My husband wants to divorce because I shared a problem we are having with my family (my sister) He said I betrayed him and stabbed him in the back and he wants to divorce. I found out he was gambling and when I asked him about it, he was defensive then he found out I told my family by going through my texts and he is sticking to that and wants to end things. I told him i told my family i misunderstood and hes not (i cleared his name) but hes still stuck on the fact i vented to them. This is our first fight and we’ve been married a year. I’ve given him space and tried to talk to him about it again, and he keeps saying his decision is final. I dont think this is something people divorce over. I told him i want to rebuild the trust and work on things. I am really hurt and confused. I already apologized for venting and told him it wouldn’t happen again. I felt I received no ownership of the gambling and he doesn’t wanna share more about it because “he’s done”
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My husband wants to divorce because I shared a problem we are having with my family (my sister) He said I betrayed him and stabbed him in the back and he wants to divorce. I found out he was gambling and when I asked him about it, he was defensive then he found out I told my family by going through my texts and he is sticking to that and wants to end things. I told him i told my family i misunderstood and hes not (i cleared his name) but hes still stuck on the fact i vented to them. This is our first fight and we’ve been married a year. I’ve given him space and tried to talk to him about it again, and he keeps saying his decision is final. I dont think this is something people divorce over. I told him i want to rebuild the trust and work on things. I am really hurt and confused. I already apologized for venting and told him it wouldn’t happen again. I felt I received no ownership of the gambling and he doesn’t wanna share more about it because “he’s done”
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