Me (F37) on honeymoon with husband (M40) . Having sex gave him a blow and he giving me head he came, i didn’t, asked him to finish me off.
Was giving instructions re where to go re hands his response ” your being a bit demanding ” . Been together 9.5 years he always comes, I don’t, after he comes he usually doesn’t do anything to make sure I’m satisfied, he sometimes laughs it off with set it to vibrate and finish yourself off … What can I do to make our sex life better ? He also hardly ever wants to. I just can’t believe we are on our honeymoon and this is what he says instead of wanting to please me for once …
TL;DR terrible honeymoon sex husband’s says I’m being demanding
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You’ve been with him for nearly a decade, and this has been your sex life all along, and you married him anyway, and now he’s behaving as he always has, but now you’re surprised/vexed/upset about it?
Why did you marry him in the first place, if he’s spent the last nearly-a-decade being inconsiderate of you?
I would be equally as upset, having a spouse dismiss anything you show an indication of importance to you is disheartening. The best thing I could suggest is having that dreaded conversation, if you have been together for that long and he genuinely cares and loves you he’ll talk with you. Compromise cannot always go one way!
that rough…. in my bedroom time, my boyfriend does some stuff with the vibrator and sometimes with himself, this guy needs a tough convo on how to please sexually. it makes the bedroom time much more fun for both parties if there is satisfaction on both ends. nothing ever wrong with toys, but it’s more fun when he helps with it. if he doesnt understand that then tell him you wont satisfy him until hes ready to listen and understand what you want.