Oh, the problem for me is always open or heavily tight clothes. I spend a lot of time working out, taking care of myself and my body, but as soon as I put on something too tight or open, I feel like I’m in really bad shape or not slim enough , I don’t know how to explain it.
I’m overweight. Currently working on that but the goal is to be “fit and healthy” vs “skinny” but that takes time. Also, stretch marks and my hyperpigmentation on various parts of my body. I’m almost 30 and I’m at that stage where idgaf! I rock my imperfect body like a badge of honor now. Life is too short worried about what people think and not happy in your own skin. If someone has a problem about it they can respectfully fuck off
Every day eyelash extensions, and tatted eyebrows. These test all never be my style. I want to wear eyelashes only when am going out or party. I can’t have them everyday. It’s such a torture to the eyes
I wear mostly men’s clothing and it usually black / dark aswell. I’m a short person so everything looks huge on me. I’ve always had hand me downs from my family members and I grew up with basically only men so I’ve just always worn these clothes and I feel uncomfortable af when I wear tight clothes or anything that doesn’t cover most of me. I’ve been compared to homeless people (which I was for a while) and often get mocked because I stand out in a crowd of alot of other women my age with their beige tight clothing.
People always comment I am bold for bangs. I have more or less had bangs since 4th grade. I like how they frame my face and cover my forehead. They do not always cooperate, but who cares? It’s hair.
I suppose the other is my roman nose. People rarely comment on it now, but when I was growing up people called it my Jewish nose. I have grown to like it, I just wish my profile was a tad less pronounced.
Clothes that are comfortable rather than trendy and fitting me in just the right ways (sneakers in which I can walk for miles if I decide to do so after work – can’t beat that). I also don’t worry about hair or makeup, brush, mascara (like three times a week) and I’m good to go. Women waste too much precious time and money on something that really doesn’t matter. Or is it just me who doesn’t care? I really don’t find heavy layer of foundation attractive or “invisible”.
Also, I have a large nose and don’t starve myself at all! I eat and enjoy things.
Beauty standards are crazy, and mainly exist to harm women.
I wear no makeup. I wear oversized “manly” clothes. I’m kinda overweight. Wouldn’t call myself ugly persay but I’m definitely not a pretty face. I slouch a lot.
I have the ugliest, most chopped haircut that I did myself. And on top of that, microbangs! But it makes me feel most happy in my own skin, so I own it. Idc if it’s societally unattractive
I hardly care about make up at all. Maybe bc I grew up with a mum who doesn’t wear any and so I just never considered it, I’m working on my skin tho, I want it to be at its best and I’ve come a long way bc I had really bad acne in highschool up until some time after I finished highschool, so rn my priority is clear skin and remaining fit bc I was pretty big in highschool and it did a number on my self confidence. Walking a lot in uni alone did the trick
I don’t wear makeup.
I don’t “do” my hair and it’s always frizzy, that’s just the way it is.
I don’t do anything to my eyebrows, I just let them live their life.
I shave but I’m not concerned about stubble on my underarms and legs unless it seems obvious to me.
I don’t have straight or perfectly white teeth.
My curly, and let’s admit usually fizzy hair. In the last few years, with the trend of beautiful waves, people have gotten more used to curls, but they still expect them to look perfect and all go in the same direction. My hair is like, hell no.
I pretty much exclusively wear slightly oversized unisex hoodies and sweatpants (mostly because of sensory issues; they’re just way more tolerable than other types of clothing), almost never wear makeup, I’m underweight, I bite the crap out of my fingernails and have no intention of stopping, and I have patches of eczema (mostly on my hands).
Whatever, though. I’m very loved by my fiancé just as I am and I feel it every day, and I’m lucky to have such a healthy relationship overall.
My weight. I’m not heavy by any means, but I’m also not beauty standard skinny. 5’4 and sitting at about 150lbs. I adore my body.
I also don’t use a lot of makeup (I basically just use mascara, eyeshadow, and occasionally eyeliner). Acne routines and a full face of makeup just weren’t something I ever felt like I needed.
Straight teeth. My teeth are mostly straight after braces, but I have buck teeth and the bottoms are still bumpy.
I’m not gonna shave my legs, for other people’s satisfaction, I’m fine with having hairy legs as a woman, if you have a problem with it — stop looking. 🤷♀️ Ladies, don’t EVER change yourself for somebody else, it’s never worth it, I wish I learned that sooner.
It’s less about ignoring and more about not having a conventionally attractive face. This one isn’t about being ugly on purpose, it just happens lol. I also barely wear any makeup anymore though, I don’t like the feeling of it on my face when it inevitably gets oily and/or sweaty and I also just can’t be bothered. I can’t believe I used to wear a full face of makeup almost every day at one point, nowadays I only do a little makeup for more formal or special occasions and that’s it.
I also have shitty hair, it’s very thin and fine. The kind of fuckass toddler-like hair that gets blown away by the slightest breeze, and the total volume of it is maybe like 1/4 of what the average person has, 1/2 if we’re being very generous. This one’s also not on purpose, I tried everything I could think of to help me grow more hair, but I guess it just be like that sometimes. At this point I’m also kinda over it.
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Anything to do with eyebrows, i do mine how i like them. Which isnt fashionable.
I also am partial to a skinny jean.
Oh, the problem for me is always open or heavily tight clothes. I spend a lot of time working out, taking care of myself and my body, but as soon as I put on something too tight or open, I feel like I’m in really bad shape or not slim enough , I don’t know how to explain it.
My nose is too big for Western (and Eastern) beauty standards
Double eyelid surgery~ 😭
I’m overweight. Currently working on that but the goal is to be “fit and healthy” vs “skinny” but that takes time. Also, stretch marks and my hyperpigmentation on various parts of my body. I’m almost 30 and I’m at that stage where idgaf! I rock my imperfect body like a badge of honor now. Life is too short worried about what people think and not happy in your own skin. If someone has a problem about it they can respectfully fuck off
Anything to do with my hair. It’s usually tied up in a ponytail.
I dont do any make up and i dont shave my legs unless I feel really insecure about it
Every day eyelash extensions, and tatted eyebrows. These test all never be my style. I want to wear eyelashes only when am going out or party. I can’t have them everyday. It’s such a torture to the eyes
I don’t wear makeup
I don’t wear the current fashion
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I don’t try to look natural either with my hair or my makeup.
I wear mostly men’s clothing and it usually black / dark aswell. I’m a short person so everything looks huge on me. I’ve always had hand me downs from my family members and I grew up with basically only men so I’ve just always worn these clothes and I feel uncomfortable af when I wear tight clothes or anything that doesn’t cover most of me. I’ve been compared to homeless people (which I was for a while) and often get mocked because I stand out in a crowd of alot of other women my age with their beige tight clothing.
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I don’t wear makeup. I actually love makeup and have lots of it but I just kinda prefer my face without it and I wfh
People always comment I am bold for bangs. I have more or less had bangs since 4th grade. I like how they frame my face and cover my forehead. They do not always cooperate, but who cares? It’s hair.
I suppose the other is my roman nose. People rarely comment on it now, but when I was growing up people called it my Jewish nose. I have grown to like it, I just wish my profile was a tad less pronounced.
Clothes that are comfortable rather than trendy and fitting me in just the right ways (sneakers in which I can walk for miles if I decide to do so after work – can’t beat that). I also don’t worry about hair or makeup, brush, mascara (like three times a week) and I’m good to go. Women waste too much precious time and money on something that really doesn’t matter. Or is it just me who doesn’t care? I really don’t find heavy layer of foundation attractive or “invisible”.
Also, I have a large nose and don’t starve myself at all! I eat and enjoy things.
Beauty standards are crazy, and mainly exist to harm women.
I wear no makeup. I wear oversized “manly” clothes. I’m kinda overweight. Wouldn’t call myself ugly persay but I’m definitely not a pretty face. I slouch a lot.
My hair.
I have the ugliest, most chopped haircut that I did myself. And on top of that, microbangs! But it makes me feel most happy in my own skin, so I own it. Idc if it’s societally unattractive
I hardly care about make up at all. Maybe bc I grew up with a mum who doesn’t wear any and so I just never considered it, I’m working on my skin tho, I want it to be at its best and I’ve come a long way bc I had really bad acne in highschool up until some time after I finished highschool, so rn my priority is clear skin and remaining fit bc I was pretty big in highschool and it did a number on my self confidence. Walking a lot in uni alone did the trick
I don’t wear makeup.
I don’t “do” my hair and it’s always frizzy, that’s just the way it is.
I don’t do anything to my eyebrows, I just let them live their life.
I shave but I’m not concerned about stubble on my underarms and legs unless it seems obvious to me.
I don’t have straight or perfectly white teeth.
My curly, and let’s admit usually fizzy hair. In the last few years, with the trend of beautiful waves, people have gotten more used to curls, but they still expect them to look perfect and all go in the same direction. My hair is like, hell no.
I pretty much exclusively wear slightly oversized unisex hoodies and sweatpants (mostly because of sensory issues; they’re just way more tolerable than other types of clothing), almost never wear makeup, I’m underweight, I bite the crap out of my fingernails and have no intention of stopping, and I have patches of eczema (mostly on my hands).
Whatever, though. I’m very loved by my fiancé just as I am and I feel it every day, and I’m lucky to have such a healthy relationship overall.
My weight. I’m not heavy by any means, but I’m also not beauty standard skinny. 5’4 and sitting at about 150lbs. I adore my body.
I also don’t use a lot of makeup (I basically just use mascara, eyeshadow, and occasionally eyeliner). Acne routines and a full face of makeup just weren’t something I ever felt like I needed.
Straight teeth. My teeth are mostly straight after braces, but I have buck teeth and the bottoms are still bumpy.
I’m old. That makes me ugly. Thankfully, I’m too old to care
Big nose, thin lips, shaved head
I’m not gonna shave my legs, for other people’s satisfaction, I’m fine with having hairy legs as a woman, if you have a problem with it — stop looking. 🤷♀️ Ladies, don’t EVER change yourself for somebody else, it’s never worth it, I wish I learned that sooner.
I’m fat.
An ugly personality destroys a pretty face
It’s less about ignoring and more about not having a conventionally attractive face. This one isn’t about being ugly on purpose, it just happens lol. I also barely wear any makeup anymore though, I don’t like the feeling of it on my face when it inevitably gets oily and/or sweaty and I also just can’t be bothered. I can’t believe I used to wear a full face of makeup almost every day at one point, nowadays I only do a little makeup for more formal or special occasions and that’s it.
I also have shitty hair, it’s very thin and fine. The kind of fuckass toddler-like hair that gets blown away by the slightest breeze, and the total volume of it is maybe like 1/4 of what the average person has, 1/2 if we’re being very generous. This one’s also not on purpose, I tried everything I could think of to help me grow more hair, but I guess it just be like that sometimes. At this point I’m also kinda over it.