I get turned on instantly when my partner strokes my hair and breathes on my neck. So arousing!
What’s a non-sexual thing a woman does to you that get’s you turned on instantly?
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I get turned on instantly when my partner strokes my hair and breathes on my neck. So arousing!
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I get turned on instantly when my partner strokes my hair and when she plays with my nipples. So arousing!
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My wife does this really neat trick called existing. Such a turn on! Non sexual things about her that turn me on:
Great cook
When she feels confident with herself
When she talks about her job (bank lingo specifically)
When shes about to fall asleep and she nudges her leg over onto mine.
Holding my hand
Telling me she appreciates me.
Bust out an excited monolog about their passion or career.
That, and hair flipping.
Insists on picking up the check at dinner or the bar.
When they order me around I guess? Like when they’re being bossy. I like that.
Not argue and ask about my day
smile. say something interesting about wht he likes.
When they come to my defence and back me up against someone who’s being a jerk to me.
When they say something clever.
When they’re kind to people and understand other opinions even if they disagree
when she ties her hair to do something… just drives me fuking nuts
Laughter, either laughing at my joke or making me laugh
Smells good 👌🏻
Them being nice and care-taking
Acknowledge my existence. That’s literally it lol.
When they go on about their nurturing side and take care of you.
I experience this at work a lot and always develop a work crush when a female coworker starts trying to feed me or take care of me 😩
A hug and I realize she has a good smelling perfume on. Also back or head scratches with long nails feels incredible
Consoling me if I’m having a really bad day and need to let out a really good cry
Any type of stretching in front of me. Like standing up to stretch her back and lord help me if she is wearing leggings or yoga pants while doing this.
Posture
Just saying hi
being hilarious. if she’s the type who would rather be entertained than entertaining she’s not the sparring partner i’m looking for.
Touches the back of my head. I remember going to the hairdressers and getting a shampoo/head massage before a cut… boyyyyy did that turn me on!
Eat soup
Ask me if I want to have sex.
Kisses my neck and ear
Honestly my partner just has to look at me.
The act of getting ready for date night. The hair. The makeup. The outfits. All of it
Docking with me 👉🏾👈🏾
Tie up her hair.
Eats a banana.
Playing bass Guitar. Idk why, but man…
Being possessive of me. 🤤
When she has the same hobbies as me. Like if she’s also into cars, major turn on!!!!
Just being happy to see me, or seeming like they genuinely miss me if we haven’t seen each other for a while.
Has a pulse
Not turned on physically, but mentally, if a woman can engage in a conversation and actually has an opinion and it can turn into a discussion where she’ll counter argue in a healthy non-aggressive way I am immediately paying attention and green flagging her as a attractive person.
Same applies the other way, I don’t care if she’s a 7/5 if she gives up immediately or a discussion feels like an arguement because ‘fuck you I’m right and my mind is too small to take in anyone elses opinion’, I will avoid her like the plague.
Small home made gifts, like cards, notes, etc.
Big mouth yawn with a stretch. wow
Roast me with quick wit
Probably prolonged eye contact and setting up her hair !
That look….
…cut my hair…I have no idea why that turns me on but getting my hair cut by the girls at great clips gets me hot and bothered
Emotional intelligence is fucking dank
Whenever she has bought new clothes and tries them on for me to see
Having a pure heart and radiating positivity and kindness.
I’d die for a woman like that.
I like when when they talk to me
Pulling their hair back with their arms over their head
Showing a genuine interest in a conversation and asking questions is sooooooo hot to me.
Sandwich. 😍
Self-care/taking care of themselves!
Brings me a previously-lost 10mm socket.
Make me feel like im valuable.
Talk about art passionately – it is so damn sexy
I’d like a hug
Whispers in my ear.
Catching an offsides or icing when we’re watching hockey.
Tied my shoes, like im capable but damn
PDA in any form, hand-holding, hug, lil smooch,
Is appreciative and nice in a way that doesn’t feel transactional.
Laugh to my jokes and likes my music
Being confident.
Leave the room so I can fuck a dude.
Hold/fire a gun like she knows what she’s doing.
same music taste
Not promiscuous
Idk about turned on but they’re definitely cuter if they can wrinkle their nose.
If we’re talking about my wife? Then basically anything. She can just look at me smiling,and I’m ready to go
I like it when a woman outsmarts me without being a dick about it
Like if a woman and myself are talking and she shows how smart she is or how she has insight or higher understanding or whatever that exceeds my own? I quickly begin thinking about either leaving so that I can privately attend to business or staying to just enjoy this smart as fuck woman
I love a woman who can disagree with me but it’s important that she doesn’t remind me of my abusive father during the process. Being physically or emotionally abusive during the argument is an instant turn-off
Im a relatively introverted dude, so when she does some extroverted shit to help me… whoo. I “accidentally” got her pregnant after she told my boss to fuck himself when he was being as asshole to me in the parking lot.
Hugs. It might sound sad but I have gotten a boner from a hug before
Be a little bit tipsy. Not drunk, just 2 drinks. My gf can’t handle alcohol at all and she had 2 seltzers and the way she acted was so much fun. Not at all like a drunk but more loose with jokes and poking fun
A smile that reveals dimples.
My wife walking around in fuzzy socks and shorts.
Her laughing.
Her getting flustered about something simple.
Her rolling over in the morning and wrapping her leg around me while her head is on my chest.
Honestly just about everything that she does.
Its sort of old-fashioned and even unheard of behavior in this day and age, but demonstrating even the slightest bit of loyalty really grabs my goat.
Smelling good
Puts her hair up in a ponytail. Or talk about sports.
Pays attention to me
When she exists
I’m a low key belly button whore, guilty 🙋♂️. Show me your belly button ladies and it’s schwiiing!!!
Just walking around the house looking like she does.
Tradicional woman
Enthusiasm
So many… A woman’s walk, Smile, playfulness, sense of humor, smell, personality… True nature of being.
Confidence
Scratches my back. A good scratching can leave me as satisfied as sex.
It’s not instant but it’s highly important. When listens with the intent to understand. Contrasted with Big Bombastic Boss-B… energy, quiet listening is very attractive.
I like women that walk fast. Idk why it’s just so sexy. I think it’s bc most people walk slow though, and women walk the slowest in my experience especially in groups.
Scratching the back of my head. Instant relaxation.
Be obsessed with music. Or any art
Curly hair
In immature sense of humour works well.
When my wife acts all coy and shy, smiling and looking away, that revs my engine,
When I know that she actually listens to me, not just being polite, even though she may not be that interested in the subject we’re talking about.
My fiance has to pick up her hair so she doesn’t sit on it when she sits down, so she does this little head tilt forward and slightly to the side then gathers her hair in one hand and drapes half her hair over her shoulder and the other half down her back.
A sweet voice and a summerdress are more than enough for me.
There are several, but one in particular I’ll share:
She’s always smiling, but she has a certain smile that’s just for me.
Doesn’t interrupt me when I’m nerding out over something, or actually shows compassion when something is wrong.
RemindMe! 2 days
When my wife rubs my earlobes. I don’t know why, but it feels so damn good. Maybe it’s because that is a part of my body that pretty much never has any touch?
A wink when no one notices
Not talking to much
Unbuttoning her jeans after a big meal. Idk why
When she scratches my beard
Breathing
Hug
When she’s really really good at something. Alternatively, when he has a decent amount of knowledge on the things I’m interested in. Like demonstrating that she knows how to change the oil in a car, for example.. I’d be bricked for days!
When they don’t try to be anything but themselves