What kind of clothing, hobbies and personality do you like most, and what is your dress style, hobbies, etc.
What kind of person are you most attracted to?
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What kind of clothing, hobbies and personality do you like most, and what is your dress style, hobbies, etc.
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I’m into kind, funny people who actually listen and have their own little passions — doesn’t matter if it’s guitar or gaming… Vibe & Chemistry…
A tattooed biker that is fit and has muscles, but not buff. He should have atleast one physical hobby/skill he likes other than the gym and a creative hobby/skill that he likes to do in his free time. He should be confident, goal-oriented, emotionally intelligent, reflective/self-aware and humble (not a big ego). I like guys that dress dark, clean and edgy/mysterious. Jewelry is a major turn-on and I love when a guy wears shirts that are flowy. High quality material clothing is the most important thing. Quality> Quantity. That‘s the short version lol. When it comes to me I think I am basically that just in the female version lol and my style encompasses different aesthetics depending on the season & day.
Confident men who can easily flow from very masculine energy to feminine energy. For example, he can plan the entire date, take initiative, lead, but also openly communicate his feelings and express love. I’m attracted to men who are extremely expressive so I don’t have to guess what they’re feeling or what’s on their mind. Someone who puts themself first so they can better show up for me. Someone who makes time for their interest and hobbies. I’m not super picky on what those may be, but I think it’s attractive when someone prioritizes their interests. And also-humor, health, vitality, intelligence, and good taste.
Clothing: Neatly dressed…plain cotton shirts, button shirts paired with shorts or loose-ish jeans.. paired with some rings/bracelets and a nice cologne and styled hair (long or short really does not matter) really turns a head. Proud skinny jean hater.
Hobbies: physical activities.. weightlifting, calisthenics, craftsmanship, cooking, reading, music, art. Ect.
Personality: ambitious, humble, optimistic and leader are definitely my top four.
A strong personality definitely but not abusive obviously.
Me?
Style: Dresses in the summer, I like bows and jewellery. Or some hippie pants and a plain strapless. Winter more a boots and cute sweater type with jeans.
Hobbies: exercise (Jogging, weights etc.).. art, making jewellery, doing nails and makeup, baking, napping ha, learning to crochet and play the hand pan.
Confidence is the single most attractive quality a person can have.
Confident, enthusiastic nerds who are kind, incredibly funny, and sexually dominant-leaning.
Beyond that, I don’t have much of a “type.” My crushes and partners have been all over the map in terms of physical appearance, gender, etc.
Humility.
I read confidence quite often but actually for me it’s the opposite: I take an interest in more reserved or socially awkward people somehow.
a funny and smart guy is all i need honestly with whom i can play games with:)
Women who have standards— it’s sexy when a woman knows what she wants.
Nerdy but not too nerdy, intelligent, likes to take the lead in relationship, open communication, loyal,, likes traveling and music and exploring new places, preppy dresser, prefer dark hair, at least attempts to be healthy.
humble!!
sadly mostly people on the cluster-B spectrum of all kinds… 💀
Competent and capable men, someone who is intelligent
I’m most attracted to masculine dominant men, that are charismatic, confident, assertive, go-getters, passionate, etc. I love when they’re ambitious and have big goals in life, but also love and prioritize his loved ones because I’m quite relationship and family oriented, so I love seeing men being the most happy spending time with me and our families.
Someone who is kind and has similar values to mine.
A nice guy who values empathy, conversation and understands that arguing is not nagging is a negociation.
And for hobbies and dress style I like someone who owns and has passion for the things they like more than just specifics, love your personality so much that I am into it bcuz you are into it.
Confidence and integrity. But more specifically- doesn’t let other people walk over him, can celebrate other people’s achievements without becoming insecure, will speak up when it matters, able to apologise when wrong, keeps his word and follows through.
Physically I like beards and body hair 😉
Weird artists and musicians. Kind faces. Chubby guys.
Apparently, men in a rock/metal band lol
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Kind, slow and steady, hard worker, goofy, supportive, has hobbies, ok with alone time
clothing and style varies, it depends on the person. personality wise, someone humble, patient, intelligent, soft, quiet (but i enjoy listening if they tend to ramble), maybe someone who becomes easily flustered and stumbles over their words once in a while, an animal lover, hobbies don’t matter much as long as they have some.
My husband attracted me by listening, making things important to him that were important to me, and 100% respecting my boundaries as they shifted in his direction.
Oh, and being phenomenal with children. That man is gonna be a great dad!
I have nerdy and crafty hobbies. Like if your sewing and gardening mom was a gamer. My style is summery. I’m most attracted to intelligence and a sense of humor. Someone who enjoys fun and likes trying new things. A desire to improve, who can admit to being wrong. I want to be with someone who has hobbies and interests, but they don’t need to be the same as mine. My husband plays video games and enjoys watching me dive into whatever I’m on about that month. We make each other laugh so much that it annoys the kids lol. Not sorry.
Kind, patient, slow to anger, secure in who he is as a person, witty.
All over the map, but one consistency I’ve noticed is that they are always exceptionally good at or exceptionally knowledgeable about SOMETHING. Doesn’t really matter what, it’s varied from skateboarding to chess to guitar to languages to film to cars to blah blah blah. But it’s gotta be something.
I tend to be most attracted to introverted yet warm and conversational people, with geeky, tinkering type hobbies. My husband fixes cars and computers, wears graphic tees and jeans, and he’s got a jolly presence at the party and talks to anyone. I’m also a nerd but I like more vintage fashion, I’m more reserved, I like creative hobbies, reading and researching.
Someone who listens and responds to what they hear: when my bf surprised me by constructing a light-up wooden figurine of a butterfly (like something that I had loved in a store months back), I crumbled. He also uses the saying ‘I’m can’t be happy unless you are’ a lot, and it means the most to me.
Someone who is willing to constantly better themselves is also a major plus, as I try to live my life with that point of view.
Yes, I have a physical type and everything else, but that doesn’t really matter in the whole scheme of things.
I’m super into people who are kind but a little goofy. Love someone who’s into music or nature. I dress pretty laid-back—tees, jeans, sneakers. Hobbies? Reading, hiking, and spontaneous road trips.
i’ve noticed that it’s people with the same music taste as i
My boyfriend – I love a classy, handsome man who is emotionally mature. He is also sooo sweet to me. I don’t really care about clothing when it comes to him because his hair always looks amazing.
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A man who is intelligent, confident and ambitious.
I’m already taken and I was attracted to my partner because:
Cute face
Good kind heart
Intelligence
Emotional awareness
We loved the saaaaame things: same taste in music, spirituality, travel
Tall guys that look like they don’t have muscles until they lift something heavy