What to wear!

Location: Conservative town, Tx. Democratic judge.

I (31F) am being litigated to death by my abusive ex-husband. He’s seeking to take our children, whom I have been their primary caretaker since birth. No daycare- babysitters, etc.

I’m wondering what I should wear to court. I’ve heard that I should try to appear more feminine, others say to stick to basic black, navy etc.

Does this actually matter?