What surprised you the most about your first sexual experience?

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What surprised you the most about your first sexual experience?

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  1. AdorableTime8937 Avatar

    When she said her gynecologist said the hymen was still there

  2. Marler1705 Avatar

    How warm it was in there

  3. Dilauara Avatar

    I was so worried that it would hurt that when it happened and there was no pain at all it was a huge surprise.

  4. threadbarefemur Avatar

    I thought it would last longer

  5. Vast-Spring Avatar

    How nice the wetness and fluids felt

  6. Medium-Cup9590 Avatar

    The fact that I managed to get to that situation

  7. fuckitiloveu1 Avatar

    That pain. That pain I felt was very challenging. But you know, you get used to it.

  8. Cheap-Bell-4389 Avatar

    The speed with which it was over. I was such a novice 

  9. SouthernFlamingo327 Avatar

    How fast I nutted. Literally 2 strokes

  10. Auggernaut88 Avatar

    It’s lower than you think

    Lower

  11. beatease00 Avatar

    First time I had sex, I wasn’t planing to. So that was a surprise

  12. petitecrivain Avatar

    How much of it is tactile rather than visual, and how critical it is that both of us could tell the other was enjoying it.

  13. alanmitch34 Avatar

    When the door flung open and a bunch of people took a picture 

  14. Humble_Impression_31 Avatar

    I bled everywhere. So it sucked

  15. ArtisticRiskNew1212 Avatar

    Well seeing as I literally haven’t had one, I’ll talk about using a dildo for the first time.

    Tbh I was surprised how much I could stretch open, and how odd it felt lol.

  16. Jus_Caus_SC_Poet Avatar

    Beings inside someone else’s body…she crawled on top and rode me in the front seat of a blue Honda Prelude. It frightened me at the time because I didn’t know what to do. She was much older.

  17. gestalto Avatar

    How hairy my uncle’s ass was.

  18. Nukw Avatar

    The strong emotional connection, I honestly didn’t know it would be like that, that’s what suprised me the most! and also the pepper spray.

  19. Fragrant_Rich6805 Avatar

    About how nervous i was and how fast i got turned on lol!

  20. Victoria_ki639 Avatar

    That it didnt fit actually. He tried to literally squueze it in me, but it still didn’t fit. After some minutes and some position adjustments (doggy) it finally fit.

  21. wakeupgucci666 Avatar

    That it would be a 4some

  22. NazzerDawk Avatar

    Both how LOW it was, and how much harder it would actually be to cum. I know this isn’t everyone’s experience, but for me it was just too exciting and I was super nervous so it just… wan’t happening. If I recall I didn’t actually end up cumming the first time at all. Next times were easier.

  23. barbackmtn Avatar

    This. Is. Nothing. Like. Pie.

  24. Rescue2024 Avatar

    How different it was from self-pleasure.

  25. Bhoklagemapreetykhau Avatar

    First time I never came. Never felt a thing. Did not bleed either
    I thought I was bad at aex lol

  26. localstreetcat Avatar

    The smell. It’s not always a bad thing, but it did catch me off guard. Sex has a certain odor to it that I didn’t expect. If only porn had smell-o-vision.

  27. UpbeatKumquat Avatar

    That she said yes

  28. jonman818 Avatar

    A virgin vagina is very tight

  29. imroberto1992 Avatar

    How warm it is inside

  30. animalcub45 Avatar

    Extremely hard to penetrate

  31. Parish87 Avatar

    That I didn’t cum at all. I was expecting it to be over in 30 seconds but instead it just went on and on and we called it a day. I think it took me until like my 3rd time for me to finish, and that was like 30 seconds lol.

  32. aericosuu Avatar

    Getting my tits sucked feels so good. I can cum just because someone play with it lol

  33. only_dick_ratings Avatar

    I hooked up with another girl who was a friend while we were being horny teens at a sleepover, so my thoughts were “Wow I did not see my first time happening with another girl but this is fun and girls are so soft and she smells like chlorine and soap”

  34. Olfahrtur Avatar
  35. AgonistPhD Avatar

    How unintuitive it was.

  36. Chaos_HonchKrow Avatar

    How nervous we both were before and how romantic it actually felt during and afterwards. I really do hope people’s first time was as pleasant as mine was.

  37. 5ftglizzy69420 Avatar

    How I thought I finished but it was just precum

  38. Catnivo Avatar

    The guy being hard before we even did anything.

  39. Zelda1500 Avatar

    The blissful shock of how warm, almost hot, and enveloping the feeling is. Still pretty in awe of that to this day

  40. EpicureanRevenant Avatar

    How shit it feels with a condom.

    Tried abstaining from porn/jerking off. Still couldn’t feel anything. Turns out that for some men condoms just make sex not worth doing at all.

    (This isn’t advice to not use condoms. You do not want an STD or an unplanned pregnancy. Only have unprotected sex if you trust each other, have taken an STD test and are using another form of birth control/are trying for a baby.)

  41. Lexail Avatar

    How little it hurt.

  42. harmless_gecko Avatar

    How much the taxes would cut into the paycheck

  43. Ghost_5288 Avatar

    That I let it happen lol

  44. mcnabcam Avatar

    I’m an uncircumcised heterosexual guy and it actually hurt a little bit. Things pulled in ways I wasn’t used to but my frenulum seemed to stretch out after the first couple times and didn’t hurt anymore. 

  45. SirOk7983 Avatar

    That it didn’t feel good and the whole time I was wondering when I should say I think im done. It was horrible. They weren’t disrespectful but I did it to just get it done

  46. firstinspace1976 Avatar

    I had built it up, in my head, as something so magnificent that it was sort of a let down. Also, it didn’t last long.

  47. FullmetalActivis Avatar

    that in seeking intimacy, I uncovered only the unbearable solitude of the self

  48. Trollselektor Avatar

    That she wanted to do it with ME!

  49. geminifragment Avatar

    I never thought that having my breasts touched and kissed would feel so amazing

  50. Fizy_Bubly Avatar

    I thought it went by quick. She told me it was an hour since we started…

  51. yeahokaysure1231 Avatar

    How fucking long it took. I had to keep taking breaks because it was painful, and he had trouble finishing probably because I was in so much pain lmao

  52. theyarnllama Avatar

    How disappointing it was. And I stayed with him for like three more years.

  53. Pretend-Character-47 Avatar

    How when i ejaculated how much I pulsed and came.

  54. SnooWords3275 Avatar

    I’ll let you know chief.

  55. Lopsided_Bank7069 Avatar

    How i didn’t really feel that different the next day. I waited awhile to have sex and thought I would feel different, but by the next day, it wasn’t that big of a deal.

  56. marcusthegladiator Avatar

    How sore my leg muscles were the next day.

  57. it4shoaintSTEVOtho Avatar

    That I actually lasted over 45 minutes( I watched the clock the entire time lol) and in fact didn’t even get to bust my first time cuz her parents came home suddenly…quite the opposite of my biggest concern at the time…premature kersplaculation 😁✌

  58. AtypicalCripple Avatar

    That I actually had it.

  59. ParticularBrush8162 Avatar

    How much I wanted to do it again. I always heard from Hollywood that sex is what men want and women do to get what they want. Not me.

  60. Substantial_Brain917 Avatar

    That shit is way lower than you expect

  61. istangr Avatar

    It didn’t feel that amazing. Took until my 3rd time with my second partner to finish. But the ego boost of not having a time limit was👌.

  62. Financial_Cake_9191 Avatar

    How amazing it feels to have a mans full body weight on top of you + how entrancing body heat is. I love being gay nbs .

  63. Silver_Ad1277 Avatar

    How much titis are soft and sensitive

  64. Independent-Log-2412 Avatar

    How fast it starts and is over. Kinda disappointing

  65. brunicus Avatar

    I thought I’d be quick, I was so in my own head it took forever.

  66. UltimateDude08 Avatar

    The fact that I couldn’t feel anything at all. Turns out the condom was too small. Also the day I learned I have a big dick.

  67. Pain-Born Avatar

    How underwhelming it was

  68. Nuancedchaos97 Avatar

    Gay bottom here.

    I figured out the hard way that sex stimulates the colon which makes you need to ermmm…. Poop 🥺🥺🥺.

    Was an embarrassing first time 😔

    Made another rookie mistake by not laying down a towel .

    Traumatic 😵‍💫

  69. monkeybites Avatar

    I didn’t have an orgasm… and I’m a guy. 17 years old, and I was so nervous. All I could think of was, “don’t get her pregnant,” which was what my mom drilled into my head for years. Oh, and the amount of blood… it was her first time, too. Blood was all over the place, completely freaked me out. That was a huge surprise!

  70. Erotic-Zorro-82 Avatar

    That I lasted more than a minute 😂 and the amazing part of it is that she told me to let her know when I was about to cum. I told her and pulled out and to my surprise she deep throated me so I could cum down her throat. Was an amazing first time experience!!!

  71. Phathed_b4itwascool Avatar

    When her sister walked in. Was not ready for that.

  72. controldekinai Avatar

    Probably my girlfriends mom walking through the door.

  73. IcyTrapezium Avatar

    It didn’t hurt. Girls are told it will hurt but that’s just lack of arousal usually I think. It felt a bit uncomfortable for a few seconds but it wasn’t painful.

  74. Tasty-Willingness839 Avatar

    It was actually good lol.

  75. Terminal-lance89 Avatar

    I couldn’t keep it up after a couple minutes. The pressure and stress of being like a pornstar, just made it deflate. But after a few months it was fine. Been together since high school in 07 going on 18 years together now.

  76. AshlynThorne Avatar

    How underwhelming it was.😂

  77. ItchyOuchMouse Avatar

    How fast I asked myself “Is it over yet?”