Men specially, if you know a girl is only okay till the extent of say making out or so. (No sex, no oral) would you keep seeing her for months (3-4 months), if you were not that into her?
Or would you if you were only physically into her?
Or would you if you were emotionally into her?
Or is it cuz making out with someone you have gotten used to enjoyable?
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Men would drag their balls through an empty Walmart parking lot on a hot day just for the possibility to get laid
Why are they only making out seems like a big part of the equation
Making out for brief periods of time is about as physically intimate as I would get with a woman before marriage. Old school, I know. But it’s kept my list of sexual partners (and risk of unexpected disease or pregnancy) extremely low. I just can’t bring myself to go further unless there’s that level of commitment in the relationship – emotionally, mentally, spiritually, intellectually, and so on.
I mean I wouldn’t. But for someone who would I think it would either be that they share her values (no sex, for whatever reason), they REALLY like her emotionally and are willing to wait, they’re asexual, or they are so young or inexperienced with sex and relationships that they don’t really know what they’re doing. Those are the only reasons I can think of. But I’m a sexual being. A woman having strict restrictions around sex like that, for whatever reason, would mean a core incompatibility for me. I want to be with a woman who loves sex, who can’t keep her hands off me. Because I also love sex and can’t keep my hands off her 🙂 That’s how the early stages especially are supposed to feel for me. Intense sexual chemistry and passion. If a woman can just go without for months on end, even if I did wait I foresee a future where I’m constantly dissatisfied/frustrated because I have such a higher sec drive than her and it means more to me. Physical intimacy is a part of living a fulfilling life for me. I need a partner who feels the same. Nothing against those who don’t, but we just wouldn’t be a good match.
Cause it takes 2-3 years before you actually get to see the “real” person they are under the fasad . What seemed like the greatest idea ever can turn into the worse nightmare ever imagined & beyond
I’m more of a hell yeah! or hell no person. I’d assume she wasn’t feeling interested if things stall.
Obviously, this is a different answer at different age ranges.
Age and experience are the big factor that’s being overlooked here. Pre-20, maybe. Now? Nah. Equally, I wouldn’t take someone that puts out on the first few dates seriously.
I tend to want to have sex with the women I’m seeing
No, waste of my time.