I (F32) reconnected with an ex-boyfriend (M38) about six months ago. He recently got divorced (a year ago), lives alone, and we meet up for one or two nights a week. We almost always have sex when we see each other, but we rarely go out in public. In the past six months, we’ve only been out twice. I never see him during the day, not even on his off days. I’m confused about what to do.
Whenever we get together, he always has liquor and weed, but never ask if I ate. Not that I need to be fed, it would just be nice if he at least inquired. I go to his house at night, we drink, smoke, have intercouse and I leave. We text each other every single day, mainly small talk but I appreciate the consistency. What advice can u give me please? At this point I’m ready to ghost him but I do like him. What would you do in this situation?
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TL;DR— a 32-year-old woman, has reconnected with her 38-year-old ex-boyfriend, who recently divorced and lives alone. They meet once or twice a week, usually at night, and their interactions primarily involve drinking, smoking, and having sex, with little public outings or daytime meetings. Although they text daily, the user feels uncertain about the relationship due to the lack of emotional depth and consideration from her ex-boyfriend. She is contemplating ghosting him despite liking him and seeks advice on how to proceed.
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You’re in a friends with benefits situation.