I was doing my fiancés laundry after he came home from a 3 day work trip and found a bluechew (viagra) in his pocket. I’ve never had a reason to not trust him so I’m hoping there would be another reason?!
What other reasons to take a bluechew?
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I was doing my fiancés laundry after he came home from a 3 day work trip and found a bluechew (viagra) in his pocket. I’ve never had a reason to not trust him so I’m hoping there would be another reason?!
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He was furiously whacking off
One might desire an erection in order to masturbate.
Dudes fuckin’. Leave it on the kitchen counter for him to encounter, see how he reacts.
I’ve only seen it advertised for sex… so if you haven’t had it recently:x time for a talk
Maybe he’s been away for a while and wanted to show his other half a good time?
If it’s an empty wrapper, likely cheating.
If not, maybe he wants to have sex with you.
Seriously?
Viagra was originally developed for high blood pressure, so maybe that? But given how much paperwork and justifications would be required by the doctor to even get this for blood pressure issues, I’m sure he got it for what it’s now primarily used for.
Are you sure it’s Viagra, though?
Yea he cheating
Emergency coat hanger?
It’s a product designed to increase blood flow, not just to the penis. The pump you can get in the gym with sildenafil is stupid awesome. Literally the only reason I have it.
Maybe he needs it with you and he’s embarrassed to admit it.
Have you been getting laid more lately? If not, he’s using it with others
Does he work out or do any athletic sports? Viagra is pretty common due to the blood flood benefits in what one would consider mild sports doping.
Other than that, maybe he has ED issues or something and wanted to masturbate or something.
Just ask him instead of forming an opinion and ultimately a decision based on the advice of anonymous people on Reddit.
He wanted to jerk off for a few hours in his hotel room.
There is only 1 reason. Sorry you’re going thru this. Might want to postpone that date if you picked it already. Chances are he will always be that way especially since you’re not even married yet. Have you been together for years and years and have a few kids together and don’t have sex often? And did you deny him sex prior to the trip? Those are the only semi even remotely close to excusable reasons, and even those are a stretch.
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Originally marketed as a heart medication. The side effects are what made it a success.
Maybe he’s having circulation issues..
Yeah, that’s it..
Off topic but that is a fucking awful product name. Why anyone would thing it was a good idea to associate the word “chew” with a product for your penis is beyond me.
He might’ve just been spanking it in your absence. I’d just ask, in a non “hey, what the fuck?!?” calm way. Then decide if you believe him.
Does he lift weights regularly? Cialis is regularly used by bodybuilders/intermediate weightlifters, it is great for pumps in the gym. Dead serious.
I keep gum wrappers, receipts, and lots of other things in my jeans pockets and just forget to throw them away. I sometimes wear a pair of jeans, hang them back up, wear them again, sometimes three or four times over the course of a week or two.
It could conceivably be from weeks ago, and he could be using it with you and not telling because he’s embarrassed, or he doesn’t want you to feel like you’re “not enough.”
I’m not saying that’s what happened, but that’s a scenario I can see happening realistically.
Is he hitting the gym?
Reason I ask is vasculo-diolators like Viagra or Cialis do help with muscle growth.
If he’s not hitting the gym 6 days a week, then he’s hitting something else and it ain’t you.
It was originally developed as a high blood pressure medicine but then it’s, ah, secondary effects were discovered.
Others BP meds are much less expensive.
That said, Cialis is prescribed after prostrate surgery. I don’t know if Viagra is used that way.
Cocaine + porn. I’m off this kind of thing but it’s been known to happen.
Hes probably using it for you and is embarrassed
Maybe the beds where he was staying were narrow and he didn’t want to roll out.
Or is he sunburnt and needed to hold the sheets up?
Always best to talk to the person involved straight away and don’t play up in your mind what might have been going on.
There may be a harmless or silly explanation, like being pranked by a friend.
I mean he could be using it with you and embarrassed. More men deal with ED than they want to admit. If he’s never given you a reason to not trust him, then keep trusting him and ask him about it. The way he answers will be telling. But try to tell the difference between embarrassment/defensive and guilty/defensive. Don’t jump to the worst conclusion, someone you care about deserves the benefit of the doubt if they haven’t done anything to lose your trust in the past.
You’ve never had a reason to not trust him but now you do 💔 I’m so sorry.
How about you talk to your fiancé?
You know, the whole concept of adult communication and all that.
He can either lie or tell the truth…we can only speculate.
Sorry.
Viagara can also be used for high blood pressure. But I mean, he could be using Viagara with you. Or to jerk off. It’s always worth it to talk it out like an adult if you value the relationship.
Bodybuilders also use viagara and related drugs to get bigger pumps I think. Also blood pressure related. Those medications (or at least viagara) were actually initially developed for high blood pressure.
This is rare but I’ve heard of dudes using virga and weed to have a jerkathon (heard one person calling the savage love cast asking if it’s safe once in a while).
But the most likely scenario is he’s fucking.
He might’ve been expecting to use it with you or by himself, and he’s been too self-conscious to tell you. There are definitely potential reasons that arent cheating-related.
Either way, if it created a trust issue you should bring it up, and talk to each other, even if it’s nothing. Otherwise I would leave him alone about it and just keep an eye out if there’s any other patterns that make you question your trust, or reinforce it, and go from there.
Look up Chad Ocho Cinco and viagra. I’ll let you decide
His boner isn’t as hard as it used to be. Some guys would find this embarrassing and/or emasculating, and would prefer not announcing it.
But yeah, IDK, he could always be cheating. You been noticing soft pp?
It was originally designed to help high altitude climbers deal with low oxygen
So he’s definitely prepping for Everest..that’s it!
You know he has cheated, you’d have to be completely dense to think otherwise.
Sildenafil (Viagra) has shown potential in improving exercise performance at high altitude by improving gas exchange and limiting altitude-induced hypoxemia. It may also help prevent or treat high altitude pulmonary edema (HAPE) by reducing pulmonary artery pressure.