What’s a personality trait people often praise you for — but you secretly resent?
What’s a personality trait people often praise you for — but you secretly resent?
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What’s a personality trait people often praise you for — but you secretly resent?
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Being a good listener. People always come to me with their problems and say how comforting I am… but sometimes I just want someone to listen to me for once. It’s draining.
How punctual and organised I am. Buy a damn watch and use it, I am always hanging around waiting for someone.
My “resilience”. I’ve been through hella tough times and I wish I didn’t have to have the strength I have. It’s meant people relying on me to hold space and lead tough conversations, take on the most challenging issues in work, etc. Even though it’s due to already having a significant trauma history. I just want the dream of a “soft life” and some ease!