When they talk to you and look over your shoulder, avoiding any eye contact.
When they do name dropping trying to impress you.
When they run a charitable foundation for children, and you google their name and 2nd result has “assault” and arrest and “Charged with kidnapping and assault with a deadly weapon”.
All this in one person that is trying to sell me a house as a realtor… nice try dude.
When you point out injustice and they say, “Let’s not get political,”…,,, It’s a cop out to say you are okay justifying hurting a group of people based on your shitty beliefs.
Well I go off of instinct. One of my biggest red flags are folks that crush your hand when they go to shake it. Normal, respectful people, let you get a grip before the squeeze. Control freaks and power freaks tend to try crushing your hand the second you extend it.
Being a “pacifist” or having an “easy going no bad vibes” persona. I’ve met multiple people like this who were actually assholes deep down. My father included.
My smile is lopsided, probably because I had an unusual case of Bell’s palsy in my 20s that never totally went away. It puts some people off because that’s body language for “not trustworthy.”
Short women. Women who are 5’1″ and shorter freak me out. Not little people. Just normal women of very short stature. I get the heebee geebees from women that size.
When someone lets their kids act like hellions in a doctor’s office waiting room, at a funeral home, or some other place where it’s very inappropriate to act like a hellion.
There are a few tell-tale signs of a narcissistic person, if you find you you can confirm with other signs :
I will call them a narc
The people closest to a narc – their opinion doesn’t matter if they are family. But the closest inner circle – that’s a law.
They can give a super honest opinion about some thing ( without an iota of empathy) – ex : this food is shit.
The honesty never visible , when it’s a great dish or a great job
A narc just wants to win,winning is the objective. Narc can kiss ass or burn the world down – if that’s what it takes but can’t take a loss. He will not engage with the person he lost, he will deny to death – he can’t take an L
They are the best for a company – the ceo, cto, coo, cia … All are narcs. That’s how they get there. They can work very well for a company bottom line. They sure don’t have an ounce of good faith though. It’s all smoke
Smile. Their eyes are “half” smiling while their mouth is cracking a smirk rather than a genuine smile. Fake niceness that comes with that mask, implying there are definitely some kind of hidden agenda.
People who are narcissistic and think they are the smartest, the best, the prettiest, etc. Most things are subjective. And unless you have won the Olympics or have attained world fame, I seriously doubt you are actually the “best.” And even then, there is probably someone better.
Ok so I live in a town just outside of Québec City, where folks be… I dunno.. in Canada. Now don’t get me wrong – I collect flags but, hell, if the only flag you are flying in your front yard of all places – especially in these awkward times, is the Star-Spangled Banner, as opposed to the Maple Leaf, letalone the Fleurdelisé… I get some serious MAGA vibes. No cap! Not exactly a common practice this side of the border, believe you me.
Face tattoos, unless they are Maori (even then it’s hit or miss). Bleached hair, or bright fake color. Piercings of the face. Fake eyelashes. Nasty fake nails.
When they have a negative response for everything. You: “What a nice sunny day” – Them: It might not be nice for everyone maybe some people don’t like the sun!”
When they conclude every statement with a pursed-lipped, upturned mouth and a squinty, too-direct stare. Like they are posing and waiting for your amazed and praiseful response.
i’m admittedly a grumpy introvert that rather be alone or with my SO than around people but here’s some of many things that gives me bad vibes…
-making your political stance your whole identity -bathing with only your hands and soap
-having to post every single thing you do to social media
-people that expect traditionalism in a relationship dynamic but gets offended when you ask for it back
-attempting to fish for compliments by complaining about how unattractive you are even though you believe otherwise
-complaining about your weight and/or love life even though you’re not actively trying to do anything to improve either
-inviting company over knowing you have a disgusting bathroom and/or no clean dishes
-making last minute plans with me and expecting me to be ready within the next thirty minutes to an hour (i’m just a girl 🥺)
-not valuing your friendships but taking any and every piece of abuse from your significant other
I’ve always judged people if they immediately launch in to their work personality. Hard to see someone if their entire game is the rat race, feel extremely outside to me if the only thing they are able to talk about in life is what work makes them. Not a whole lot of trust there in a lot of times in which they’re able to see past face value.
I don’t mind some work talk don’t get me wrong, but if it’s everything for you jeez I just assume you love money or lack an actual identity of your own
Any topic that comes up in discussion, they immediately open their mouth and spout off the first thing that comes to their minds as if it’s a fact.
People who aren’t capable of saying “I don’t know” and who always have to have an answer for everything even when they obviously don’t know what the hell they’re talking about seem to often be the same people who aren’t ever willing to admit that they were wrong about something and who get aggressive when someone disagrees with them.
When someone starts small talk by overexplaining a topic they find fascinating, except its a topic I happen to know a lot about but they ignore me if I say I’m already familiar.
One of many real examples: they’re monologuing about a medical condition they heard about and found fascinating, I’m diagnosed with that condition and interject to say that, and then they just… keep explaining the condition in great detail as if I’ve never heard of it. That’s not a conversation. That’s someone who likes to listen to themselves talk.
When I hand someone something and they grab it out of my hand very fast and unnecessarily urgent, like in a greedy way.
When I do something silly and a random person will give me a “death stare”, the equivalent of when someone hisses and acts like a vampire. I literally would prefer to throw these autistic, cringe people down a bottomless pit.
When a person says they hate an animal. I feel like hate is such a strong word and I can’t fathom how anyone can hate animals.
I understand if you prefer a dog over a cat as a pet, but saying you hate cats is going too far, imo. And the same in reverse; saying you hate dogs is also terrible.
People who think that emptying the trash and mowing the lawn are the only chores they need to do because they choose to overload themselves with their work.
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Greedy and inability to ascertain there effect on various other people.
Too much gold jewelry
When they brag about how much people “can’t handle their honesty.”
Co workers on the same level at you at work acting like your manager
They come back from the bathroom and their hands are bone dry
Someone who’s mean to waiters but sweet to their friends
Having super intense eyes.
People who constantly one-up every story you tell
When their entire personality is just “being brutally honest.”
Somebody that whispers/talks to themselves in public. Also how they treat animals.
MAGA hat
Anyone who talks sh*t about their “best friends” the second they leave.
When they have zero respect for personal space — like standing too close immediately
Chewing gum while getting a lapdance.
Chronic complainers who never offer solutions, just drama
When they talk to you and look over your shoulder, avoiding any eye contact.
When they do name dropping trying to impress you.
When they run a charitable foundation for children, and you google their name and 2nd result has “assault” and arrest and “Charged with kidnapping and assault with a deadly weapon”.
All this in one person that is trying to sell me a house as a realtor… nice try dude.
When you point out injustice and they say, “Let’s not get political,”…,,, It’s a cop out to say you are okay justifying hurting a group of people based on your shitty beliefs.
Saying, “If I’m being honest”, “to be honest”, or “honestly”….. so what you’re saying is you’re a liar?!
When they describe all their exes as “crazy” without any self-awareness
Pinpoint pupils
Democrat in 2025.
Limp handshake
People who gossip about their loved ones to their other loved ones after doing something for their loved one
smoking. the hottest person becomes a bridge troll at that point.
Rudeness
When my dog doesn’t like them.
Anyone who goes on about how much of an empath they are. In my experience people like this are the least empathetic people you will ever meet.
Someone who uses the term “politically correct.” You know they’re harboring a bunch of shitty beliefs that they’re just itching to share.
When they answer every question with a question or no reply.
Well I go off of instinct. One of my biggest red flags are folks that crush your hand when they go to shake it. Normal, respectful people, let you get a grip before the squeeze. Control freaks and power freaks tend to try crushing your hand the second you extend it.
Long artificial nails
Someone who wants to live.
Being rude to the elderly
Saying “literally” when they mean figuratively.
Always doing a smug smile
Calling people “buddy.”
Being a “pacifist” or having an “easy going no bad vibes” persona. I’ve met multiple people like this who were actually assholes deep down. My father included.
My smile is lopsided, probably because I had an unusual case of Bell’s palsy in my 20s that never totally went away. It puts some people off because that’s body language for “not trustworthy.”
People who call any predominantly black or brown neighborhood “sketchy”.
People who appear to be nice to you but would only be real about stuff to their actual friends
Short women. Women who are 5’1″ and shorter freak me out. Not little people. Just normal women of very short stature. I get the heebee geebees from women that size.
People who want you to be impressed by their “perfect family” and talk about how they are a family man/woman/person
When someone lets their kids act like hellions in a doctor’s office waiting room, at a funeral home, or some other place where it’s very inappropriate to act like a hellion.
“I’m a good Christian.”
Black, dead eyes.
There are a few tell-tale signs of a narcissistic person, if you find you you can confirm with other signs :
I will call them a narc
The people closest to a narc – their opinion doesn’t matter if they are family. But the closest inner circle – that’s a law.
They can give a super honest opinion about some thing ( without an iota of empathy) – ex : this food is shit.
The honesty never visible , when it’s a great dish or a great job
A narc just wants to win,winning is the objective. Narc can kiss ass or burn the world down – if that’s what it takes but can’t take a loss. He will not engage with the person he lost, he will deny to death – he can’t take an L
They are the best for a company – the ceo, cto, coo, cia … All are narcs. That’s how they get there. They can work very well for a company bottom line. They sure don’t have an ounce of good faith though. It’s all smoke
when theyr deathly afraid of bugs and animals, they cant even handle a tiny bug bow could they handle being around someone different 💀
Smile. Their eyes are “half” smiling while their mouth is cracking a smirk rather than a genuine smile. Fake niceness that comes with that mask, implying there are definitely some kind of hidden agenda.
When someone makes sure to tell people “I don’t judge.”
People who are narcissistic and think they are the smartest, the best, the prettiest, etc. Most things are subjective. And unless you have won the Olympics or have attained world fame, I seriously doubt you are actually the “best.” And even then, there is probably someone better.
Ok so I live in a town just outside of Québec City, where folks be… I dunno.. in Canada. Now don’t get me wrong – I collect flags but, hell, if the only flag you are flying in your front yard of all places – especially in these awkward times, is the Star-Spangled Banner, as opposed to the Maple Leaf, letalone the Fleurdelisé… I get some serious MAGA vibes. No cap! Not exactly a common practice this side of the border, believe you me.
They’re the victim in every single story they tell other people. If you smell like shit everywhere you go,check your own shoes. 🤷♀️
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Masculine-looking men wearing headbands. Especially if it’s the zig-zag kind from the 90’s.
People who preach empathy but tear others down the second they’re not around.
People who use the word “woke” as a negative
Face tattoos, unless they are Maori (even then it’s hit or miss). Bleached hair, or bright fake color. Piercings of the face. Fake eyelashes. Nasty fake nails.
People who refuse to learn names.
Male-centered women who only take advice from men (even if it’s wrong) and ignore any woman around her and even ignores her own judgment
When they have a negative response for everything. You: “What a nice sunny day” – Them: It might not be nice for everyone maybe some people don’t like the sun!”
Hundreds of random people on socials they have to keep appearances with hourly
People who talk about others around me. I hate this type especially. I know as soon as I walk out the room I’m the next thing to be talked about.
Satanic 5 star tattoos
Backing into parking spaces
When they conclude every statement with a pursed-lipped, upturned mouth and a squinty, too-direct stare. Like they are posing and waiting for your amazed and praiseful response.
The way they talk to their partner.
Someone who lies compulsively, always talk about themselves,not respecting or ignoring boundaries,ignoring you while speaking
i’m admittedly a grumpy introvert that rather be alone or with my SO than around people but here’s some of many things that gives me bad vibes…
-making your political stance your whole identity -bathing with only your hands and soap
-having to post every single thing you do to social media
-people that expect traditionalism in a relationship dynamic but gets offended when you ask for it back
-attempting to fish for compliments by complaining about how unattractive you are even though you believe otherwise
-complaining about your weight and/or love life even though you’re not actively trying to do anything to improve either
-inviting company over knowing you have a disgusting bathroom and/or no clean dishes
-making last minute plans with me and expecting me to be ready within the next thirty minutes to an hour (i’m just a girl 🥺)
-not valuing your friendships but taking any and every piece of abuse from your significant other
Always plays the victim
People who take a lot of selfies (not with other people) of just themselves.
I’ve always judged people if they immediately launch in to their work personality. Hard to see someone if their entire game is the rat race, feel extremely outside to me if the only thing they are able to talk about in life is what work makes them. Not a whole lot of trust there in a lot of times in which they’re able to see past face value.
I don’t mind some work talk don’t get me wrong, but if it’s everything for you jeez I just assume you love money or lack an actual identity of your own
Dirty fingernails
Telling me their sexuality with no prompting whatsoever.
Claiming to be an ”Alpha”. I will completely write off anything else the jackass says
When they are so sweet and friendly from the get go straight away and act like they’ve known you forever. I’ve had experiences with this.
People who interrupt/talk over you. No thanks I’m not into it.
When they complain about someone just doing their service industry job. Or someone who brags about their masculinity and gets into pissing contests
People who always have an answer.
Any topic that comes up in discussion, they immediately open their mouth and spout off the first thing that comes to their minds as if it’s a fact.
People who aren’t capable of saying “I don’t know” and who always have to have an answer for everything even when they obviously don’t know what the hell they’re talking about seem to often be the same people who aren’t ever willing to admit that they were wrong about something and who get aggressive when someone disagrees with them.
Seeing themselves as victims of everyone and everything
Overly charismatic people, they can manipulate you without you realising it and make you believe what they want by lying very, very well
When someone starts small talk by overexplaining a topic they find fascinating, except its a topic I happen to know a lot about but they ignore me if I say I’m already familiar.
One of many real examples: they’re monologuing about a medical condition they heard about and found fascinating, I’m diagnosed with that condition and interject to say that, and then they just… keep explaining the condition in great detail as if I’ve never heard of it. That’s not a conversation. That’s someone who likes to listen to themselves talk.
People who turn everything into a competition. Obsessed with winning. Always think they’re better than everyone else.
When they wear a large crucifix around their neck, OUTSIDE of their clothing so everyone can see it.
When they say “I’m a republican”
Perma-smiling. Resting smile face is way more off putting than RBF in my opinion.
Someone who interrupts you while you are talking. Like they physically can’t listen to anything but their own voice.
When they talk bad about others behind their back, especially their friends.
when a woman says they dont like other woman and only have male friends.
And when people tell me they know me in a flirtation manner, after meeting me 5 minutes prior.
Someone that speaks negatively about other people and it’s never them it’s always the other people…
Bone face and hoodies.
Said this a hundred times, someone who closes their eyes while speaking to you Everyone I’ve met who does this has major personality problems.
When they are rude to waiting staff.
When I hand someone something and they grab it out of my hand very fast and unnecessarily urgent, like in a greedy way.
When I do something silly and a random person will give me a “death stare”, the equivalent of when someone hisses and acts like a vampire. I literally would prefer to throw these autistic, cringe people down a bottomless pit.
People who tell me about their crazy ex, crazy neighbors, or crazy family, or all three, when I just met them and didn’t ask.
One, I didn’t ask. Two, you are not always the victim in every situation.
You start that up? I know everything I need to know about you, and I’m ghosting you.
keeps telling you how good of a person they are
When a person says they hate an animal. I feel like hate is such a strong word and I can’t fathom how anyone can hate animals.
I understand if you prefer a dog over a cat as a pet, but saying you hate cats is going too far, imo. And the same in reverse; saying you hate dogs is also terrible.
People who think that emptying the trash and mowing the lawn are the only chores they need to do because they choose to overload themselves with their work.
Someone who is too nice. I don’t kiss ass, and I certainly don’t like someone trying to kiss my ass. Fake just rubs me the wrong way.
When they smell really foul lol
Women who laugh excessively loud
Own a cybertruck.
Someone who takes food off someone else’s plate without asking
People who wear wrap-around sunglasses. Serious ick but I can’t explain it
I don t like people who ask me too many questions.
Idk about bad vibes but when I’m in line at the grocery store and the person behind me stands as close as possible to me. Please back off.
Undressing a beautiful trans female but upon discovering a penis instantly killed the vibe. Beautiful person but not my thing.