchen and will expect a genie to put back a bag in the trashcan, or to put back the leftovers in the fridge. She’ll half tidy the living room, and expect stuff she puts down the stairway to teleport upstairs. She’ll take off the bed sheets to wash them, but won’t put them back. I get the whole “perhaps you should help her with the chores”. I do my part of the chores, and I do it fully.
Being catastrophically impatient, and cutting me off 6 words into anything i ever try to say and completely ignoring my input even if they asked for it