I was talking to a guy friend of mine on the topic of past relationships. He was around 21yr at the time when he met his girl (now ex gf). He briefly described her as “she was my dream girl”.
So what makes a girl “a dream girl” when you were around this age? What was your experience.
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I was talking to a guy friend of mine on the topic of past relationships. He was around 21yr at the time when he met his girl (now ex gf). He briefly described her as “she was my dream girl”.
So what makes a girl “a dream girl” when you were around this age? What was your experience.
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Her virtue, integrity, morality and honesty are probably what he was referring to.
She’s the girl of your dreams, everything you ever wanted. It’s not exactly complicated
I thought my first love was my dream girl, and at the time, she really was. but I grew up, my dreams got bigger, and she no longer ticked all my boxes. it’s different for everyone, I guess.
She’s cute, funny maybe but at least friendly and good natured, and she’s into you. That bar doesn’t sound super high and yet it’s so rare to find.
I think that’s an ’80s reference—your friend’s an old soul
I think he’s ranking her as one of the best—if not the best—woman he’s ever met. At this point, any other girl probably won’t measure up to his ‘dream girl’ standard
If you asked someone what their perfect girl was they would describe that girl before meeting her. What it is varies by person. It can be dangerous though because she could just look like your dream girl and have a terrible personality that you just ignore because you are confusing the image in your head with reality. That’s especially true when you are young.
Someone who can create the illusion that they will solve all your mental problems and insecurities while also fully desiring you without doubt or complications. The further away you are from autonomy the more arresting that fantasy would probably become.