I think it’s the confidence you get from being behind a screen. It’s the same thing with social media. You can be whoever you want to be. It’s easier to hide what you think a flaws and you can be as open as you want without the in person judgment.
I feel like it’s more exciting because you can’t be with that person immediately so you have to wait and day dream about what you will do once you’re together, makes sex that much better
It’s all in the imagination. You get to focus on what you like, them too. And you guide each other to say and pretend to do what you each like, unlike real life where I assume, communication is less present
Personally, I wouldn’t say it’s “more” intense or exciting than irl sex. But I absolutely LOVE sexting for the sheer anticipation of what’s going to come next! Especially quick, line by line sexting is super hot to me (not being kept waiting too long).
Also- I genuinely believe that sexting is basically a form of art. I don’t care what anyone else thinks. It takes a lot of time and effort to write something thoughtful, especially if you gather info on what the person is doing at that moment (work/home/etc.) and work something up.
I say it’s a form of art because (me personally) I really like details. The more detailed it is (but also quickly written), the better. It’s also the reason why I prefer purely verbal sexting to photographic exchanges. The anticipation is hotter.
Also, you learn so much from a person on how they sext. It’s so fun seeing what gets them off as they write to/for you. You get a nice insight into their fantasies and kinks. All of this is awesome if the vibes are vibing btw.
Sex is mostly in the brain, for me it’s where foreplay begins before we get to the physical aspect of sex plus the freedom to be anything and lety mind go anywhere makes the overall experience enjoyable
I always felt like using my imagination set the settling of what I want and look. So it’s perfect for me. And of course some excitement in doing something naughty.
The confidence to say whatever one wants to say. 2) no consequences in sexting. It’s not difficult to undo what you say, or atleast move on. 3) the thrill of knowing that your words have a magical affect on someone
Because I only sext with the same person and we are incredibly attracted to one another. There’s no script or format to follow we just talk about our desires to each other and how we’re feeling in the moment— videos and photos here and there (with sound). When you’re in love with someone everything about them turns you on. Their body is perfect no matter how it looks or changes, their voice/moans, and just knowing the way they’re feeling is because of the thought of you…it’s amazing.
For me the mind is the most important erogenous zone. If my mind is stimulated then everything else follows and the sex is amazing whether physical or virtual. If it isn’t then physical sex might still be good, but it won’t be mind blowing 🤯.
I’m shy 👉🏽👈🏽. I can’t ever get the correct words face to face out to build up the anticipation. When I text though. My thoughts are composed and said with more assertiveness.
The creation of a slightly unspeakable fantasy and much easier in sexting! Solitary pleasure is different from pleasure in pairs and the two are not comparable 😊
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I think it’s the confidence you get from being behind a screen. It’s the same thing with social media. You can be whoever you want to be. It’s easier to hide what you think a flaws and you can be as open as you want without the in person judgment.
I feel like it’s more exciting because you can’t be with that person immediately so you have to wait and day dream about what you will do once you’re together, makes sex that much better
I like to add hit points to my sexting.
I came so hard = -45hp
Imagination.
I’m not sure but I’m totally down if any females wanna sext.
When u actually know them or u just go a little bit into detail. Also when they have a bf and uk he ain’t doing shit
Sexting is lame.
Your imagination going to work
The fact that all you have to do is talk the talk and you don’t have to walk the walk.
I feel like I can say dirtier things than I ever would in real life (since I’m a little bit shy). Also, it’s just the fantasy aspect of it.
The chance you accidentally send it to the group text that includes your in-laws.
it’s not as cringe because you don’t have to hear yourself talking dirty
You can be something false. In any case, this is far from the excitiment of real vulnerable intimacy. It’s something rather pathological.
It’s all in the imagination. You get to focus on what you like, them too. And you guide each other to say and pretend to do what you each like, unlike real life where I assume, communication is less present
In my opinion sexting never can be more exciting or better then real sex… its just like a teaser
You can be anything you want
Anticipation
Personally, I wouldn’t say it’s “more” intense or exciting than irl sex. But I absolutely LOVE sexting for the sheer anticipation of what’s going to come next! Especially quick, line by line sexting is super hot to me (not being kept waiting too long).
Also- I genuinely believe that sexting is basically a form of art. I don’t care what anyone else thinks. It takes a lot of time and effort to write something thoughtful, especially if you gather info on what the person is doing at that moment (work/home/etc.) and work something up.
I say it’s a form of art because (me personally) I really like details. The more detailed it is (but also quickly written), the better. It’s also the reason why I prefer purely verbal sexting to photographic exchanges. The anticipation is hotter.
Also, you learn so much from a person on how they sext. It’s so fun seeing what gets them off as they write to/for you. You get a nice insight into their fantasies and kinks. All of this is awesome if the vibes are vibing btw.
Think it’s just the buildup
Sex is mostly in the brain, for me it’s where foreplay begins before we get to the physical aspect of sex plus the freedom to be anything and lety mind go anywhere makes the overall experience enjoyable
The freedom to say anything I want
It’s a mind fuck 🤯
Sometimes the words GRAB your imagination and it takes you to the promise land.
I always felt like using my imagination set the settling of what I want and look. So it’s perfect for me. And of course some excitement in doing something naughty.
The confidence to say whatever one wants to say. 2) no consequences in sexting. It’s not difficult to undo what you say, or atleast move on. 3) the thrill of knowing that your words have a magical affect on someone
You can be who you want to be, do what you want to do and it’s a great way of meeting exciting women and then cutting right to the chase.
Because I only sext with the same person and we are incredibly attracted to one another. There’s no script or format to follow we just talk about our desires to each other and how we’re feeling in the moment— videos and photos here and there (with sound). When you’re in love with someone everything about them turns you on. Their body is perfect no matter how it looks or changes, their voice/moans, and just knowing the way they’re feeling is because of the thought of you…it’s amazing.
My grandma would have a fit I said those things to her in person
The anticipation, our mind is incredible.
For me the mind is the most important erogenous zone. If my mind is stimulated then everything else follows and the sex is amazing whether physical or virtual. If it isn’t then physical sex might still be good, but it won’t be mind blowing 🤯.
Words can paint the better picture than our bodies could ever do
More intense and exciting???
Same concept in Plato’s forms that win concepts become things they then become fallible and can’t be a perfect ideal of what lies in our mind
Knowing there’s an FBI agent spying on our texts.
The fact you can be doing it simultaneously with 3 or 4 girls at a time and they don’t know.
More intense and exciting? What if the other can’t come up with actual words to make the experience intense and exciting?
Virginity
The allure, beef is tempting until you see ket
You get more time to think about what you want to say.
There’s more anticipation from waiting on a response.
I’m shy 👉🏽👈🏽. I can’t ever get the correct words face to face out to build up the anticipation. When I text though. My thoughts are composed and said with more assertiveness.
The creation of a slightly unspeakable fantasy and much easier in sexting! Solitary pleasure is different from pleasure in pairs and the two are not comparable 😊
Anticipation that you don’t get to release.
Good sex also has lots of anticipation, IRL. Make them wait, make them really want it.