Hopping up and down on your unit like it’s a porno. A bad porno. Moving too fast, also like in a porno. A bad porno. Also not taking direction if you clearly leaned your moves from porno. Bad porno. Basically, anyone who learned from porn and has no idea what they’re doing. Worse than a vigin.
1: If they cross any pre established boundaries, keep doing things you’ve expressed against, or try and pressure you into anything you’re not comfortable with
2: If they strongly prioritize their own pleasure, don’t check in with you periodically, or don’t listen to things you say
And/Or, 3: (in my personal experience)… they forget they’re not just fucking a blow up doll, and that maybe their partner wants a bit of passion, instead of just mindless humping😑
I enjoy it no matter what, as long as they want to do it, even if they are unenthusiastic acting during or don’t do anything, it’s still a good time.
There have been times where it was abuse towards me due to age, or I was completely forced to, I still liked it. But that may be more due to the being so young having cause my ideas on sex to just be a for pleasure thing, there isn’t really a romantic component to it at all for me nearly. I say nearly because it’s absolutely a plus, just not at all necessary. I also like the connection I feel from it, even in the absolutely least passionate I was just the guy who happened to be awake in the house, 100% in it for themselves, I liked it.
Edit: actually if I was to be having sex with someone and they end up regretting it, that would suck
My ex-wife would make sure that I knew she was just “doing it for me”. She wouldn’t make any effort to touch me, stayed flat on her back, and if I went longer than 7 minutes (the length of time that she believed was the maximum that all men should adhere to) I would have to jerk to competition and shove it in her as I came, because she didn’t want to miss the opportunity to get pregnant.
Mind you, I’ve been with dozens of women since and they have all been incredibly complementary, seem to really enjoy the sex and certainly my ability to exceed 7 minutes. I have no idea what my ex-wife’s deal was, but I’m glad I’m no longer a part of it.
She’s been through some sexual trauma, so i can’t judge harshly.
She had desire, longing, but 0 physical presence. I tried to be sensitive and romantic but be it the trauma or just lack of sexual sensibility it was like sleeping with a ghost.
When you’re pressured into it, or not wanting to then still having sex anyway because you feel guilty because it’s been a while (thank fuck I’m not with him any more)
Thrusting without stimulating the body first. Wanting partner to be more vocal when the sex doesn’t call for it. Incorporating toys without operational knowledge of how to apply it. Stopping to ask questions. Bad Sex
It happens to the best of us eventually. When you start having sex and something rubs you the wrong way and you cum 30 seconds into it. You can act like a tough guy and say this never happens to you. “ it happens to everyone especially in your in your teens. You just lay there feeling bad For your partner because you know it didn’t feel like much for them. The best part about being you but you’ll be back to normal in 10 minutes to try again.
Someone who expects me to do 100% of the work and also read their mind about what they want. And then make me feel horrible afterwards because I didn’t perform up to expectations.
I’ve only ever done it with people who made fun of me during/didn’t give me any direction/seemed disappointed they didn’t always get exactly what they wanted. I guess leaving that feeling useless and unlovable is pretty bad.
Bad sex is when it feels transactional, like you’re just checking a box instead of actually connecting with your partner.
No passion, no fun, just going through the motions.
When you know the other person is so thin skinned that you can’t share what you like as they get very insulted they aren’t considered perfect already, without them having asked anything either.
Probably Just piggybacking with the top comment and bunch of other reddit or’s experience but I was with a chick who was had very sensitive nipples. So of course I paid extra attention to them during the action, but foreplay wise I didn’t get much from it was just me pleasuring them once we did move foward from there it was like all the passion and everything left from me, I seen she didn’t want to do anything to me I could’ve even get her to go down on me when I was willing to do it for her. I’m a clean guy, and hygiene is my top priority we expressed boundaries and whatnot so we know what the other likes and wants but in the end from the three times I’ve been with her I always came up short. She got everything while all I got was a handy.
And she had the nerve to say “I think we have something special my friends are jealous of us”
Who is we? We have nothing special between us. She was just using me.
Lack of communication/ suggestions/ asking for what works for you or asking what they’re up for. Don’t try to guess. There’s nothing wrong with telling people what gets you off or asking them what they want.
they’re too tired / sleepy (I’m night person so it’s difficult to schedule with morning people)
dick owner who do not use all of their dick but left half out
There would be more, but I talk about fucking before fucking. Like dick size, how I like to touch and to be touched, fetishes, that I don’t participate multitasking, that I don’t like to hug or after care or anything like that, that I get headache for perfumes and scented soaps etc. So I don’t end up fucking with people who want to fuck completely differently or who can’t communicate about their wants.
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Someone who is so selfish they’re basically just masturbating with my body, not having sex with me
Someone that doesn’t put in any effort.
Being drilled like a pavement. It’s just uncomfortable.
No chemistry = bad sex
Starfish
Hopping up and down on your unit like it’s a porno. A bad porno. Moving too fast, also like in a porno. A bad porno. Also not taking direction if you clearly leaned your moves from porno. Bad porno. Basically, anyone who learned from porn and has no idea what they’re doing. Worse than a vigin.
No sex
Having sex with someone who’s willing but not enthusiastic.
What you’re not getting is bad
Anything where both people don’t feel better after than they did before.
Anything under 300$
When Both aren’t ” Equally Satisfied “.
Un-engaged or rough partner. Hitting or slapping when that is not desired. Scratching or hair pulling when that is not desired.
No effort, no passion or chemistry. No “vibing” whatsoever.
🥱 Yawn
When a girl just lays there and acts like a human fleshlight.
Not feeling a chemistry connection or intimacy. If you just lay there while I’m shoving it in you, I’ll just stop and tell you to leave.
No consent
1: If they cross any pre established boundaries, keep doing things you’ve expressed against, or try and pressure you into anything you’re not comfortable with
2: If they strongly prioritize their own pleasure, don’t check in with you periodically, or don’t listen to things you say
And/Or, 3: (in my personal experience)… they forget they’re not just fucking a blow up doll, and that maybe their partner wants a bit of passion, instead of just mindless humping😑
I don’t mind passive….up to a point but one partner just rag dolled (they said that’s what they liked) but it was just weird.
I enjoy it no matter what, as long as they want to do it, even if they are unenthusiastic acting during or don’t do anything, it’s still a good time.
There have been times where it was abuse towards me due to age, or I was completely forced to, I still liked it. But that may be more due to the being so young having cause my ideas on sex to just be a for pleasure thing, there isn’t really a romantic component to it at all for me nearly. I say nearly because it’s absolutely a plus, just not at all necessary. I also like the connection I feel from it, even in the absolutely least passionate I was just the guy who happened to be awake in the house, 100% in it for themselves, I liked it.
Edit: actually if I was to be having sex with someone and they end up regretting it, that would suck
Anything nonconsensual.
No laughing/having fun
No sexual tension just rough sex anything that reminds me of a porn video
I’ll be very specific here:
My ex-wife would make sure that I knew she was just “doing it for me”. She wouldn’t make any effort to touch me, stayed flat on her back, and if I went longer than 7 minutes (the length of time that she believed was the maximum that all men should adhere to) I would have to jerk to competition and shove it in her as I came, because she didn’t want to miss the opportunity to get pregnant.
Mind you, I’ve been with dozens of women since and they have all been incredibly complementary, seem to really enjoy the sex and certainly my ability to exceed 7 minutes. I have no idea what my ex-wife’s deal was, but I’m glad I’m no longer a part of it.
No effort is disappointing
My last partner.
She’s been through some sexual trauma, so i can’t judge harshly.
She had desire, longing, but 0 physical presence. I tried to be sensitive and romantic but be it the trauma or just lack of sexual sensibility it was like sleeping with a ghost.
When you’re pressured into it, or not wanting to then still having sex anyway because you feel guilty because it’s been a while (thank fuck I’m not with him any more)
pity sex
Someone who isn’t into it. They do it out of a feeling of obligation.
Thrusting without stimulating the body first. Wanting partner to be more vocal when the sex doesn’t call for it. Incorporating toys without operational knowledge of how to apply it. Stopping to ask questions. Bad Sex
No such thing. Even bad sex is good sex, because you had sex. Therefore, bad sex = good sex. In most instances, bad sex is better than no sex.
Sloshing stomach…. The worst!!!
The woman just laying there.
Any sex that doesn’t leave all parties involved happier than before they started.
Overly aggressive isn’t cool. and just a sign someone’s watched too much 🌽
No doubt about it She’s a bad bad girlfriend.
No forplay
Didn’t enjoy it with my uncle.
It happens to the best of us eventually. When you start having sex and something rubs you the wrong way and you cum 30 seconds into it. You can act like a tough guy and say this never happens to you. “ it happens to everyone especially in your in your teens. You just lay there feeling bad For your partner because you know it didn’t feel like much for them. The best part about being you but you’ll be back to normal in 10 minutes to try again.
If I don’t orgasm
Someone who expects me to do 100% of the work and also read their mind about what they want. And then make me feel horrible afterwards because I didn’t perform up to expectations.
… Ah, exes.
One night stands. Never done it, never will.
I’ve only ever done it with people who made fun of me during/didn’t give me any direction/seemed disappointed they didn’t always get exactly what they wanted. I guess leaving that feeling useless and unlovable is pretty bad.
Just about anything involving a starfish
In prison
When she just lays there like a sex doll
Not trying, not being passionate
Sex with a pillow prince/princess. The biggest turn on is enthusiastic participation.
Bad sex is when it feels transactional, like you’re just checking a box instead of actually connecting with your partner.
No passion, no fun, just going through the motions.
When you know the other person is so thin skinned that you can’t share what you like as they get very insulted they aren’t considered perfect already, without them having asked anything either.
Probably Just piggybacking with the top comment and bunch of other reddit or’s experience but I was with a chick who was had very sensitive nipples. So of course I paid extra attention to them during the action, but foreplay wise I didn’t get much from it was just me pleasuring them once we did move foward from there it was like all the passion and everything left from me, I seen she didn’t want to do anything to me I could’ve even get her to go down on me when I was willing to do it for her. I’m a clean guy, and hygiene is my top priority we expressed boundaries and whatnot so we know what the other likes and wants but in the end from the three times I’ve been with her I always came up short. She got everything while all I got was a handy.
And she had the nerve to say “I think we have something special my friends are jealous of us”
Who is we? We have nothing special between us. She was just using me.
Sex where one or more of the people involved are not enjoying themselves
Selfishness.
Tape
Surely not the one I have 😎 (I’m a virgin)
None at all
Lack of communication/ suggestions/ asking for what works for you or asking what they’re up for. Don’t try to guess. There’s nothing wrong with telling people what gets you off or asking them what they want.
When you die during it
When they are selfish, or doing everything they watched off porno. It’s such a turn off.
Someone who isn’t present.
The unenthusiastic starfish.
Someone who makes no effort, someone with no enthusiasm and bad chemistry
Bad sex = no sex. Everything else I’m just happy to be there.
The one I have with myself.
There would be more, but I talk about fucking before fucking. Like dick size, how I like to touch and to be touched, fetishes, that I don’t participate multitasking, that I don’t like to hug or after care or anything like that, that I get headache for perfumes and scented soaps etc. So I don’t end up fucking with people who want to fuck completely differently or who can’t communicate about their wants.
Check box sex. Having sex because it’s expected but not really being into it. Just doing it to get it done like a task.
A man who tries to reenact porn sex and thinks it feels great for the woman