One of my friends does this, even on the hottest days in the aussie summer. I’ve spoken to him a few times to say, “dude, we dont care how you look.” But he keeps the jumper on
All those “big declarations” on social media. Like “this year is all about me” and then in a few weeks, they’re back to the same mess. posting daily “positive vibes only” quotes and fighting with strangers in the comments. “Cutting off people and “if you don’t hear from me, I’m protecting my peace” when nobody was even trying to reach them. Sad little quotes about “some people don’t deserve your energy,” then a bunch of selfies right after. “Nobody believed in me but me” after two weeks at the gym. “Normalize not needing anyone” right after leaving another toxic relationship for the 10th time. Announcing a big “social media break” and being back in two days. Then bragging about “healing in private” while posting updates every hour. The louder they scream about self-love, the clearer it is they don’t have any.
Letting the opinions of others shape how you act/present yourself to the point where you aren’t yourself anymore. It’s normal to change your behaviour/presentation around certain people (for example I won’t swear around my extended family or at work because it’s disrespectful towards them), but I won’t change the base aspects of my personality/behaviour because that’s disrespectful to myself.
Lack of self care. If you love yourself you are more likely to dress nicely, smell nicely, look out for health issues, keep your body in shape or just appeal to your natural strenghts. And not in a way to impress others, but to express oneself, because you love you and want more of that. On the other hand, if you have low self-esteem you are more likely to skip on all that, just because “I look stupid”, “I don’t deserve that”, “I don’t want attention”, “My health is not that important right now”, “Why bother” or just drow in self pity and neglect for you apperance and health without even being aware of it.
And yeah, sometimes you look at a person and can tell that they don’t love themselves just because of their little to no appearance. And it’s not about extraverts VS introverts.
Most, if not their entire existence, is about making others they deem lesser feel bad about their own existence because it’s easier to do that than face the mess that they are.
They always seem to have issues with someone. They are always complaining about someone in their life.
I worked with someone for three years where I could not count all the people she had issues with on two hands. She was always complaining about drama with someone. She spoke ill of a lot of women who got more attention than her. She was very jealous and competitive of anyone who got praise or who had a quality that made her feel inferior. She would also scream super loud whenever someone supposedly “scared” her. She needed attention constantly.
She was what I would call a “nice girl.” She was a people pleaser. One of those workers who works insanely quick and then complains when they give her a lot of tasks. A lot of people liked her, but her tendency to speak negatively of others started to rub me the wrong way. She had a victim complex.
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Driving a lifted American truck
Three groupies lounging around a celebrity hoping he pick them..
The pick me girl.
People who degrade strangers
Constantly needing validation or putting others down to feel better usually says it all
Not taking compliments
Putting others down to feel better about themselves
Envious people who feel the need to put others down
Lip injections
calling someone triggered
I usually whisper it, rather than screaming.
Cheating.
Oversharing every small achievement online like it’s a Nobel Prize.
Apologizing too much.
I have some ideas on this, but… well, they aren’t any good, really. I don’t want to waste your time. None of my ideas are any good, anyway.
You’re not mad at me, are you?
Asking for your opinion on everything because they are afraid to think for themselves
Frequent apologizing (guilty)
Road rage.
Gossiping
Spending my life on reddit
The offspring
Me. Daily. Right through my bedroom window as soon as I wake up each morning.
Using ALL CAPS in your Truth Social posts…
Internet warriors
Asking 10 times a day if he was “the hottest guy I ever dated”. Gosh I wish I had been honest and said no 😆
Being a bully
Asking Reddit what screams “I have low self esteem?”
Going after unavailable people and allowing them to make you a side piece instead of an actual partner
Voicing your negative self talk out loud. I notice when people call themselves idiots over minor mistakes.
Being a watchdog to your selfie’s views and likes. Nobody upvote this, I so don’t care.
Anything that makes you seem smaller. Hiding behind a podium, putting ur hands in ur pockets while talking or crossing ur hands.
What do you mean? Why are you asking? Has anyone said something about me? Is it because I gained weight?
A cyber truck
Not accepting defeat gracefully
Can’t feel genuinely happy for others, not even friends. Been there.
Me on the roof at 4 in the morning with a few empty bottles of mead and/or whiskey.
Avoiding people
Cybertruck
When they always wear hoodies/baggy shirts.
One of my friends does this, even on the hottest days in the aussie summer. I’ve spoken to him a few times to say, “dude, we dont care how you look.” But he keeps the jumper on
Obvious attempts at conformity/fitting in.
always worried about what people think
Letting everybody know that you are an alpha male.
Me in my therapist’s office
Big trucks
Lip filler 👄
When guys intentionally put themselves down even when you’re trying to flirt with you. Confidence is attractive, insecurity is a turn-off.
stay in a relationship,where your partner cheated:(
and modifictions…
Extreme jealousy
Extra loud Harley Davidson motorcycles.
Always belittling and putting down others to make themselves look good.
Always belittling and putting down others to make themselves look good.
All those “big declarations” on social media. Like “this year is all about me” and then in a few weeks, they’re back to the same mess. posting daily “positive vibes only” quotes and fighting with strangers in the comments. “Cutting off people and “if you don’t hear from me, I’m protecting my peace” when nobody was even trying to reach them. Sad little quotes about “some people don’t deserve your energy,” then a bunch of selfies right after. “Nobody believed in me but me” after two weeks at the gym. “Normalize not needing anyone” right after leaving another toxic relationship for the 10th time. Announcing a big “social media break” and being back in two days. Then bragging about “healing in private” while posting updates every hour. The louder they scream about self-love, the clearer it is they don’t have any.
Letting the opinions of others shape how you act/present yourself to the point where you aren’t yourself anymore. It’s normal to change your behaviour/presentation around certain people (for example I won’t swear around my extended family or at work because it’s disrespectful towards them), but I won’t change the base aspects of my personality/behaviour because that’s disrespectful to myself.
Getting hung up on IQ, thought process, or how much smarter you think you are than others
People pleasing
When you apologize for existing before even saying hello.
Trying to one up everyone
wanting to kms *shrugs*
Dating someone half your age
Toxicity: putting others down to make themselves superior, this runs rampant in my country at all levels sadly
Trying to put someone down to make your self seem like the better person
Bullying
This probably sounds bad to say, but having multiple sex partners in a short period of time.
Calling pollsters criminals because you didn’t like hearing that you are unpopular.
Me in front of a mirror lol
Following Andrew Tate
Lack of self care. If you love yourself you are more likely to dress nicely, smell nicely, look out for health issues, keep your body in shape or just appeal to your natural strenghts. And not in a way to impress others, but to express oneself, because you love you and want more of that. On the other hand, if you have low self-esteem you are more likely to skip on all that, just because “I look stupid”, “I don’t deserve that”, “I don’t want attention”, “My health is not that important right now”, “Why bother” or just drow in self pity and neglect for you apperance and health without even being aware of it.
And yeah, sometimes you look at a person and can tell that they don’t love themselves just because of their little to no appearance. And it’s not about extraverts VS introverts.
Complaining a lot. I know because that’s what I do.
Most, if not their entire existence, is about making others they deem lesser feel bad about their own existence because it’s easier to do that than face the mess that they are.
Making fun of people who dare to be themselves.
Saying sorry about everything. I’m working on this one 😅
What’s the point of talking about it, people don’t listen to me anyway
Apologetically toned sentence after providing any opinion of theirs.
Do you think this is good enough?
do i even deserve to be here?
I don’t feel confident enough to even comment on this sub. Imagine the rest…
Bullies
It’s all my fault, I hate my self, Please dont touch me
Blaming immigrants for all your personal problems.
Saying thank you , sorry a lot
Surrounding yourself with people who don’t treat you kindly.
They always seem to have issues with someone. They are always complaining about someone in their life.
I worked with someone for three years where I could not count all the people she had issues with on two hands. She was always complaining about drama with someone. She spoke ill of a lot of women who got more attention than her. She was very jealous and competitive of anyone who got praise or who had a quality that made her feel inferior. She would also scream super loud whenever someone supposedly “scared” her. She needed attention constantly.
She was what I would call a “nice girl.” She was a people pleaser. One of those workers who works insanely quick and then complains when they give her a lot of tasks. A lot of people liked her, but her tendency to speak negatively of others started to rub me the wrong way. She had a victim complex.
Eyes down
Red hats
Me
Little to no eye contact.
being passive aggressive, they clearly lack the confidence to DIRECTLY communicate.
Always saying sorry, even for stuff that isn’t your fault.
Me at work getting the slightest bit of constructive feedback.
Avoiding trying new things cause you’re scared you’ll mess up
Only being able to put yourself up by putting others down.
Looking down on people who have less than you ,being mocked for having less in a class sense ,being mocked for having no job and a hobby
Overreacting to the slightest bit of criticism
Driving a big truck.
Injected lips
Being mean
me
Never setting boundaries because they’re scared people will leave.
Me after a couple glasses of wine.
Difficulty accepting compliments and saying sorry too much… or can I just say me?
Being too “try hard”
Listening to Self-Esteem