My father rarely speaks to me and even he do it’s just to tell me that I’m doing this wrong i should eat this or that.
He gives me no money like he does pays for my college fees he paid for my education and that’s all his role in my life. Everything else is on my mom
And lately my mums salary is stuck so I was having so many problems. And he didn’t even gave her 5k rupees.
And I’m going to college barely on 200 rupees and can’t even ask him for anything.
I got so angry and started shouting and all he said was sell me and take the money.
And lastly small things like my shoes recently got colour all over on holi. And I was trying to remove them so mum told me that I’ll buy you shoes as soon as my salary comes. But he also knew but didn’t do anything. I was not going to buy some expensive shoes barely 2k. And between he has a govt job makes a lot + the rent.
And I’m in tier1 college i will most probably get a placement in few years. I’m doing my part as a son. I don’t understand my mistake?
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he’s paying for your school, you should be thankful
Stop complaining and being entitled. Can you clean your own shoes?. They do what they can so you can study. At least be grateful.
Not clear if you want more money from them or a relationship. Man up and stop expecting them to pay more for you if they are already paying for college. When you start working you might be bonding with your dad about the daily grind. Hopefully you don’t relapse with a quarter life crisis and say the working world is not for you. Sounds like you have it pretty good that both your parents care for you.