I saw a meme once with 2 photos of the same dude — one with no facial hair and a bad haircut, and the other with attractive facial hair and a better hair style. It said “you can’t tell me that men don’t have options to improve their appearance just like women have the beauty industry.” And I thought that was thought provoking. Find the hairstyle and facial hair that suits your face, get some shoe lifts, whiten your teeth, pump some iron and get on out there! Or do whatever else fills your soul and inspires your confidence.
Get really good at whatever your father was good at that impressed your mother. Unless it’s crime, in which case you’ll need a legal way to be an asshole like Boxing, Policing, Law, Journalism, Ruthless Business Competition etc.
35M. The next 5 years are critical. Don’t do drugs, don’t gamble, don’t binge drink, don’t have unprotected sex with a random girl or girlfriend, don’t hang out with friends only to drink (Ie build actual meaningful habits from healthy activities such as biking or running or playing team sports), study an hour every day on some topic related to your career, and learn to diet as often as you can.
Ideally try not to be a jerk. That’s always the move. But real talk if you are going to act like one, at least be in shape. People tend to let it slide more when you’re fit or easy on the eyes. If you’re fat or not conventionally good-looking, you just come off as bitter instead of bold. That said, not being a jerk is still your best bet.
Be kind & generous (not money but with time and thoughtfulness) I cook, and always make enough to share with somebody. Not always the same person, but I’ll gift meals to friends or neighbours or my clients.
You’ll always be loved and respected for being generous in a heart warming capacity.
Always take some time to yourself even if it’s only for a few minutes take deep breaths close your eyes try to learn push everything out of your head just for that time use a timer on your phone for say 5 minute and when the alarm goes off your ready for the next round of whatever life throws at you
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Confidence is king
The sooner you find that there are things that are out of your control, the sooner you can identify the things that are
I saw a meme once with 2 photos of the same dude — one with no facial hair and a bad haircut, and the other with attractive facial hair and a better hair style. It said “you can’t tell me that men don’t have options to improve their appearance just like women have the beauty industry.” And I thought that was thought provoking. Find the hairstyle and facial hair that suits your face, get some shoe lifts, whiten your teeth, pump some iron and get on out there! Or do whatever else fills your soul and inspires your confidence.
The best life hacks are going to apply to men and women.
Pound one out before date night and you’ll last longer
Controlled vulnerability. Don’t be a victim, but strategically show weakness – just the right amount is game changing.
Motivation to not be homeless and hungry
Get really good at whatever your father was good at that impressed your mother. Unless it’s crime, in which case you’ll need a legal way to be an asshole like Boxing, Policing, Law, Journalism, Ruthless Business Competition etc.
Find out who you are before you get into a relationship and become who they want you to be.
guess this isn’t just for men
being in shape
The zipper and underwear flap is for easy bathroom access. Don’t have to unbutton your pants and pull the underwear down.
When u use a penis pump make sure u don’t let ur nuts accidentally get sucked in?
35M. The next 5 years are critical. Don’t do drugs, don’t gamble, don’t binge drink, don’t have unprotected sex with a random girl or girlfriend, don’t hang out with friends only to drink (Ie build actual meaningful habits from healthy activities such as biking or running or playing team sports), study an hour every day on some topic related to your career, and learn to diet as often as you can.
Standing to pee is a huge time saver and much cleaner in public restrooms.
Helicopter
Don’t jack it in public
Ideally try not to be a jerk. That’s always the move. But real talk if you are going to act like one, at least be in shape. People tend to let it slide more when you’re fit or easy on the eyes. If you’re fat or not conventionally good-looking, you just come off as bitter instead of bold. That said, not being a jerk is still your best bet.
Be kind & generous (not money but with time and thoughtfulness) I cook, and always make enough to share with somebody. Not always the same person, but I’ll gift meals to friends or neighbours or my clients.
You’ll always be loved and respected for being generous in a heart warming capacity.
Always take some time to yourself even if it’s only for a few minutes take deep breaths close your eyes try to learn push everything out of your head just for that time use a timer on your phone for say 5 minute and when the alarm goes off your ready for the next round of whatever life throws at you
Beards
Only we are crazy enough to try and tame wild animals 😄
Urinals.
Life hacks about hairy balls i guess
Wake a woman’s heart, make her fall in love to boost your own ego so you can move onto the next one full of confidence.
Lead through example in everything
take responsibility
Do the little things
Your word is your truth
Look in the eye and shake hard
There is nothing close to the feeling of airing out your nuts at the end of a long day…