What makes you fall for a woman?

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Some of my guy friends say they start catching feelings for a woman who simply checks in on them. How about you?

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  2. Gullible_Egg_6539 Avatar

    Being able to be myself around her, without being judged or laughed at.

  3. dollar-menunaire Avatar

    sense of humor/having a caring personality/intelligence. being a great cook, since i hate to cook – just to name a few.

  4. ElegantMankey Avatar

    Well, everything I guess? From her looks, humor, small gestures, how she speaks, her hobbies etc..

    I don’t fall for someone just because she looks at me or hit on me.

  5. BackgroundKey7993 Avatar

    we vibed. she made me laugh and she laughed. she made life fun. she also didn’t let me do anything sexual with her, and that made me want her more

  6. LiterallyAzzmilk Avatar

    Unconditional companionship. When they can not only listen but understand your feelings. Loyalty, communication skills. Combine this with a big booty and you got yourself a wife.

  7. archblade7777 Avatar

    Intelligence, kindness, thinks I’m funny as hell.

    Worked for my wife.

  8. RobinGood94 Avatar

    Sigh. Is this so hard to comprehend?

    What positive qualities can your mind conjure up? Ok, well done, apply those to a woman and you’ve answered this question.

  9. jarreddit123 Avatar

    Her showing me she actually cares about me as a person and not because of what I could potentially provide for her.

  10. Impressive-Floor-700 Avatar

    First and foremost, how she treats me. Give me a 3 that treats me like a 10, over a 10 that treats me like a 3 any day of the week.

    Of secondary importance is her appearance, as long as she is of a healthy weight and doesn’t look like a goblin without makeup were good.

  11. SewerSlidalThot Avatar

    When she does anal.

  12. PieceSignificant2847 Avatar

    Her personal charm, her behavior.

  13. zipcodekidd Avatar

    When she has a mind of her own and not influenced or propagandized by others. When she speaks the gut wrenching truth rather than some bullshit because she’s afraid to offend. The go getter and the person that doesn’t wait for things to happen, but rather makes shit happen.

  14. Exotic-Treat6206 Avatar

    Smell, no seriously, I am like a dog.

    I don’t mean perfume smell , natural one

  15. Efficient-Log8009 Avatar

    I guess, the less attention guys are used to getting, the less they require to “fall for a woman”. It’s really a sad thing that the bar has dropped so low in Western countries but I guess no one wants to be alone so they put up with any bullshit.

  16. SimplySeano Avatar

    I fell hard when she shared things we both like and when showed me things I had no idea about nor would’ve seen in my life because she travels for work.

  17. CheckTheOR Avatar

    One who addresses my emotional needs and speaks my love languages. Pretty straightforward answer but seems to be pretty complicated for a lot of women.

  18. nerdedmango Avatar

    a stone, maybe.

  19. Such_Cauliflower8000 Avatar

    🫧 bubbly nature.

  20. shinn497 Avatar

    Yeah women that I can communicate with , depend on, and can be myself around are great.

  21. absolute_panic Avatar

    Loving me for who I am. Not who she wants me to be.

  22. Proper-Tomorrow-4848 Avatar

    Everything the smile,the eyes,the personality,and always being there for you when you’re not feeling your best. That’s the kind of woman that I fall for who shows me affection,love,and understanding. I met this kind of woman recently we had a beautiful bond and I believe possibly a soul connection being that she’s showing up in my dreams. Most beautiful part about our connection is I can be my true self around her I can be vulnerable,emotional, honest with her. Last time I saw her right before she left to go back to China I got emotional I cried in front of her and without hesitation she consoled me. We embraced and looking back at this moment It was beautiful because we showed one another how much we care and she didn’t judge me for crying as a matter of fact she liked my emotional side. That’s the kind of woman I fall in love with one who cares is always there for you and loves you for being you.

  23. WiseShitFr Avatar

    Starts talking with me n looks beautiful. But I will lose interest after 1week..so it’s temporary feelings…like the change in my current lifestyle.. something new n different.

  24. dukeofthefoothills1 Avatar

    I’m immune to their wiles…
    Stay strong, Duke…

  25. xKhira Avatar

    When she trips me.

  26. TyphoonCane Avatar

    For a great deal of men you’ve already figured out the secret. The moment that they can recognize you caring about them is the moment that most of us fall for you. Believe it or not just being treated with a bare minimum of kindness goes pretty unseen. Clarifying that last statement, what I mean is most ladies aren’t going out of their way to care about a random dude. The kindness that many ladies seem to recognize are responding to hello instead of expressing genuine interest in a man’s life.

  27. Flashignite2 Avatar

    Showing genuine interest in you, when they smile from ear to ear when they see you. When they tell you how much you mean to them and that they feel safe around you.

  28. kuntwafer Avatar

    If she is patent and secure in herself and kind and intelligent. I’m pretty much there. I don’t give a fuck what you look like if you have those 4 things.