cus he was manipulating me, betrayed my trust, lack of effort and when I finally had the courage to end the relationship, he threatened me that he’ll kill himself
Betrayal and humiliation
He wasn’t openly gay and was constantly belittling me to his friends
But when he cheated on me, I activated my self-love, said I wanted to break up and called his mother and told her I wasn’t just a friend.
Coming out to his family… Asshole of me? Maybe but I was angry and wanted revenge
She wanted something I was uncomfortable with on many levels: She wanted me to organize a gang bang for her birthday where I would be forced to watch as the other guys all took turns with her. I’ll say it again; She wanted me to watch her get gang banged by a bunch of random guys… AS A BIRTHDAY GIFT.
I said “Hell no i’m not into that” and we broke up on the spot after she got heated and insulted me in every way she could think of and I had to almost throw her out of my house to end the argument.
Last week, I discovered that my year-long boyfriend had been cheating on me. It turned out that he had been dating another woman for three years. She is his fiancée, four months pregnant with his child, and a stepmother of four kids. This man had been cheating on me since DAY 1
You have about 27 screenshots of him with Tinder, Feeld notifications In his notifications bar, and he denies it but yells at you for making shit up. And then says you never cared. When you’re crying your face off cus you spent the day with his parents, helping around their house, doing dishes, laundry, dog care, etc ,trash night, and then get used, lied to an bitched at for being the problem. I just can’t win.
We were having a great weekend, I was really happy with the relationship. She had gotten a kitten, and we were talking about how much work it had been. I said something like, “I’m glad I didn’t get one because I wouldn’t want that much responsibility.” This, somehow, was proof to her that I never wanted kids.
She started to cry and told me how if I wasn’t 100% sure that we’d have kids soon, then we have to break up. In fact, she said, we’d have to break up “right now” because she dated too many men who lied about wanting kids.
We’d been dating for 4 months and we were headed in the right direction of marriage and kids. But I couldn’t stay in the relationship after this. This was the third time she had done the same thing and every time I was less sure she was emotionally stable enough for motherhood.
Financial reasons, I was pretty much supporting the both of us and he was reluctant to spend a penny. I am a generous person and like to look after the people I love and he was very selfish
We were just going down different paths that we couldn’t go down together…….she wanted to start her family with me, and I wouldn’t be able to give her that. Plus the significant age difference between us and where we were in our lives. We split amicably and still keep in touch every once in a while.
He threatened to send our intimate pictures to my brother when I tried to break up with him because I caught him jerking off on a video call with a random girl.
Ex missus tried to baby trap me, i found multiple pregnancy tests throughout my house, luckily I was born unable to have kids.
Needless to say she was shown the door.
He beat me ferociously to a pulp, splitting my head open and smashing my phone so I could not call for help. I drove myself to the hospital and he was gone when I came back home. Cleaned out the house of what little belongings he had and moved back in with his ex girlfriend and I never ever heard from him again, thank goodness.
They told me that I’ve changed their life in so many ways but we’re different people now, but I’m pretty sure they were cheating on me with the coach of the rugby team we both played for and now eight months later, they’re engaged to him.
Honestly, I think the relationship was over well before they left me. I’d spent the last six months considering leaving them but as I lived with them, and my stuff was all over the house, I didn’t know how I’d move out so I felt stuck and kept putting it off. The relationship was hell, and my anxiety and nervous system are still trying to recover from it all.
I was naive and developed a reliance on them almost immediately. Couldn’t tell what I really wanted, and as a result hurt their feelings, and lost their trust.
Drinking, She wouldn’t even admit there was a problem. She’d got to the point where our mortgage was less than her drink spending. I asked for a divorce in 2016, we separated in 2017 and after an acrimonious three years I got the divorce. That was in 2019. She died in 2023 of liver failure. I’ve been trying to sort out the mess she left behind ever since, as she hadn’t made a new will and had re-mortgaged the former family home with her new boyfriend. Still trying to sell the house and settle the estate for my two sons (her beneficiaries).
The whole mess just makes me sad, as she wasted what we had and never got to see her granddaughter (now 10 months old).
She changed from the person I wanted to marry. She started treating me like a friend and refused to answer anything she didn’t want to answer. It was not about serious things either. She just changed topics and didn’t acknowledge what I said. I was very confused and eventually realized this was who she was now and I ended things. I need good communicators for friends AND beyond as a minimum for us to work.
She was an absolute fucking narcissistic psychopath who was stringing like 6 guys along because she wanted different things from each one. The worst part is that she introduced some of us to eachother as her friends. I was the only one who ever found it, and none of the other guys believed me when I tried to tell them.
I went into the relationship with honesty while she went into the relationship with a mask and lies. We’ve been together for almost two years and it was like three months after our ended when I’ve found out that cheated very early on and a few times after that. She was that good at looking genuine. But three months after we’ve moved in together, looking back, it was probably starting to grind down on her and she started monkey branching onto the next poor SOB
He had way too many problems so he couldnt meet my needs for more quality time. Basically, he wasnt in a position to start a relationship at this point in time. I hope that when his circumstances change in a few years, we‘ll get a second chance because it definitely didnt end because of a lack of love on either end.
I cooked for us and then we went out on a Timmies date (Tim Hortons, coffee shop) and spent most of the day together. We were sitting in her van at like 2 in the morning, and she hit me with, ‘I thought I could handle the poverty you live with but I can’t.’ We had been together for almost a year.
never showed me much romantic love which is ironic because she asked me out first, so eventually i became anxious and felt led on, begged her to show me love and she said she was overwhelmed and not ready for a relationship which i painfully accepted , but cmon now.
She cheated on me multiple times so I left her ass when she was in the psyche ward. It was a stupid marriage to begin with and should never have happened.
She left me for her best friend. He has a 100% fatal genetic terminal illness and I know as soon as he gets bad enough and/or doesn’t feel like life is worth living, his plan is to commit suicide, his illness has a 1000% increase in suicide rate. I can’t even be angry.
Within a few months, she ghosted. It took years to stop hurting.
He was a misogynist and I was too naive to see it. He was clever enough to do mental gymnastics and take me along for the ride. On reflection, I think he got a real kick out of making me feel bad about myself.
I found out he was sleeping with another girl, and that ended it finally. It was a mess of a relationship I feel a lot of shame over. I’m still trying to forgive myself for having been so desperate for validation and acceptance. I was looking for it in the wrong place completely.
We made clear plans via text to meet up at a bar the next day with two other friends, we did, and then he got mad at me afterwards because I hadn’t texted to reconfirm again so he had assumed I wasn’t coming.
He cheated and he was angry. I constantly walked on eggshells. The craziest part is that I thought I finally found someone worth the bullshit before the other shoe dropped (before I found out he was a vindictive cheater), lmao. Never again
Her parents didn’t approve because I’m a foreigner, we kept going despite that and had a stable LDR. But then COVID came and it became too much.
Last I heard, she was engaged but her parents intervened again and stopped the engagement. She reached out to me to apologise, but I felt more bad for her as she has to keep compromising to her controlling parents.
I’m in a much happier place now, and I wish she can be happy too.
It was a situation ship and I upon leaving said geographic situation, realised that with enough alcohol and proximity, I was capable of convincing myself that I was in love with anyone with a pulse.
I think he’s okay now. He hit on my replacement but she rejected him.
A lot ultimately ended it and we weren’t on great standing towards the end. She had her issues and I have mine, I miss her and I wish there was something I could do. I wish I could have done more to show her how much I love her and how all I wanted was to be treated well and I know that is all she wanted too. I wish I could have just let things go one more time and then maybe I wouldn’t be here and maybe I wouldn’t be feeling this way. It wasn’t even the biggest fight we had, it was just done.
She just ended it one night, it’s been 4 weeks, more booze and drugs than I care to admit and a few nights where I didn’t think I was going to wake up.
I wanted to marry this woman and now I have a space in my life that I can’t fill and a hole in my head that won’t go away. I miss her man. Fuck.
I’m a girl, my husband and I broke up when I found a correspondence with a man on his phone, it turns out he’s fucking him, and they even record videos together, I thought I was fucking him well, but after what I saw I realized I couldn’t do it…
We were long distance and he wanted to stay in his own country. Also, he hated meeting my family and refused to meet my friends because he was going to marry just me, not the rest of my family/social groups.
Oh yeah, he also had an alcohol dependency and last year he got physically violent with me. I can’t believe it still took 6 months later for me to break it off.
Just grew apart, lost big part of the intimacy and neither of us was in a good stage in life. A little rough breakup, but she wrote me and sent condolences when my dad passed some years later, as she was close to him in the past.
Now we’re on good terms, but don’t talk, and we’re both in two happy relationships.
We were together for 4 years in a ldr and stayed apart only 9months at max. He got tired of the distance and siad it was frustrating to him. He said he didn’t wanna try and that he still loved me but he was just done with the distance.
No matter what side i think from i kind of do understand him but also i really don’t because there were just so many ways to try and i was willing to wait and be with him till he worked through this. But he chose not to . So here we are broken up.
I flew to uk from Australia to be with him he couldn’t even pick me up from the airport I traveled and spent so much money to be with him he couldn’t even give me the bare minimum, stole money off me was emotionally and physically abusive spent majority of my time with him at the pub 🙃
He was hiding me from his family… I finally had enough and told him to get lost. Thankfully I did that when I did because 2 weeks later I met the love of my life
the first time was because his grades were dropping and i felt like it was my fault so i ended it with him also i was jealous of his gbfs (4 of them) they were all classmates and he just wont distance himself atleast a little . the second time,we were good. but it was his sisters this time they were always making my life harder in school,calling me weak at my sport even though jve won medals (gold).they would always find reasons to annoy me and stuff like walking in the hall way they would push me and stuff. i told my bf, he didnt stop them. in the end i broke up with him and he told everyone we broke up because I LIKED HIS SISTER???? anyway glad we didn’t work out
She didn’t appreciate that I watched her sleep every night without her “KNowLEdgE” and “CoNSenT”. Like, I was just trying to be a good boyfriend and make sure she got her usual 8.26 hours of sleep 🙄🙄.
I was too “friendly” when I’m just being professional around with my colleagues. But the most hurtful one was, I was too mentally fucked up that she gave it up immediately.
Really fix yourself first totally before going into relationship.
So my last relationship ended because that person got too comfortable because of an environment that I actually created, and was an active participant in my own demise and/or the destruction of the past relationship, but I am now engaged and with child With an amazing man who showed me what it is to be loved in the manner which I loved everyone prior to him. I am grateful that he had the persistence to tell me that he was never gonna give up until every single wall came down so there are happy endings. There’s just a lot of bullshit you have to endure, accept and walk through to get there. You have to go through in order to get to that point . So don’t give up on yourself because when you do, you stop living and at that point you’re only surviving.
He got a job where he would spend several weeks every year abroad and lots of time in other parts of the UK away from home. I didn’t want to be in a relationship with someone who would be at home for 1 week every month
Ex wife cheated on me. Treated me like a bum for not having a job for 3 days. Meanwhile, she was blowing all our money, other dudes, and somehow it was my fault.
I know I had my occurences where I wasnt the best husband. But she expected me to read her mind. Pull her out of a depression, and whatnot. With no communication about it.
my ex wasn’t honest with me and started to be able to hangout less and less. finally caught him cheating on me with his ex at the gym. that one burned for a while. when i called him out he said it wasn’t what it looked like but i am not stupid. it escalated into a fight, and him ending it with i was never a girl he would want to take going into college. we ended breaking up shortly after and found out he was sleeping with his ex multiple times while we were together.
Buddy of mine shit talked me behind my back to my girlfriend and she believed him, said I “harassed him and was abusive to his friend group” despite me having only spoken to him maybe 2 times in total at the time
I got dragged to her hometown for Easter, only because I wanted us to finally be Facebook official (she was my first gf so big deal) but I had to meet her parents first… 7 hours away. Day 2, I fall off a swingset and suffer a small fracture in my lower back. Easily the most painful experience of my entire life. I honestly wouldn’t wish it on my father’s killer… well maybe I would lol. Anyways the doctors doped me up on painkillers. And that night I acted a bit too odd to her brother. Her mom and dad didn’t mind or care, nor did he really. Tbh I don’t really remember what I did. But it was enough for her to break up with me a day after we got back from the trip. 2 years later and still got chronic pain. But I got a great gf now. And I was really close to landing on my neck, so it could’ve been wayyyyyy worse lol
He said his anxiety was at an all time high from starting a new job. And he was angry all the time, and didn’t want that around me. And that he needed a break. He has since been showing up at the same bar I go to, on the only day I can go, and ignores me the whole time. Acting like I was never part of his life. This last time he actually had the nerve to talk to me as he was leaving. All he said was ‘its good to see you again.’
You don’t tell someone you love them, then dump them a week later. Only to show up around them and act like they were never a part of your life.
Mates gf going off her head at HIS house (let’s get this straight she doesn’t live there).
Loses her shit and throws a saucepan of boiling water and pasta at him off the stove.
Missed barely.
Followed by a trade of abuse and assault.
His response was to withdraw to his bedroom, push a wardrobe in front of the door and call the police.
Police show up, there’s a scratch on her chest from god knows where, and next minute he’s being removed from his own home, by the police he called, because he was being attacked by a psycho.
He was then released and told he could not return to his home for 48hrs as she was still there and has nowhere to go.
Police called her family members and they all outright refused to take her in because of her violence and abuse (so what’s that tell you?)
Not only did she get away without any accountability, but she was supported by the law, and rewarded with a 48hr stay rent free in someone else’s home for her efforts
Just finally admitting to myself that I haven’t been happy or felt like me in ages. We’re in the process of separation now, at least it’s been amicable.
She was in a bad spot mentally and it was hard to be around. She lived at home, didn’t pay bills, etc. She was just in her senior year of college. For months all I heard was how she wanted to drop out, she was falling behind (just.. not doing assignments) and that just compounded and compounded. I told her to just drop out and go back later or ride it out for a few months and be completely done with school. Her family would be supportive either way; her family was the most wholesome family I had been a part of.
Her behavior became more erratic and she told me she started having disturbing dreams, sleeping with a knife under her pillow, etc. I genuinely started to feel scared for her and kind of scared of her to be honest. I’m fine with being a source of emotional support, but what she really needed was professional counseling she wasn’t willing to get. I broke it off and regretted it. She started dating the “guy she tells you not to worry about” a few weeks later and got a psychiatrist. I still think about her sometimes; I really thought I would marry her.
I’m in a way healthier relationship now, but the first love/heartbreak really leaves less of a bruise and more of a scar. I still have her mom on my Facebook. She seems happier now and I’m glad she got herself out of whatever she was in back then.
Out of 2,5 years together he was cheating for 2 years, she was long distance so, as I did suspect something, I thought I was just paranoid.
We broke up after he gave me an std.
A week later I found out I was pregnant, but it was an ectopic pregnancy, so I ended up on emergency surgery.
I informed him about everything, he said he was very shocked about what I went through. So shocked apparently, he had to book a romantic weekend with his other girlfriend.
He was jealous. At first, it was cute,but then it got really bad.
To the point that as soon as we met, first thing he would go through my phone, cause a scene if i spoke to any male,that wasn’t my dad or my brothers.
He broke the present he got for my birthday, stepping on it because i didn’t answer the phone fast enough.
I was 17, and he was 20.
When i tried to leave him, he would destroy his mums car or threaten that he would hurt himself. Followed me everywhere. It was scary.
It took me 1 years to “get rid” of him
he constantly talked about how bad his mental health is and he didn’t change anything about it. it was always his problems, him and only him. Even when I had my graduation party, he took me aside and told me that he felt like shit. 😀
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Honestly, I dont know man, I got ghosted overnight when we were having fun laughing and stuff the night before
Various reasons that wouldn’t matter in a truly committed relationship.
cus he was manipulating me, betrayed my trust, lack of effort and when I finally had the courage to end the relationship, he threatened me that he’ll kill himself
She died.
Betrayal and humiliation
He wasn’t openly gay and was constantly belittling me to his friends
But when he cheated on me, I activated my self-love, said I wanted to break up and called his mother and told her I wasn’t just a friend.
Coming out to his family… Asshole of me? Maybe but I was angry and wanted revenge
She wanted something I was uncomfortable with on many levels: She wanted me to organize a gang bang for her birthday where I would be forced to watch as the other guys all took turns with her. I’ll say it again; She wanted me to watch her get gang banged by a bunch of random guys… AS A BIRTHDAY GIFT.
I said “Hell no i’m not into that” and we broke up on the spot after she got heated and insulted me in every way she could think of and I had to almost throw her out of my house to end the argument.
Last week, I discovered that my year-long boyfriend had been cheating on me. It turned out that he had been dating another woman for three years. She is his fiancée, four months pregnant with his child, and a stepmother of four kids. This man had been cheating on me since DAY 1
You have about 27 screenshots of him with Tinder, Feeld notifications In his notifications bar, and he denies it but yells at you for making shit up. And then says you never cared. When you’re crying your face off cus you spent the day with his parents, helping around their house, doing dishes, laundry, dog care, etc ,trash night, and then get used, lied to an bitched at for being the problem. I just can’t win.
That I hate kids and never want one
She was married…
Because I drank too much, and in the middle of sex just put my clothes on and walked out for a very stupid reason.
We were together for 7 years , caught her cheating.
Idk if i will trust anyone again this shit really traumatized me
We were having a great weekend, I was really happy with the relationship. She had gotten a kitten, and we were talking about how much work it had been. I said something like, “I’m glad I didn’t get one because I wouldn’t want that much responsibility.” This, somehow, was proof to her that I never wanted kids.
She started to cry and told me how if I wasn’t 100% sure that we’d have kids soon, then we have to break up. In fact, she said, we’d have to break up “right now” because she dated too many men who lied about wanting kids.
We’d been dating for 4 months and we were headed in the right direction of marriage and kids. But I couldn’t stay in the relationship after this. This was the third time she had done the same thing and every time I was less sure she was emotionally stable enough for motherhood.
Got ghosted, possible she thought I dumped her, and honestly I should’ve earlier.
Oh it was a big thing. We were on a break. I got drunk and slept with the girl at the Xerox place. And she broke up with me.
Financial reasons, I was pretty much supporting the both of us and he was reluctant to spend a penny. I am a generous person and like to look after the people I love and he was very selfish
She had an accident. She fell onto her coworker’s penis.
She told me she fell out of love after 17 years of marriage and had to go.
We were just going down different paths that we couldn’t go down together…….she wanted to start her family with me, and I wouldn’t be able to give her that. Plus the significant age difference between us and where we were in our lives. We split amicably and still keep in touch every once in a while.
He threatened to send our intimate pictures to my brother when I tried to break up with him because I caught him jerking off on a video call with a random girl.
She was already married
She said I wasn’t emotionally available. I said “thank you for your feedback” and never saw her again.
Ex missus tried to baby trap me, i found multiple pregnancy tests throughout my house, luckily I was born unable to have kids.
Needless to say she was shown the door.
She ended her life three months ago.
She was manglik and I was not, I was fine with it, but she wasn’t
He beat me ferociously to a pulp, splitting my head open and smashing my phone so I could not call for help. I drove myself to the hospital and he was gone when I came back home. Cleaned out the house of what little belongings he had and moved back in with his ex girlfriend and I never ever heard from him again, thank goodness.
She moved to China to teach. We were married.
2 suicide attempts, alcohol and drug dependency, depression, and BPD. Pretty much I was impossible to put up with 70% of the time.
she banged her guy bestfriend, the exact one she told me not to worry about, never again will I date a girl with a guy bestfriend.
Ive been in to many circumstances where my gut tells me there is something going on, and 100% my gut was right. No thanks.
They told me that I’ve changed their life in so many ways but we’re different people now, but I’m pretty sure they were cheating on me with the coach of the rugby team we both played for and now eight months later, they’re engaged to him.
Honestly, I think the relationship was over well before they left me. I’d spent the last six months considering leaving them but as I lived with them, and my stuff was all over the house, I didn’t know how I’d move out so I felt stuck and kept putting it off. The relationship was hell, and my anxiety and nervous system are still trying to recover from it all.
I was scared for my life.
I was naive and developed a reliance on them almost immediately. Couldn’t tell what I really wanted, and as a result hurt their feelings, and lost their trust.
We were on a break!
I’m not saying which one of us did a Ross ( it was her)
We had different goals in life. We’re still friends.
Drinking, She wouldn’t even admit there was a problem. She’d got to the point where our mortgage was less than her drink spending. I asked for a divorce in 2016, we separated in 2017 and after an acrimonious three years I got the divorce. That was in 2019. She died in 2023 of liver failure. I’ve been trying to sort out the mess she left behind ever since, as she hadn’t made a new will and had re-mortgaged the former family home with her new boyfriend. Still trying to sell the house and settle the estate for my two sons (her beneficiaries).
The whole mess just makes me sad, as she wasted what we had and never got to see her granddaughter (now 10 months old).
He died at only 25 due to his epilepsy we had been fighting for years to be taken seriously.
He had a severe drinking problem and got violent whenever drunk
No stimulus anymore,mentally and physically
It got too real and i didnt know what a fearful avoidant attachment style was.
She changed from the person I wanted to marry. She started treating me like a friend and refused to answer anything she didn’t want to answer. It was not about serious things either. She just changed topics and didn’t acknowledge what I said. I was very confused and eventually realized this was who she was now and I ended things. I need good communicators for friends AND beyond as a minimum for us to work.
I knew I was bad for her and that I could never give her the life she deserved so I left. I could never tell her that but I wish I could have.
Verbal abuse
My wife of 42 years died!
He paid very little attention to me.it got to the point where it just didn’t feel like a relationship
She was an absolute fucking narcissistic psychopath who was stringing like 6 guys along because she wanted different things from each one. The worst part is that she introduced some of us to eachother as her friends. I was the only one who ever found it, and none of the other guys believed me when I tried to tell them.
She said she couldn’t imagine living in a house with my puppy, which was 1.5 years old at that time, a teenager. So i broke up with her.
Nobody who knows my dog is able to understand it.
Covid killed her.
i refused to date someone i knew i wouldn’t last long term with
She pulled out a .357 and pointed it at me. It was at that point that I told her to pack her stuff and never come back
I went into the relationship with honesty while she went into the relationship with a mask and lies. We’ve been together for almost two years and it was like three months after our ended when I’ve found out that cheated very early on and a few times after that. She was that good at looking genuine. But three months after we’ve moved in together, looking back, it was probably starting to grind down on her and she started monkey branching onto the next poor SOB
Distance, jealousy and the fact she met someone else despite always accusing me of wanting to meet someone new.
“he cheated on me, when i specifically asked him not to” 😎😎
She had a tendency to put things in her vagina that i didnt want there.
Like her friends dicks.
He did not show up to my family member’s funeral.
He had way too many problems so he couldnt meet my needs for more quality time. Basically, he wasnt in a position to start a relationship at this point in time. I hope that when his circumstances change in a few years, we‘ll get a second chance because it definitely didnt end because of a lack of love on either end.
I had a manic panic over whether or not I was being cheated on. I learned a lot about myself that I was unaware of. Still processing, but hopeful.
She’s been cheating with a girl for the last 2 years
I was throwing up and he just watched football on his phone and ignored me while I cried
I’m poor.
I cooked for us and then we went out on a Timmies date (Tim Hortons, coffee shop) and spent most of the day together. We were sitting in her van at like 2 in the morning, and she hit me with, ‘I thought I could handle the poverty you live with but I can’t.’ We had been together for almost a year.
That was… that.
never showed me much romantic love which is ironic because she asked me out first, so eventually i became anxious and felt led on, begged her to show me love and she said she was overwhelmed and not ready for a relationship which i painfully accepted , but cmon now.
She cheated on me multiple times so I left her ass when she was in the psyche ward. It was a stupid marriage to begin with and should never have happened.
She cheated on her ex-boyfriend with me, then cheated on me with someone else. Should have known.
She cheated on me
She left me for her best friend. He has a 100% fatal genetic terminal illness and I know as soon as he gets bad enough and/or doesn’t feel like life is worth living, his plan is to commit suicide, his illness has a 1000% increase in suicide rate. I can’t even be angry.
Within a few months, she ghosted. It took years to stop hurting.
I eventually realised that all she wanted was my money and not me. Shit hurts bro
He was a misogynist and I was too naive to see it. He was clever enough to do mental gymnastics and take me along for the ride. On reflection, I think he got a real kick out of making me feel bad about myself.
I found out he was sleeping with another girl, and that ended it finally. It was a mess of a relationship I feel a lot of shame over. I’m still trying to forgive myself for having been so desperate for validation and acceptance. I was looking for it in the wrong place completely.
Distance
I insulted her, her mother, her friend and her ex-boyfriend
She was racist
We made clear plans via text to meet up at a bar the next day with two other friends, we did, and then he got mad at me afterwards because I hadn’t texted to reconfirm again so he had assumed I wasn’t coming.
He was physically abusive and had anger issues and aggression he was mentally not stable
He cheated and he was angry. I constantly walked on eggshells. The craziest part is that I thought I finally found someone worth the bullshit before the other shoe dropped (before I found out he was a vindictive cheater), lmao. Never again
Her parents didn’t approve because I’m a foreigner, we kept going despite that and had a stable LDR. But then COVID came and it became too much.
Last I heard, she was engaged but her parents intervened again and stopped the engagement. She reached out to me to apologise, but I felt more bad for her as she has to keep compromising to her controlling parents.
I’m in a much happier place now, and I wish she can be happy too.
her past
It was a situation ship and I upon leaving said geographic situation, realised that with enough alcohol and proximity, I was capable of convincing myself that I was in love with anyone with a pulse.
I think he’s okay now. He hit on my replacement but she rejected him.
A lot ultimately ended it and we weren’t on great standing towards the end. She had her issues and I have mine, I miss her and I wish there was something I could do. I wish I could have done more to show her how much I love her and how all I wanted was to be treated well and I know that is all she wanted too. I wish I could have just let things go one more time and then maybe I wouldn’t be here and maybe I wouldn’t be feeling this way. It wasn’t even the biggest fight we had, it was just done.
She just ended it one night, it’s been 4 weeks, more booze and drugs than I care to admit and a few nights where I didn’t think I was going to wake up.
I wanted to marry this woman and now I have a space in my life that I can’t fill and a hole in my head that won’t go away. I miss her man. Fuck.
Had sex the night before and morning after. She told me she’d had a great time and was really glad I spent the day with her.
4 hours later “I don’t think we’re compatible”
People wonder why relationship anxiety is a thing….
I’m a girl, my husband and I broke up when I found a correspondence with a man on his phone, it turns out he’s fucking him, and they even record videos together, I thought I was fucking him well, but after what I saw I realized I couldn’t do it…
Because we didn’t have the same sex drive , I wanted to have sex at least 3 times a week, but she only wanted to do it once a month.
We had the talk, and we agreed to do it frequently, but every time I could tell she wasn’t into it, she just gave in.
We had to break up, ’cause I felt too guilty.
In Retrospect, I’m glad it ended there. If I married her, we would have likely lived a sexless marriage.
It was 10 years ago, I can’t remember exactly who the previous one was.
We were long distance and he wanted to stay in his own country. Also, he hated meeting my family and refused to meet my friends because he was going to marry just me, not the rest of my family/social groups.
Oh yeah, he also had an alcohol dependency and last year he got physically violent with me. I can’t believe it still took 6 months later for me to break it off.
i honestly still have no idea
I don’t even know
Just grew apart, lost big part of the intimacy and neither of us was in a good stage in life. A little rough breakup, but she wrote me and sent condolences when my dad passed some years later, as she was close to him in the past.
Now we’re on good terms, but don’t talk, and we’re both in two happy relationships.
We were together for 4 years in a ldr and stayed apart only 9months at max. He got tired of the distance and siad it was frustrating to him. He said he didn’t wanna try and that he still loved me but he was just done with the distance.
No matter what side i think from i kind of do understand him but also i really don’t because there were just so many ways to try and i was willing to wait and be with him till he worked through this. But he chose not to . So here we are broken up.
She died.
I flew to uk from Australia to be with him he couldn’t even pick me up from the airport I traveled and spent so much money to be with him he couldn’t even give me the bare minimum, stole money off me was emotionally and physically abusive spent majority of my time with him at the pub 🙃
we had absolutely nothing in common and the relationship was just super mundane
She wanted to have kids.
No common goals. We grew apart over the years, headed in opposite directions.
She cheated. It all worked out in the end, because a couple years later, I met the woman who I would marry.
He was hiding me from his family… I finally had enough and told him to get lost. Thankfully I did that when I did because 2 weeks later I met the love of my life
the first time was because his grades were dropping and i felt like it was my fault so i ended it with him also i was jealous of his gbfs (4 of them) they were all classmates and he just wont distance himself atleast a little . the second time,we were good. but it was his sisters this time they were always making my life harder in school,calling me weak at my sport even though jve won medals (gold).they would always find reasons to annoy me and stuff like walking in the hall way they would push me and stuff. i told my bf, he didnt stop them. in the end i broke up with him and he told everyone we broke up because I LIKED HIS SISTER???? anyway glad we didn’t work out
She didn’t appreciate that I watched her sleep every night without her “KNowLEdgE” and “CoNSenT”. Like, I was just trying to be a good boyfriend and make sure she got her usual 8.26 hours of sleep 🙄🙄.
I was too “friendly” when I’m just being professional around with my colleagues. But the most hurtful one was, I was too mentally fucked up that she gave it up immediately.
Really fix yourself first totally before going into relationship.
So my last relationship ended because that person got too comfortable because of an environment that I actually created, and was an active participant in my own demise and/or the destruction of the past relationship, but I am now engaged and with child With an amazing man who showed me what it is to be loved in the manner which I loved everyone prior to him. I am grateful that he had the persistence to tell me that he was never gonna give up until every single wall came down so there are happy endings. There’s just a lot of bullshit you have to endure, accept and walk through to get there. You have to go through in order to get to that point . So don’t give up on yourself because when you do, you stop living and at that point you’re only surviving.
He got a job where he would spend several weeks every year abroad and lots of time in other parts of the UK away from home. I didn’t want to be in a relationship with someone who would be at home for 1 week every month
She smoked a shit ton of weed and I wasn’t into it. Got old sitting inside while she and her friends got beyond baked outside.
She still loved her ex, who passed away a year before we started our relationship
Ex wife cheated on me. Treated me like a bum for not having a job for 3 days. Meanwhile, she was blowing all our money, other dudes, and somehow it was my fault.
I know I had my occurences where I wasnt the best husband. But she expected me to read her mind. Pull her out of a depression, and whatnot. With no communication about it.
He wanted a trophy wife, but I valued my freedom too much
Because i was too good for him
my ex wasn’t honest with me and started to be able to hangout less and less. finally caught him cheating on me with his ex at the gym. that one burned for a while. when i called him out he said it wasn’t what it looked like but i am not stupid. it escalated into a fight, and him ending it with i was never a girl he would want to take going into college. we ended breaking up shortly after and found out he was sleeping with his ex multiple times while we were together.
We had a 7 hours difference and i was insecure about being with a guy. We ended on good terms and we are still friends
i’ve became his mistress and i cant take it anymore. also, its about money
Buddy of mine shit talked me behind my back to my girlfriend and she believed him, said I “harassed him and was abusive to his friend group” despite me having only spoken to him maybe 2 times in total at the time
Bitches be unfaithful
Me tbh
I got dragged to her hometown for Easter, only because I wanted us to finally be Facebook official (she was my first gf so big deal) but I had to meet her parents first… 7 hours away. Day 2, I fall off a swingset and suffer a small fracture in my lower back. Easily the most painful experience of my entire life. I honestly wouldn’t wish it on my father’s killer… well maybe I would lol. Anyways the doctors doped me up on painkillers. And that night I acted a bit too odd to her brother. Her mom and dad didn’t mind or care, nor did he really. Tbh I don’t really remember what I did. But it was enough for her to break up with me a day after we got back from the trip. 2 years later and still got chronic pain. But I got a great gf now. And I was really close to landing on my neck, so it could’ve been wayyyyyy worse lol
He said his anxiety was at an all time high from starting a new job. And he was angry all the time, and didn’t want that around me. And that he needed a break. He has since been showing up at the same bar I go to, on the only day I can go, and ignores me the whole time. Acting like I was never part of his life. This last time he actually had the nerve to talk to me as he was leaving. All he said was ‘its good to see you again.’
You don’t tell someone you love them, then dump them a week later. Only to show up around them and act like they were never a part of your life.
She sucked. Not literally
Me.
I’m broken and neither ready nor worth someone’s love
He fucked his best friend and I would prefer he did not do that.
Mates gf going off her head at HIS house (let’s get this straight she doesn’t live there).
Loses her shit and throws a saucepan of boiling water and pasta at him off the stove.
Missed barely.
Followed by a trade of abuse and assault.
His response was to withdraw to his bedroom, push a wardrobe in front of the door and call the police.
Police show up, there’s a scratch on her chest from god knows where, and next minute he’s being removed from his own home, by the police he called, because he was being attacked by a psycho.
He was then released and told he could not return to his home for 48hrs as she was still there and has nowhere to go.
Police called her family members and they all outright refused to take her in because of her violence and abuse (so what’s that tell you?)
Not only did she get away without any accountability, but she was supported by the law, and rewarded with a 48hr stay rent free in someone else’s home for her efforts
It hasn’t
Just finally admitting to myself that I haven’t been happy or felt like me in ages. We’re in the process of separation now, at least it’s been amicable.
She was in a bad spot mentally and it was hard to be around. She lived at home, didn’t pay bills, etc. She was just in her senior year of college. For months all I heard was how she wanted to drop out, she was falling behind (just.. not doing assignments) and that just compounded and compounded. I told her to just drop out and go back later or ride it out for a few months and be completely done with school. Her family would be supportive either way; her family was the most wholesome family I had been a part of.
Her behavior became more erratic and she told me she started having disturbing dreams, sleeping with a knife under her pillow, etc. I genuinely started to feel scared for her and kind of scared of her to be honest. I’m fine with being a source of emotional support, but what she really needed was professional counseling she wasn’t willing to get. I broke it off and regretted it. She started dating the “guy she tells you not to worry about” a few weeks later and got a psychiatrist. I still think about her sometimes; I really thought I would marry her.
I’m in a way healthier relationship now, but the first love/heartbreak really leaves less of a bruise and more of a scar. I still have her mom on my Facebook. She seems happier now and I’m glad she got herself out of whatever she was in back then.
Out of 2,5 years together he was cheating for 2 years, she was long distance so, as I did suspect something, I thought I was just paranoid.
We broke up after he gave me an std.
A week later I found out I was pregnant, but it was an ectopic pregnancy, so I ended up on emergency surgery.
I informed him about everything, he said he was very shocked about what I went through. So shocked apparently, he had to book a romantic weekend with his other girlfriend.
I was shagging her daughter
We didn’t love each other.
He was jealous. At first, it was cute,but then it got really bad.
To the point that as soon as we met, first thing he would go through my phone, cause a scene if i spoke to any male,that wasn’t my dad or my brothers.
He broke the present he got for my birthday, stepping on it because i didn’t answer the phone fast enough.
I was 17, and he was 20.
When i tried to leave him, he would destroy his mums car or threaten that he would hurt himself. Followed me everywhere. It was scary.
It took me 1 years to “get rid” of him
We were LDR, and he wasn’t sure if he could handle LDRs.
She cheated on me, her reason ” you love me too much” and if anyone is wondering i don’t know what that means.
✨ growth ✨
he constantly talked about how bad his mental health is and he didn’t change anything about it. it was always his problems, him and only him. Even when I had my graduation party, he took me aside and told me that he felt like shit. 😀
turned out to be a narcissistic man-child who just collected information to overthink and cook up stories in his head.
They chose someone else/gave up/didn’t even attempt to fix the issue…
I met the woman of my life. We are now married and have two children.
She fucked around and I found out, so I ended it.
I felt overly sexualized. It was like “that’s only what you’re good for”.
She called me drunk asking what bus to take