Always rearranging things to be symmetrical or perfectly aligned might seem harmless, but it can say a lot about a person’s need for control or their desire for order in a chaotic world. It may also reflect anxiety or perfectionist tendencies that go deeper than it appears.
Starting to eat before everyone has had their food. Unless you’ve been prompted by the others, this to me shows an absolute lack of sense of feeling among the people!
Running late. Not once or twice of course, but being constantly late no matter what the time, place and occasion all the time, it just shows lack of respect for other people’s time, constant disregard for their own time and a needless and constant habit of procrastination. Had a friend who was always so late he once showed up to his own sister’s surprise birthday party 2 hours late.
How someone treats service workers, like waiters, cashiers, or cleaners. It seems small, but it reveals everything about their empathy, respect, and sense of entitlement.
How one treats animals, or buys an animal and doesn’t have time to train them or take care of them…. I get very judgy on this. no matter how “nice” a person is as soon as I see them mistreat a pet, done.
I have noticed people in my family have a habit of answering the phone no matter what they are doing. Like I will go to my cousins house to spend time with her but if someone calls her she will answer it, and then spend over half an hour talking to someone on the phone and leave me just sitting there waiting for her to get off the phone and a few other people do this as well and it gets me so angry. I just feel if I’m making an effort to go spend some time with my family but they instead talk to someone else for over half an hour on the phone it’s just wasting my time, I would answer the phone and politely let the person know I have visitors and I will call them back later, I wouldn’t just have a full hour chat but maybe I’m weird idk
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Procrastinating. Especially with those small tasks that only take a couple of minutes, but they eventually pile up and take days to finish.
Copy questions on r/AskReddit.
Biting nails.
Shows you’re either anxious or restlwss(or both).
Always rearranging things to be symmetrical or perfectly aligned might seem harmless, but it can say a lot about a person’s need for control or their desire for order in a chaotic world. It may also reflect anxiety or perfectionist tendencies that go deeper than it appears.
Venting constantly. (🥲)
Tipping in restaurants
Starting to eat before everyone has had their food. Unless you’ve been prompted by the others, this to me shows an absolute lack of sense of feeling among the people!
Making you wait for them. No big deal if it’s once in a while, but if you’re noticing it’s happening every time, they’re just selfish.
Believe in everything they read online and “news”
Smoking weed.
It’s for people to relax, but they also use it to cope. And they can get too into it to the point of disregarding others.
Like, don’t even joke about instant coffee around them unless you want a 40-minute TED Talk.
Watching videos or playing games on your phone without headphones
You KNOW it annoys everyone around you, but you do it anyway
Telling stories where they’re always the victim or hero — it seems harmless, but it usually means they need validation or struggle with accountability
Running late. Not once or twice of course, but being constantly late no matter what the time, place and occasion all the time, it just shows lack of respect for other people’s time, constant disregard for their own time and a needless and constant habit of procrastination. Had a friend who was always so late he once showed up to his own sister’s surprise birthday party 2 hours late.
Pushing your beliefs on others
If you’re a christian or belief abortion is wrong, you do you
Don’t try and push your beliefs on me. I’m doing me.
Addicted to social media. Speaks volumes on who they are.
Talkin shit about things/others they dislike
How someone treats service workers, like waiters, cashiers, or cleaners. It seems small, but it reveals everything about their empathy, respect, and sense of entitlement.
When people judge what other people do, when it has no affect on their life.
Not bringing the cart back to the grocery store.
Getting on reddit and posting/ upvoting these braindead bitching posts daily.
Self deprecation
Drinking milk from the carton
Uncomfortable keeping their mouth shut for any period of time.
Watching pornography.
Am i hallucinating or have i seen like 10 different posts about “harmless habits” on this sub just this week?
Farting loudly.
Always has to talk over you.
How one treats animals, or buys an animal and doesn’t have time to train them or take care of them…. I get very judgy on this. no matter how “nice” a person is as soon as I see them mistreat a pet, done.
Walking alone
The way they talk to less privileged people
I have noticed people in my family have a habit of answering the phone no matter what they are doing. Like I will go to my cousins house to spend time with her but if someone calls her she will answer it, and then spend over half an hour talking to someone on the phone and leave me just sitting there waiting for her to get off the phone and a few other people do this as well and it gets me so angry. I just feel if I’m making an effort to go spend some time with my family but they instead talk to someone else for over half an hour on the phone it’s just wasting my time, I would answer the phone and politely let the person know I have visitors and I will call them back later, I wouldn’t just have a full hour chat but maybe I’m weird idk
Someone who eats or uses animals in any capacity, especially people who eat meat.