Ive been thinkin about this lately lol. like u ever met a girl that just stays in ur head??? not like the hottest girl ever or someone u hooked up with or whatever, but like… she just had something?
idk if its how she looked at you, or something she said, or the whole vibe.
Maybe you met her once and never saw her again, or yall almost had a thing and it just never happened.
People tell me i give off a shy energy but they never explain what it is.
so now i wanna know
What makes a girl unforgettable for you ?
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If a girl show me her greatsword and them goes on to behead a dragon, there’s a high chance that I will remember her forever.
When she has given me a compliment. A girl one time told me she liked my outfit and I’ll never forget it.
It’s the vibe. And to be more specific, it’s not just the energy I feel from her…it’s more importantly a recognition of my internal energy shift when around her.
These individuals are rare.
Nothing.
Something unique about her makes an impression. I can write a list as I remember a lot of girls, but it is not always for positive reasons.
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Being her first
I had just downloaded a few apps maybe a week prior. She was only my 2nd first date so I kind of assumed what followed was all the norm. I didn’t realize at the time how memorable of an encounter this would be. She was interesting, intelligent, eloquent and an art gallery director. We talked for hours, not that out of the ordinary for my dates but for once I did enjoy myself. She looked unconventionally pretty, skinny, very interesting and nice face, striking. She was shy in a way but once I got her comfortable I could tell she had a confidence. It was late winter, maybe early spring so she had not shaved in a while. Probably hadn’t planned on bringing me back home but it happened. That confidence showed in how she didn’t feel like she owed me to shave which wasn’t a problem at all, I dove in all the same. We really had a great night. We didn’t even sleep. It was a Wednesday so I had to leave early to get ready for work. She asked for my number, we kissed and I left. I never saw her again. We barely texted before she decided to move on. I really had enjoyed myself and would’ve seen her again but I guess it didn’t work out for some reason.
The sex
For me it was how she looked at me
When she thanks me for simple stuff I do for her. She notices the small details and is appreciative of it.
I’m dating a girl who comes from privilege, but she’s humble never asks about my finances directly (how much I make or what I do for work) and has a good sense of self with no self entitlement whatsoever.
To me, she’s a keeper. An absolute gem.
The constant questioning of what could have been.
I was at a house party once and this friend of a friend kept on asking me what my dick size was. She went so far as to find a tape measure from somewhere in the house and kept on poking me with it.
I will never forget that bitch.
Unforgettable is a bit steep. To be honest, if a man meets a good woman and settles down, all of the other women become legitimately irrelevant. He forgets them all
I don’t know. She was just the first (and only for now) girl I ever felt something beyond sexual desire for.
She left behind more lessons than she did memories. I suffered a lot, as you usually do in the first love experiences. 0/10 I’m ok with dying single after that.
There’s another woman I’ll never forget but that’s easy to answer: she was my first.
That ass and the way it jiggled just right. Plus she never said no. Too bad all her other issues made her a bad long term prospect.
Been crushing on a girl lately that has insane aura. Her fits are always on point. She just has her shit together. I’m trying to get on her level.
Vanessa Kirby’s mischievous look of power is unforgettable. Its something that she didn’t earn, she just has.
Traditional woman
How she made me feel. I’ve known some beautiful women. I’ve known some women who a bright like the sun. I’ve known some charismatic women. Honestly what I remember about all of them is how they made me feel. Except for Aimee, man she had an amazing rack.
The was a girl name Alex. She was just the nicest girl I know. She didn’t stay in our school for very long.
And someone named Nina. Sat with her in the hospital. Young but Balding. Really nice, watch movies together on a small DVD player. Thought she was getting better, but while I was overseas, she got worse and passed away. Attended her funeral along side her long-time friend…. The feeling never goes away. I only knew Nina for a few months and the time together adds up to less than a week.
The girl I’m with. Only 10 months, but she breathes energy into me when I’m with her, and I miss her like crazy when I’m not with her. I will marry her.
Once when I was bouldering it was quite late and there weren’t that many people around. I was working on one project of mine and a woman walked by. She asked if she could join in, asked for my name and just started a conversation.
Another time I was at a meetup and one woman just sat down at a table I was sitting on and said that she hasn’t met me before and started making conversation, askind questions about me.
They started a conversation without needing or wantinf anything from me.
That question is what’s put men to poetry.
I m old but found a writing I did about a woman I met during my first marraige. I was so attracted to her.
She was so different from my wife at the time. Slender goth feline type.
Yeats later, and post-divorce we had a multi-day fling. She broke it off. Anyway…
Every guy loves novelty in one way or another eventually.
I still think of her very fondly.
The girl who told me she wanted to try eating human flesh right after we had sex for the first (and last) time was pretty unforgettable.
For me the women I meet that are cute and sweet in their own ways make the lasting impression.
When you’re in a beauty and the beast relationship
Armor.
She was my personal stripper. She danced her ass off for me but we were both trying to save eachother and ignoring fixing ourselves. The thought of her still motivates me.
When you find a woman that you’re genuinely attracted to and she makes you feel like you’re the most attractive person in the world. The way she looks at you, the way she treats you and the way she holds onto you.
A huge cock
Wisdom
How you feel when you are with her. It comes from within.
How they made me feel.
I once saw a girl at a festival just squat down in the middle of a dance floor and start pissing. It’s been years and I still think about that every few weeks
I have seen a lot of attractive women in my life and I thought I had a great understanding of what I thought beautiful was (I am aware there is much more to women than physical beauty).
One thing I didn’t buy into was the movie cliche of a gorgeous women walking by, then all of a sudden men near by turn into apes and gawk over her. I know there are men out there that do that, but I never seen a women that made me act any bit of way like that.
I knew I seen attractive women before, so I figured some men are like that and I’m not. That was until my 2nd year in college. I was working behind a counter and I just had a drink from my water bottle. As I put the cap on and look up I seen (in my opinion) the most attractive women I ever in my life (still to this day).
It was unreal, I don’t know how it happened but here it goes.
Time slowed down and it looked like she was slow walking towards me.
Everything around her blurred out and I swear I seen her aura (lavender lol)
She passed by me, waved and said hi.
My jaw was dropped, I forgot how to speak and mumbled something I still don’t know to this day. By the time I came to my senses, I lost motor skills in my hands, dropped my water bottle and also dropped the stuff my coworker handed to me.
Not my proudest moment but it’s one that has stayed with me since then .
When I was a young man in the RAF I worked with a woman that I was totally in love with. At a time, the late nineties, when a lot of women my age were embracing the lad culture she was her own person, and she carried it so well.
She was good looking and got a lot of attention, but she never acted like she knew it. She dressed very feminine and she looked amazing all the time. Classy. She stood out. Never heavy on the make up. She was always great to talk to, funny and down to earth. She was very sexy. I took my shot one night and told her that I thought she was beautiful and everything I wanted in a woman, she just gave me a hug and said “And out there is a woman that you will be everything to one day”. Even when she was knocking me back she made me feel ten feet tall.
I met her a few years back at a reunion. I was there with my wife, who is the woman I was actually destined to meet and spend my life with, and she was there with her husband, really nice guy. She still had the same vibe and told my wife how lucky she was to get me. She came up to me at the bar, nudged my arm and said “Told you so”, she still had that same look that made me weak in the knees all those years ago.
Some woman just have something. There are so many combinations that make that quality. So many combinations that make them have that vibe we love.
A good sloppy gobble job makes you remember her well
I’ve seen nice butts that I still think about almost 20 years later
First date with a girl. Went well (I thought)
Ghosted me after a couple days. Why can’t I forget her
Needed to get that off my chest
her intiating interactions with me. I’ll remember her no matter who she is since it never happens.
How she makes you feel about yourself.
There are the good things and the bad things.
I remember the girl who at the time walked up and tried to hold my hand and kiss me while asking if I was a virgin in front of a whole gym class. Looking back, because she got away with touching my junk over my pants, and tried to unbutton my pants as I told her to leave me alone, I really find it hard to forget how much of a “faggot” I am (gym teacher’s words). Great example of unforgettable for reasons I’d rather never remember.
On the other hand of the spectrum, I remember each and every girl who has been my girlfriend. Each and every one who responded to me holding her hand by interlocking her fingers with mine. Each and every girl who gave me a kiss on the forehead and each one who asked to play with my hair.
In my mid-20s, I worked at a Subway with this one woman – a cute Latina who was attending the local community college. Had a pretty nonchalant attitude about her and these canines that looked like fangs, which complemented her face and personality. I had a crush on her but I was so caught up in my own mind that I never got to know her that well – that and the fact we were constantly watched by corporate (it was a franchise location). I still think about her to this day, and not in a way fueled by hormones or what could have been, but in a way that I hope she’s living a good life.
I literally cannot explain it. There are some women I have come across in my life, none of them had anything in common. For some reason those experiences will just stay with me.
Attempting to murder me, that would be pretty unforgettable
Repeating other posts, it’s the vibe you feel. My wife and I met for Mexican food for dinner on our first date. We hung out there for almost three and a half hours. We were the last people to leave. Then we walked a few doors down to an English pub where we had a few more drinks and listened to some live music and the vibe continued. We were there for almost two hours. We went back to her car and started making out immediately, we got very… uh… “handsy”, and then went back to my place where she spent the night. We’ve been together ever since. Our mental, emotional, and yes, sexual chemistry was off the charts. Been together 7 years now, married 5 years, and have a 2 year old daughter and our chemistry is still mind blowing. It makes me wonder why I put myself into unfulfilling relationships prior to her.
You can forget what people say.
You can forget what people do.
But you tend not to forget how they made you feel!