Nothing interesting. She’s an average soccer mom type with three kids. Seems happy.
I befriended her on FB to see what her life is like now. She caused a lot of grief in my life and that helped shape my personality, so you can say she had a huge impact on my life. But after seeing her normal day to day life, I lost interest rather quickly and deleted her. (By the time I found her, I was over the trauma, so I think that contributed to my lack of feelings about it.)
She was visibly pregnant at our high school graduation. Had her daughter later that summer.
As far as I know, the baby’s father left her, she’s still working a dead end job at the rec center in our hometown, and she might’ve gone to community college but I doubt it.
Meanwhile I’ve got my master’s degree, work my dream job and it’s paying VERY well, am happily married, and have a nice apartment in a nice area with my amazing husband.
I didn’t have one. Everyone at my HS was pretty nice, from what I experienced. And I was a juicy target for a potential bully – fat, pimply, frizzy hair, braces, outdated glasses, very shy and socially awkward. Still, nothing. Not a single negative comment or unpleasant incident I can remember.
Sorry, not really an answer to your question. But I just never see this perspective reflected online so felt a need to share it. Kids being cruel assholes doesn’t have to be an inevitable fact of life.
One of them left a comment on my public Throwback Thursday album. She ended our friendship 25+ years ago with a protracted “silent treatment” campaign.
Since she loves the silent treatment so much, I was nice enough to not respond. No like, no block; just didn’t acknowledge her. Hope she had fun Googling me.
Have I let it go? Nope; I’m all set for the next 25 years!
I’m not friends with her on social media because fuck her but she’s a teacher at the school district we all attended which doesn’t surprise me because her mom works for the school district and her mom is just as awful too.
Saw that he was still alive and talking at the thirty year reunion.
First time he had looked me in the eyes since I hit him on the side of the head with an armload of hardback books, and left him on the floor of the gym.
I think he works at McDonalds, in a different town now. And the other one still lives in the same town and works at a bar. Can’t help but chuckle that they haven’t done anything notable in their lives. Jerks.
2 are dead. One by overdoes (he and I actually went to prom together but that’s a whole other story) and one by pneumonia. Another one is still living in our home town and I heard she recently made the big move from working at the local grocery store to the bank lol… I wish nothing but the worst for her
I didn’t have a high school bully. I did have a girl I hated, but that was a mutual situation, not one-sided bullying. I have no idea what she is up to, nor do I care. I hope she grew up into a more mature and less annoying person but if she didn’t that’s her problem, not mine.
One of my elementary school bullies did message me on Facebook about ~10 years ago with an invitation to join the MLM she was in then, which lmao. No idea what she’s doing today though, and again idgaf.
She still believes I stole her bf in which I have never met in my life and to be honest I have never met any of her bf. I only know this because I’m related to her uuggghhh
Well one of my bullies got hit by a vehicle, it was a hit and run and it was in the local news. Honestly I don’t care about this person but at the same time I don’t feel empathy towards them.
Omg I recently checked and he’s still fine as fuck! This man use to tease me for having big lips in kindergarten. Is that considered a bully? It def felt that way when I was 5. I remember always dreading seeing him because I knew he would start with his nonsense. I hate that my little heart then felt so inferior by him.
Has three kids, got married, lost a ton of weight, messaged me and genuinely apologized. Seems like having kids made her rethink her past actions so I forgave her.
I didn’t have a bully in HS. I had one in primary school, and we ended up attending the same HS . He tried to apologize to me, and I just couldn’t bring myself to talk to him. I have no idea where he is now. Do I care? Nope. But he did make me cry a lot. They used to tease me because I have a big bum. One of the guys actually told me it’s because he liked me. Crazy.
How about primary school?
I just googled him.
A few years back he was sentenced to 13yrs prison.
Couple rpe charges, some threatening to kll, and a few othet bits.
My sister was a bully in high school. She’s a teacher now and makes sure to tell all her students that her and her friends would bully other girls because they were insecure and had low self esteem.
None in HS but the one from middle school is likely in prison. I would look it up on the state inmate public search page but can’t remember her first and last name.
Other than occasional interpersonal drama, there wasn’t a lot of bullying at my high school. I did get bullied a little in elementary and middle school, but I have no idea what those people’s lives look like now or if they’re even alive. I can’t even remember their names, actually. All of the things I got bullied for then are things people pay insane amounts of money to achieve via cosmetic procedures now, so I’ve let it go.
Another dramatically failed relationship posted all over social media by them and their family, losing tons of weight because they’re sniffing their meals, and generally being miserable while making their grid look like they’re living the dream
I didn’t have bullies in high school, I was just a quiet nobody by then, but middle school… that’s another story. There wasn’t just one bully, although there was one who was the worst in the group of girls who made me feel like shit. I’ve looked her up on Facebook before out of curiosity, just like I’ve looked up loads of people I went to school with, and all I can tell is that she moved from Ontario to Alberta, got married, had three kids and works in insurance.
I don’t care in the sense that I’m not thinking about that time period in my life regularly. But it did hurt a lot and was one factor in the decline of my mental health, so I wouldn’t want to speak to her or be friends.
Oddly enough I just read about him a few days ago. He works at the Rotary Club in our hometown and does a lot of charity work in the community. I really don’t think you can judge anyone by their behaviour in high school (unless they’re exhibiting dangerous or psychotic behaviours), and I think it’s awesome that he found his calling and is doing well.
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They’re dead; they were caught fooling around with the wrong person (ex-friend’s girl).
Her kid just started at the same school as mine. She said hi to me but looked super uncomfortable. So I’m not going to hold it over her head.
Nothing interesting. She’s an average soccer mom type with three kids. Seems happy.
I befriended her on FB to see what her life is like now. She caused a lot of grief in my life and that helped shape my personality, so you can say she had a huge impact on my life. But after seeing her normal day to day life, I lost interest rather quickly and deleted her. (By the time I found her, I was over the trauma, so I think that contributed to my lack of feelings about it.)
He’s a cop now 🙃
She was visibly pregnant at our high school graduation. Had her daughter later that summer.
As far as I know, the baby’s father left her, she’s still working a dead end job at the rec center in our hometown, and she might’ve gone to community college but I doubt it.
Meanwhile I’ve got my master’s degree, work my dream job and it’s paying VERY well, am happily married, and have a nice apartment in a nice area with my amazing husband.
I don’t care.
I didn’t have one. Everyone at my HS was pretty nice, from what I experienced. And I was a juicy target for a potential bully – fat, pimply, frizzy hair, braces, outdated glasses, very shy and socially awkward. Still, nothing. Not a single negative comment or unpleasant incident I can remember.
Sorry, not really an answer to your question. But I just never see this perspective reflected online so felt a need to share it. Kids being cruel assholes doesn’t have to be an inevitable fact of life.
One of them left a comment on my public Throwback Thursday album. She ended our friendship 25+ years ago with a protracted “silent treatment” campaign.
Since she loves the silent treatment so much, I was nice enough to not respond. No like, no block; just didn’t acknowledge her. Hope she had fun Googling me.
Have I let it go? Nope; I’m all set for the next 25 years!
I’m not friends with her on social media because fuck her but she’s a teacher at the school district we all attended which doesn’t surprise me because her mom works for the school district and her mom is just as awful too.
Saw that he was still alive and talking at the thirty year reunion.
First time he had looked me in the eyes since I hit him on the side of the head with an armload of hardback books, and left him on the floor of the gym.
He’s an alcoholic working a dead end job in his home town
No idea.
That fucker still shows up in my dreams 40 years later. In every one of them, I kill him. One of the reasons I’m taking ketamine.
I think he works at McDonalds, in a different town now. And the other one still lives in the same town and works at a bar. Can’t help but chuckle that they haven’t done anything notable in their lives. Jerks.
No idea.
My high school bully was my sister and I haven’t seen, talked to, or heard from her since 1991 and I couldn’t care less.
Died fifteen years ago. Boating accident- it was sad, he left behind a daughter.
2 are dead. One by overdoes (he and I actually went to prom together but that’s a whole other story) and one by pneumonia. Another one is still living in our home town and I heard she recently made the big move from working at the local grocery store to the bank lol… I wish nothing but the worst for her
Edit: Fuck u Stephanie!
All of her friends cut her off by the time we graduated high school. Even her bff who used to gang up on me with her.
Just shows how awful of a human being she truly was
I didn’t have a high school bully. I did have a girl I hated, but that was a mutual situation, not one-sided bullying. I have no idea what she is up to, nor do I care. I hope she grew up into a more mature and less annoying person but if she didn’t that’s her problem, not mine.
One of my elementary school bullies did message me on Facebook about ~10 years ago with an invitation to join the MLM she was in then, which lmao. No idea what she’s doing today though, and again idgaf.
Doing well for themselves. I’m glad they changed. they also apologized to me.
I’m doing better, thank you!
She still believes I stole her bf in which I have never met in my life and to be honest I have never met any of her bf. I only know this because I’m related to her uuggghhh
Well one of my bullies got hit by a vehicle, it was a hit and run and it was in the local news. Honestly I don’t care about this person but at the same time I don’t feel empathy towards them.
Don’t know, don’t care.
Omg I recently checked and he’s still fine as fuck! This man use to tease me for having big lips in kindergarten. Is that considered a bully? It def felt that way when I was 5. I remember always dreading seeing him because I knew he would start with his nonsense. I hate that my little heart then felt so inferior by him.
multiple kids with different fathers that aren’t in the kids lives 💔
Has three kids, got married, lost a ton of weight, messaged me and genuinely apologized. Seems like having kids made her rethink her past actions so I forgave her.
I didn’t have a bully in HS. I had one in primary school, and we ended up attending the same HS . He tried to apologize to me, and I just couldn’t bring myself to talk to him. I have no idea where he is now. Do I care? Nope. But he did make me cry a lot. They used to tease me because I have a big bum. One of the guys actually told me it’s because he liked me. Crazy.
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I don’t even remember their names.
Not sure, but I do have kind of a funny story about a bully I didn’t know I had lol. Had a BFF in like 6th grade. Drifted away in 7th and on.
In 9th or 10th grade, she messaged me on AIM and told me she was sorry she bullied me. She was a terrible bully because I literally had no idea 😂
Getting married to the same guy she dated in high school and hasn’t left town
Working at Hardee’s. I pulled up to the drive through window and there she was. Our town is small.
No idea.
I saw mine on a news report about a bunny ranch in Nevada
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How about primary school?
I just googled him.
A few years back he was sentenced to 13yrs prison.
Couple rpe charges, some threatening to kll, and a few othet bits.
My sister was a bully in high school. She’s a teacher now and makes sure to tell all her students that her and her friends would bully other girls because they were insecure and had low self esteem.
Seen on instagram creating content. Hope, she know what did
None in HS but the one from middle school is likely in prison. I would look it up on the state inmate public search page but can’t remember her first and last name.
Other than occasional interpersonal drama, there wasn’t a lot of bullying at my high school. I did get bullied a little in elementary and middle school, but I have no idea what those people’s lives look like now or if they’re even alive. I can’t even remember their names, actually. All of the things I got bullied for then are things people pay insane amounts of money to achieve via cosmetic procedures now, so I’ve let it go.
I don’t know, and frankly, I don’t care.
He’s married with a woman he’s probably cheating on
I think their dead. I vaguely remember hearing they died in a car crash when I ran into one of my high school classmates. I’m not sure, though
Another dramatically failed relationship posted all over social media by them and their family, losing tons of weight because they’re sniffing their meals, and generally being miserable while making their grid look like they’re living the dream
I didn’t have bullies in high school, I was just a quiet nobody by then, but middle school… that’s another story. There wasn’t just one bully, although there was one who was the worst in the group of girls who made me feel like shit. I’ve looked her up on Facebook before out of curiosity, just like I’ve looked up loads of people I went to school with, and all I can tell is that she moved from Ontario to Alberta, got married, had three kids and works in insurance.
I don’t care in the sense that I’m not thinking about that time period in my life regularly. But it did hurt a lot and was one factor in the decline of my mental health, so I wouldn’t want to speak to her or be friends.
Don’t know, don’t care.
He’s has 2 kids by different women and living in the same town we grew up in
I didn’t have a high school bully
She has a joint Facebook account with her husband.
She got a phd, and is an activist for migrant rights. I’m proud of her 🙂
I’m Facebook friends with my bully. She posted about her wonderful daughter being bullied and couldn’t fathom why.
Probably still mad that I turned out hotter and happier.
She died in 2009, 5 years after my graduation
I’m in engineering school in my 30’s
(I was the bully)
i think she was SA’d at a party and works at a noodles 🤷🏼♀️ can’t say i’m still jealous of her
She’s around 300 pounds now and married with three kids. Her husband is a cop and a pretty good looking guy.
Last I heard she had a mental breakdown and went missing for a period of time. They found her, but I haven’t cared to look into more updates
Oddly enough I just read about him a few days ago. He works at the Rotary Club in our hometown and does a lot of charity work in the community. I really don’t think you can judge anyone by their behaviour in high school (unless they’re exhibiting dangerous or psychotic behaviours), and I think it’s awesome that he found his calling and is doing well.
One is in prison and one is six feet under.
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He died!! Shockingly young from some horrid kind of cancer
He died
He’s dead!!!
Uhhh…I am the one who knocks!
Dead. He’s dead.
Pushing up weeds and fertilizing the earth.
I don’t know, but I can’t wait to get the fucking tea when we have our 20 year HS reunion the end of this year.
I also married an amazing husband who happens to have her ex-fiance’s last name, this is going to be fun 😂😂😂
I don’t know, but I can’t wait to get the fucking tea when we have our 20 year HS reunion the end of this year.
I also married an amazing husband who happens to have her ex-fiance’s last name, which I gladly took when we got married. This is going to be fun 😂😂😂
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She found jesus, and apparently also RFK jr