I ’26F’ and ’34M’ have been together for 7yrs. Have 3 kids. M5, F3, M1. Last night he told me that he cheated 2mo ago. When I pressed for more info he swears it was a one time thing with someone he previously worked with. He refuses to tell me who the person is.
He told me last night after he complained of headache and I cuddled and prayed over him. He said he hasn’t seen that level of kindness from me in a long time and he then chose to tell me that he cheated 2mo ago. Days before our sons birthday.
Im very hurt. I’ve always been faithful and open about everything (no phone passwords, detailed info on all my plans, etc.) I’ve always given him nothing but trust and believed him when he said hes going here or doing this.
He says that he went to see her to talk about our relationship and get advice but they ended up sleeping together. I admit I havent been the nicest to him and I havnt always been in the mood when he is, often leading to him feeling rejection? I dont know how to move forward as far as convos to have. I dont have the financial means to leave him as it’d be very hard with all the kids right now