Curious to hear from the guys: when it comes to first impressions or initial attraction, what kind of energy pulls you in more?
Do you find yourself more intrigued by the woman who’s got that quiet confidence, a little mystery in her eyes, and keeps you guessing? The one you can’t quite read right away?
Or is it the warm, bubbly energy that gets you, the kind of woman who’s easy to talk to, all smiles and sunshine?
Not asking which one you’d stay for, just which vibe grabs your attention more at first.
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Women who are like “I can open up and socialize with anyone, but I’m better off just getting loved on at home”
Sunshine. Immediately makes me come out of my cave.
I have been attracted to women of all shapes, sizes, and colors. The only constant has been that they were nice, kind, and happy women. That’s what instantly draws me to a woman.
A woman isn’t on my radar unless she demonstrates some actual enthusiasm or attraction toward me.
From what I’ve observed in life, a “cool and distant, mysterious woman who keeps you guessing” is just a woman who isn’t interested.
Bookworm. I’ve always found the cute nerdy bookworm look/personality attractive. I also grew up reading Harry Potter and watching the Mummy so that’s probably where that comes from.
I would say a mix between class, openness, humor and bit of goofiness.
I knew a girl who was stunning without wearing anything revealing or super tight, she was extremely open and engaging to talk, can be fun and chearfull to be around. Also had this bit of childish goofiness in her, like wearing socks with bunnies beneath her well fitting and tastefull clothes or jumping in excitement when something exciting happens.
I also never saw her curse, gossip about others, rarely showed any negative emotions towards others such as disgust. She drank moderately and only on rare occassions. I found it pretty engaging to talk with her as she had a broad knowledge and interests that were not just about her immediate surrounding.
When you are around such a girl you feel totally different, the way you speak and behave even if you have no romantic interest suddenly starts having some class in it.
Initially? For me personally it’s about that special je ne sais quoi.